Why do liberal women on dating sites frequently say "don't contact me unless you hate Trump?" but conservative women don't make analogous statements? (Page 2)
Have you tried okcupid yet? About the question, I've never noticed that before however it might be true based in my experience with some friends. I'm a conservative and I feel liberals are always too intolerant towards different opinions
I have not tried OKCupid. I have previously tried match, POF, and a Catholic dating site (I am not Catholic but I am Lutheran and I get along with Catholics very well) which is not defunct. I am currently on Bumble and POF.
I haven't been on a dating site in many years so I can't address the issue directly. I do know liberal women who dated Trump supporters and couldn't stand them. So, it's possible that other women have had such experiences and put in disclaimers to keep them away.
It's interesting how much effort you put into arguing that liberal women are intolerant, suggesting by contrast that conservative women are tolerant. I certainly have not had this experience. I'd say that at least 90% of the intolerance that I see on G@G is from Trump supporters. Not only are they intolerant but they flaunt it. Liberals are intolerant of Trump supporters (I certainly am), but Trump supporters are intolerant of EVERYONE who does not think or look like them. That is by far the greater intolerance.
Right. And not a single conservative woman expressed any ill feelings towards AOC, Pelosi, Biden, Obama, Warren, Sanders, or anyone else. Do you think that no one on the left is as "evil" as Trump?
No. I don’t think any of them are as corrupt or currently damaging as trump.
I think AOC is an idiot and Sanders delusional. I think either one of them would be as damaging for America and the world if they were president but one tries to remain optimistic that someone remotely competent might get the role. Or at least someone who delegates appropriately. I’m Canadian and our prime minister is an absolute mentally vacant lightweight but... he doesn’t imagine he should be coming up with new ideas and when dealing with foreign countries does what he’s being told to do by those behind him.
Honestly I would find it pretty understandable if someone couldn’t handle dating a die hard Sanders supporter who walks around hating Pelosi for being a right wing neoliberal (in their eyes).
People who’d walk around hating Pelosi, Warren or Biden I find suspect... just as I’d find hating Paul Ryan or Romney odd.
I have been off the market for 3 decades but the times we live in a very bizarre. I was torn between two opinions. These women don't seriously think that anyone is going to be interested in them. I know if I were a man I would scroll right by.
One of the differences between Trump and other politicians is that he was caught making that comment on video. Do you think there are no liberals who engage in such behavior?
Well, you are attempting to rationalize the liberal mind with what appears to be your analytical self. I would equate that to attempting to organize chaos. These liberals are emotionally driven only and any attempt to understand the random twisted nature of their sporadic “thoughts” will only frustrate one such as you. About the only thing that can come close to explaining these liberals is the group emotion by collectivism. Conservative women do rationalize and have the ability to analyze so they will tend to appear to be more tolerant of issues not that they necessarily are in every case. The current Trump hate emotion within the liberal horde is a good filter to be aware of and I say it is a fortunate thing. Don’t look a gift horse…
They're not liberals, it's like I keep saying on here. They may not think of themselves that way but it's the ideology they follow that does it. These fuckers are communists and they'll kill you. Just imagine if a girl posed in a Nazi uniform or made Nazi dog whistles all the time. It's that bad , just more accepted by society because people don't aren't schooled about commies. But , the end result is the same.
Many of the woman have identified themselves as conservatives. I understand the social pressure to which you allude but it is far less a factor at my age.
Liberals say they are open minded all the time but they are the 1st to throw hate towards someone. they are some of the most intolerant group of people. if you dont kiss there asses they are the 1st to sling mud and lie. i personally dont understand why anyone in there right mind if want to date a liberal. they should do us all a favor and just make up a website just for liberals. i wouldn't ever date or marry a liberal woman they are filled with hate and intolerance and i dont need that in my life know bunch of you guys are going to bitch and cry i will save you trouble and dont bother.
Trump is that dispicable to a lot of people. But how is their preference any different than the list of answers you give.. it's exactly the same thing. both are Just a way to cement the polarization that inflicts our politics and lives I have had enough really. Not you O&W you are posing a question to us all.. I get it...
I will venture to say, that most Trump supporters are enchanted and a lot of if not most non Supporters are fervent anti Trumpers extreme left and extreme right Trump in the middle of it. LOL
Trump lives on this conflict and does whatever he needs to to keep it going.. and that is why most Anti Trumpers avoid the enchanted, and I suspect the far right do the same, there will be no civil discourse between the two. Humans are humans and react in a predictable manner for the most part.
The extreme left is as bad as the extreme right and vise versa.
I don't care who you go for, so long as you aren't a racist, a dick to people, and don't try and force your beliefs down other's throats because frankly, all sides have those extremes.
Oh yeah this question isn't slanted or biased at all. In all seriousness thought, i have noticed that there are a lot more people who consider you a trump supporter if you think he shouldn't be assassinated.
I am candidly reporting what I saw when I looked at many profiles. I didn't see a single profile that said 'fuck you if you support Bernie Sanders.' Not one.
Wow I feel sorry for people who actually focus on national politics. Nationally your everyday life is not affected. Open your eyes how is a 2 party system Democratic they are both on the same side. 99% of Americans are purple and have at least one view in agreement for the opposing party.
Its like half this country is in a trance. At one time you could stand with someone politicaly democrat or republican. Talk intelligently with opposing view points. But under guise of what they call progressive this is no longer allowed. Your either with them or against them and its a shame.
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It's because of the abortion issue. If you don't agree with how someone lives their life, why would you want to date them any way? They want a guy that agrees with their fertility choices. 🤷
If you are extremely radical in your beliefs you can not tollerate opposing arguments. The date would end in a massive fight over Trump most likely. So i don't blame them for putting up a statement but it does show the fragile state they are in as i'd personally be able to date a socialist as long as she respects my views and enjoys a non heated discussion.
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Have you tried okcupid yet?
About the question, I've never noticed that before however it might be true based in my experience with some friends. I'm a conservative and I feel liberals are always too intolerant towards different opinions
I have not tried OKCupid. I have previously tried match, POF, and a Catholic dating site (I am not Catholic but I am Lutheran and I get along with Catholics very well) which is not defunct. I am currently on Bumble and POF.
Never heard of POF. And I actually never got to know how to use bumble. I'd recommend okc.
POF = Plenty of Fish
Never heard of it. Thanks!
I have had good results using POF.
Is it paid?
You can use POF for free but you get more functions available if you pay.
I haven't been on a dating site in many years so I can't address the issue directly. I do know liberal women who dated Trump supporters and couldn't stand them. So, it's possible that other women have had such experiences and put in disclaimers to keep them away.
It's interesting how much effort you put into arguing that liberal women are intolerant, suggesting by contrast that conservative women are tolerant. I certainly have not had this experience. I'd say that at least 90% of the intolerance that I see on G@G is from Trump supporters. Not only are they intolerant but they flaunt it. Liberals are intolerant of Trump supporters (I certainly am), but Trump supporters are intolerant of EVERYONE who does not think or look like them. That is by far the greater intolerance.
So none of them said “don’t contact me unless you hate Mitt Romney” or something similar?
its perhaps worth considering that Trump really is not in the same category as most other senior republicans OR democrats.
Right. And not a single conservative woman expressed any ill feelings towards AOC, Pelosi, Biden, Obama, Warren, Sanders, or anyone else. Do you think that no one on the left is as "evil" as Trump?
No. I don’t think any of them are as corrupt or currently damaging as trump.
I think AOC is an idiot and Sanders delusional. I think either one of them would be as damaging for America and the world if they were president but one tries to remain optimistic that someone remotely competent might get the role. Or at least someone who delegates appropriately. I’m Canadian and our prime minister is an absolute mentally vacant lightweight but... he doesn’t imagine he should be coming up with new ideas and when dealing with foreign countries does what he’s being told to do by those behind him.
Honestly I would find it pretty understandable if someone couldn’t handle dating a die hard Sanders supporter who walks around hating Pelosi for being a right wing neoliberal (in their eyes).
People who’d walk around hating Pelosi, Warren or Biden I find suspect... just as I’d find hating Paul Ryan or Romney odd.
I have been off the market for 3 decades but the times we live in a very bizarre. I was torn between two opinions. These women don't seriously think that anyone is going to be interested in them. I know if I were a man I would scroll right by.
They don't want to date someone who supports a guy who thinks its okay to "grab em by the pussy"
Why does that sound soo unreasonable?
Also a very generalised question
One of the differences between Trump and other politicians is that he was caught making that comment on video. Do you think there are no liberals who engage in such behavior?
Well, you are attempting to rationalize the liberal mind with what appears to be your analytical self. I would equate that to attempting to organize chaos. These liberals are emotionally driven only and any attempt to understand the random twisted nature of their sporadic “thoughts” will only frustrate one such as you. About the only thing that can come close to explaining these liberals is the group emotion by collectivism. Conservative women do rationalize and have the ability to analyze so they will tend to appear to be more tolerant of issues not that they necessarily are in every case. The current Trump hate emotion within the liberal horde is a good filter to be aware of and I say it is a fortunate thing. Don’t look a gift horse…
They're not liberals, it's like I keep saying on here. They may not think of themselves that way but it's the ideology they follow that does it. These fuckers are communists and they'll kill you. Just imagine if a girl posed in a Nazi uniform or made Nazi dog whistles all the time. It's that bad , just more accepted by society because people don't aren't schooled about commies. But , the end result is the same.
I feel like it's more socially accepted to be liberal than conservative. The conservatives might not want everyone to know their political beliefs.
Many of the woman have identified themselves as conservatives. I understand the social pressure to which you allude but it is far less a factor at my age.
Liberals say they are open minded all the time but they are the 1st to throw hate towards someone. they are some of the most intolerant group of people. if you dont kiss there asses they are the 1st to sling mud and lie. i personally dont understand why anyone in there right mind if want to date a liberal. they should do us all a favor and just make up a website just for liberals. i wouldn't ever date or marry a liberal woman they are filled with hate and intolerance and i dont need that in my life know bunch of you guys are going to bitch and cry i will save you trouble and dont bother.
Trump is that dispicable to a lot of people. But how is their preference any different than the list of answers you give.. it's exactly the same thing. both are Just a way to cement the polarization that inflicts our politics and lives I have had enough really. Not you O&W you are posing a question to us all.. I get it...
I will venture to say, that most Trump supporters are enchanted and a lot of if not most non Supporters are fervent anti Trumpers extreme left and extreme right Trump in the middle of it. LOL
Trump lives on this conflict and does whatever he needs to to keep it going.. and that is why most Anti Trumpers avoid the enchanted, and I suspect the far right do the same, there will be no civil discourse between the two. Humans are humans and react in a predictable manner for the most part.
The extreme left is as bad as the extreme right and vise versa.
I don't care who you go for, so long as you aren't a racist, a dick to people, and don't try and force your beliefs down other's throats because frankly, all sides have those extremes.
Oh yeah this question isn't slanted or biased at all. In all seriousness thought, i have noticed that there are a lot more people who consider you a trump supporter if you think he shouldn't be assassinated.
I am candidly reporting what I saw when I looked at many profiles. I didn't see a single profile that said 'fuck you if you support Bernie Sanders.' Not one.
Wow I feel sorry for people who actually focus on national politics. Nationally your everyday life is not affected. Open your eyes how is a 2 party system Democratic they are both on the same side. 99% of Americans are purple and have at least one view in agreement for the opposing party.
us Conservative women are more attractive, liberals look like they've been bred from trolls
So you date women then?
@talloak no dumbass, I said us conservative women, I'm a conservative woman
Humble as well.
The correct answer is D, E and F.
Liberals in general today are the most intolerant segment of society.
They are obviously immature if they are going to say something like that in their dating profile.
And in my experience women who are that rabidly liberal tend to have low IQs.
You should try dating in DC or the DC area, Older! It's been polarized since at least Bush 43's first election!
Because the shrieking at the top of their lungs about how much they hate Trump is something that is standard behavior for them.
I can understand not wanting to date someone with opposing political views, but those statements aren't sexy.
Its like half this country is in a trance. At one time you could stand with someone politicaly democrat or republican. Talk intelligently with opposing view points. But under guise of what they call progressive this is no longer allowed. Your either with them or against them and its a shame.
It's because of the abortion issue. If you don't agree with how someone lives their life, why would you want to date them any way? They want a guy that agrees with their fertility choices. 🤷
I dated a liberal for two years and we co-existed very well. I eventually broke up with her for totally unrelated reasons.
If you are extremely radical in your beliefs you can not tollerate opposing arguments. The date would end in a massive fight over Trump most likely. So i don't blame them for putting up a statement but it does show the fragile state they are in as i'd personally be able to date a socialist as long as she respects my views and enjoys a non heated discussion.