Do black men even see black women and girls as humen?

[Iceseeyou25]

I'm just looking at all the videos of black men regularly bashing black women. Black women are blamed for king Von's death, in fact black women are blamed for the reason why so many black men are shot and killed. I know that's probably why black women and girls are so largely unprotected. ( Because we take the blame for all the murders) but at the same time it's almost like black men don't even see black girls or women as even humen.

I read somewhere that this guy is being investigated for child abuse and has three daughters.

Now I know white men have they're issues but with almost every black guy I met for dating always put emphasis on black women being strong, independent, not asking him for anything ( the women can't even ask him for a shoulder to cry on) and I feel like strong and independent black women just means a black women who settles for a man who cheats and gives her a black eye every now and then. I know the majority aren't like this but so many black men put pressure on black women to be strong and bare all types of abuse and it upsets me further when they get angry at black women for dating white men. I really want to know where the dehumanization black girls and women came from. No one talks about this at all.

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I notice that if I bring up issues black men face the responses I get are way more supportive and understanding but if I talk about black women I'm suddenly generalizing and making the whole black community look bad. I don't understand why I'm being told that racism black men experience racism/ injustice, not black women.

[Bananaman177]

That's funny, I have heard multiple black girls complain that they wish black men protected them the way white men protect white women.

And this one black guy came along and said, "Well just what do you mean, what kind of protection are you talking about?" And the black girl goes, "like back in the day, they would straight-up lynch a black guy just for looking at a white woman."

Which is an interesting perspective. Yes, I guess we can be a bit overprotective.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Wq0Oxuj9fIo

I guess that is one of the things non-whites would notice about us right away.

[RolandCuthbert]

A growing population of "Black" men are having major issues. And it is sickening. I keep running into these fools. I don't know who you are running into. But the ones I am running into definitely do not think that do not think that racism is much of a problem for them. And they see the issues in the "Black" community as being the product of "Black" women being in charge.

The funny thing is, almost all these "cats" want a non-"Black" woman to take care of them.

You can go on facebook and see the groups. I don't understand how they are not even embarrassed about how they conduct themselves.

[Iceseeyou25]

Send me a link to these groups. The worse part is that they never talk about black women and truma. I wrote a story about a women named Bisa, a "strong" black women who basically develops depression. I wanna see how these groups react

[RolandCuthbert]

They won't react well. All you have to do is go to facebook and search "Black men". Groups on interracial relationships will pop up everywhere. Focus on the ones involving "White" women. Those are the ones that are the most hilarious.

I am at the Blackout Coalition on Facebook. And every single time we had some fool talking craziness, he came from one or more of those groups.

[cherry_324]

Do you realise there are good and bad people in all countries and races and not everybody is the same. Please stop generalizing

[jasco]

I don't see black women like that however i do see a good bit of women in general using men threw anything means nessary and black women do this a lot. However i do see black women as people. I do think that some black women just take things to far and some just don't care enough, but that has to do with black people in general. I think were a lot of things but i do see black people as human beings. As for the dehumanization of black women that came from white people years ago. Women in general, well some of you women tend to willingly or unknowningly bare abuse from a man so yea

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, hon. The black men that coons which are a extreme minority who belittle and shun their own black sisters are a disgraceful and just hate being black themselves so they project their anger and shame towards black women.

Around 90% of black men are with their own black sisters. Ignore the coons and uncle toms. These type of people are slaves in their own minds.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

The dude in the video is making fun of the other dude black daughter for being black yet he himself is black as tar. See, what I mean? The mind of a coon is powerful and crazy.

[Iceseeyou25]

The guy he's rapping about doesn't have kids, the rapper talking about voiently rapping little black girls has THREE black daughters

[Jackblue]

I feel the black community puts too much emphasis on "keeping the community together" as opposed to individual rights. Naturally, in such circumstances black women and children are expected to endure abuses from men for the sake of harmony.

[Anonymous]

LOL, you're so full of shit with this post

Street Thug and Thotinanas aren't representative of black people.

Chadwick Boseman is a very different person from King von.

Kelly stamps, Candace owens Michelle, Obama Is a very different type of black women that Asian doll, Toykyo Jets, Nicki manji, Megan there stallion

Stop promoting gutter black people. You like king von because your caveman's brain thinks thugs are Menly. But they havee 5th-grade level intelligence.

[Iceseeyou25]

Who's King von?

[Opinion Owner]

The guy tou posted about in your post

[Opinion Owner]

The 19th word In your sentence

[Iceseeyou25]

That's not king von. That's another raper

[Opinion Owner]

You put "Black women are blamed for king von death"

Im comparing the dead 26yearold Chicago rapper king von to. Chaddick Boseman

[Iceseeyou25]

Well, black women are blamed for the problems in the black community. I guess I should of said that instead

[Opinion Owner]

No your not. And if you are it's because of the poor choice that are made by them.

The majority-black women would date a king von type character. Instead
of picking the dude who is in college and makes 6 figures + or close to it.

You raise your kids by this type of man.

These men frow up mama boys who are thugs or lazy and become the same type of lazy thug men for another black woman. It's been the trend since 1960.

Black men can't keep It in their pants and think more than tomorrow and don't care about their kid's future.

You have a very very small portion that isn't like that.
Like 4% of the 13%

[Iceseeyou25]

Oh :p

[legalboxers]

aww blue annon. WOMP WOMP

[Opinion Owner]

I don't understand? Legalboxers what's your concern

[DiversityHire]

Jesus... all the hugs, and that's all I can say. I can't say much, I don't have that life experience, but... damn.

[jshm2]

The reason no one "talks" about it, is because it's a non issue.

A few rappers go talk shit about women, and all of a sudden it's a trope.

You really need to bring yourself into reality, kid. Black people are not a monolith.

[Talon364df]

That is an opinion based overly dramatic question that has no basis in fact and just sounds like you want to air your bitterness over a personal experience. You want people to agree so you feel justified about whatever happened. Just try talking to someone about it. It works better than this.

[AFellowWeeb]

i think nowadays most racism comes from inside the own black comunity ( black on black racism ) then again, just my opinion

[Gooblegobble]

Urban black culture is not a pleasant one, unfortunately.

[Ripper_E]

Clearly I'm not black, but I don't view it that way.

[Anonymous]

Funny... the least desired women on the planet doing what they always do.

They hate black men even more than white racists do... they dream about having a white man but even they know that they are SO inferior to white women in every way that matters that all they can do is be hateful.

[Iceseeyou25]

No, black women don't. Give me links and prove your point

[TheAfrikan]

Not all black men hv that mentality.

[Iceseeyou25]

I know but majority do. Shit if I can write a film and the black female character actually gets sympathy then I know I'm doing a good job.

[Anonymous]

yup its all womens
fault global warming
and more lol

nah don't listen to them

[I-have-a-biscuit]

The fuck is wrong with people

[Anonymous]

Are you only attracted to bm?

[Iceseeyou25]

I date outside of my race. As a collective I don't see the appeal of dating black men. We can't rely on them for anything, we're always told to shut up, be strong, and protect ourselves. We are blamed for the failures and downfall of black men. We are blamed for all the dead black men, teen pregnancy, and if a black girl is sexully assulted/ raped it's either all her fault or she wanted it.

So, there's no reason why black women should only date black men. I feel like we're just used as stepping stones. When he's broke and doesn't have much he's with a black women who's helping him out, then once he's successful, he leaves her for a white women because she's viewed as wrothy of love and protection. Not the women who was there for him when he didn't have anything to offer. Not the women who bailed him out of jail.

[Opinion Owner]

We're alike. I know about all that you've mentioned and I only date outside because that's what im attracted to. I was worried thinking that you only date them because I know how hard it is for your preference not to like you. I agree we are always blamed for their failures.

[Iceseeyou25]

Hey, maybe we could talk more. Follow me

[Opinion Owner]

No prob

[cth96190]

human

[cth96190]

The correct spelling is: human.