I don't care about her job or degree. I respect her intelligence or education but I also don't care if she has one, other than basic stuff.
Would a girl care if her boyfriend worked construction instead of worked in an office? Maybe some of them would but most guys in construction have girlfriends too.
It is not their money we are after. If women thing otherwise it is probably because they expect men to motivated by the same things women seek in a partner. Likely that is why the successful 30 year old attorney in a law firm thinks she deserves a higher quality man then the pretty 19 year old filing clerk that works in her office. Of course, 11 times out of 10 the high quality men that she is attracted to will chose the pretty 19 year old over her.
I just want to take care of my girl, so as long as she's making less than me, I'm not discontent, but honestly, the less she makes the more I can provide for her. And it makes me feel good to provide for her.
feminism lied to women. When I marry a girl, she’s gon b pregnant for a solid decade so I’m prepared to provide. What matters is shared values and trustworthiness, high moral character, and ofc looks and health
Its because women identify more with women than men. If a strange man online tells a girl this she won't listen but when another girl says "trust me girl this is necessary or men will treat you bad" or not want you or whatever thats what they trust.
Yes women typically listen and follow men but not ones they don't know. And for some reason dads are dropping the fucking ball here because they should be teaching their daughters this shit.
not at all. i think college is making people stupider in many cases now. plus if she makes too much money she might be so career focused she won't want to stay home with the kids which is a huge NO
so in a weird indirect way... less is best? at least until the kids are a little older
I think some men do. Unfortunately I feel like most men don’t like it when you are wealthier and have a better job then they do. So it can be frustrating dating when you are a rich bitch sometimes LOL 😂
As long as she actually is intelligent, I couldn't care about school/education less.
Money shouldn't be a problem, ever, unless the guy can't keep a family by himself, then it might actually be important that she can help here and there as well.
I think that knowing how to spend your money means a lot more than getting a ton of money. If you make $3k and waste $2.9k every month, you're losing more than someone that gets just $2.5k and uses $2k 🤷🏻♂️
Well I have 1 degree and working on my second one. I’ve never had a guy care about my degrees at all. They mostly ask when I’m going to finish school and what my current job is not my career.
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Because it's a lie told by feminist who don't want men and women to be together. They want to cause rifts and separations between men and women. While a woman is going out after her degree a Man is marrying the woman who is not. No man wants to marry the college girl who sleeps around.
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"I’ve been told by many men that men actually don’t care about a woman’s degree or how much she makes. I’ve heard “the only man that cares about how much a woman makes is a man who wants you to financially take care of them”"
Yes, this ^ 100% true. I don't know why it seems women have a hard time understanding that men value different things in women than women value in men.
I'm disabled so I have an excuse, but I cared about women's income and intelligence before I was disabled. I prefer intelligent woman and I prefer someone in a scientific field.
We do, it makes a big difference, but it isn't the thing that any man who also makes money would use as his primary indicator for interest. Well, let me correct myself - some probably will, but that is highly individual. It only starts to make a difference once the physical liking is established.
It's a false stereotype - macho man smash when woman outperforms him in his own domain. It hasn't really been true since maybe the 70's, but the stereotype lives.
Men don't care about it. I never heard of any girl trying to get a degree to be suitable for men.
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We care about it only because women have weaponized the legal system to the point that you can take everything WE have. We think there is a slightly lower chance of you doing this if you make your own money, but we are usually wrong about this. Smart men won't live with you or marry you.
Some men do care because they dont want to look like the beta in the relationship. For me, I dont care if they have a higher GPA/came from a more prestigious university/earn more money than me.
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I don't care about her job or degree. I respect her intelligence or education but I also don't care if she has one, other than basic stuff.
Would a girl care if her boyfriend worked construction instead of worked in an office? Maybe some of them would but most guys in construction have girlfriends too.
It is not their money we are after. If women thing otherwise it is probably because they expect men to motivated by the same things women seek in a partner. Likely that is why the successful 30 year old attorney in a law firm thinks she deserves a higher quality man then the pretty 19 year old filing clerk that works in her office. Of course, 11 times out of 10 the high quality men that she is attracted to will chose the pretty 19 year old over her.
I just want to take care of my girl, so as long as she's making less than me, I'm not discontent, but honestly, the less she makes the more I can provide for her. And it makes me feel good to provide for her.
feminism lied to women. When I marry a girl, she’s gon b pregnant for a solid decade so I’m prepared to provide. What matters is shared values and trustworthiness, high moral character, and ofc looks and health
This is totally true.
Its because women identify more with women than men. If a strange man online tells a girl this she won't listen but when another girl says "trust me girl this is necessary or men will treat you bad" or not want you or whatever thats what they trust.
Yes women typically listen and follow men but not ones they don't know. And for some reason dads are dropping the fucking ball here because they should be teaching their daughters this shit.
not at all. i think college is making people stupider in many cases now. plus if she makes too much money she might be so career focused she won't want to stay home with the kids which is a huge NO
so in a weird indirect way... less is best? at least until the kids are a little older
I think some men do. Unfortunately I feel like most men don’t like it when you are wealthier and have a better job then they do. So it can be frustrating dating when you are a rich bitch sometimes LOL 😂
A woman needs a degree like a fish needs a bicycle.
As long as she actually is intelligent, I couldn't care about school/education less.
Money shouldn't be a problem, ever, unless the guy can't keep a family by himself, then it might actually be important that she can help here and there as well.
I think that knowing how to spend your money means a lot more than getting a ton of money. If you make $3k and waste $2.9k every month, you're losing more than someone that gets just $2.5k and uses $2k 🤷🏻♂️
Well I have 1 degree and working on my second one. I’ve never had a guy care about my degrees at all. They mostly ask when I’m going to finish school and what my current job is not my career.
Because it's a lie told by feminist who don't want men and women to be together. They want to cause rifts and separations between men and women. While a woman is going out after her degree a Man is marrying the woman who is not. No man wants to marry the college girl who sleeps around.
"I’ve been told by many men that men actually don’t care about a woman’s degree or how much she makes. I’ve heard “the only man that cares about how much a woman makes is a man who wants you to financially take care of them”"
Yes, this ^ 100% true. I don't know why it seems women have a hard time understanding that men value different things in women than women value in men.
I'm disabled so I have an excuse, but I cared about women's income and intelligence before I was disabled. I prefer intelligent woman and I prefer someone in a scientific field.
We do, it makes a big difference, but it isn't the thing that any man who also makes money would use as his primary indicator for interest.
Well, let me correct myself - some probably will, but that is highly individual.
It only starts to make a difference once the physical liking is established.
It's a false stereotype - macho man smash when woman outperforms him in his own domain. It hasn't really been true since maybe the 70's, but the stereotype lives.
Not so much on degree, but they'll care about the money.
Gold diggers are everywhere, regardless of gender.
Gold diggers are so ugh. I hate them!
Men don't care about it. I never heard of any girl trying to get a degree to be suitable for men.
We care about it only because women have weaponized the legal system to the point that you can take everything WE have. We think there is a slightly lower chance of you doing this if you make your own money, but we are usually wrong about this. Smart men won't live with you or marry you.
Men aren't all connected to a singular hive mind, but in this day in age, no one doesn't appreciate an educated person.
Some men do care because they dont want to look like the beta in the relationship. For me, I dont care if they have a higher GPA/came from a more prestigious university/earn more money than me.