Why do people love to lie and say incels are single by their own choice?

[Anonymous]

Are you retarded? these people who lie need to die

[btbc92]

Because it's TRUE. It is not that hard to get into a relationship. If kids as young as 10 or so can find partners, how is it that you can't? What you do not understand and I can say this as a celibate woman, it is absolutely a CHOICE. People are given plenty of opportunities to get partners, even if it is not your ideal. So that so-called ugly girl that took interest you mean to tell me that is not your chance to date, get married and paire up? No. The reality is they are not people you want, and the people you say you do want, may not want you. That is part of life. It is all about choices. It is not like your on an island somewhere with no other people.

[btbc92]

What logical and rational reason do you need a partner? You sound mentally and psychologically unstable. What are your reasons to be dating? You have to look at SELF before you want to talk about other people. Before I made the conscious decision to remain celibate forever, I had to first look at all angles WHY did I WANT THAT. Come to find out, it never really wanted that life. Others around me did, and I felt forced. Otherwise, every other reason would have been selfish and others besides myself would have gotten hurt. You have to really ask yourself why you desire something you don't know about. It is not for everybody. And nobody can force you to be involved in that way. It is not the end of the world. Better alone than to be involved with people who wouldn't do right by you. Many people will use you, abuse you, dump you and move on and are in the same positions. Really ask yourself should you even bother. The times have changed, and it is not the same anymore.

[jeemm]

But it's not really a lie. They simply don't know what they're talking about. Incel by definition is someone who is single but tries to not be one. Not sure why they need to die for not knowing a definition. You're quite interesting.

[jeemm]

You know the definition so what makes you think they're lying about it?

To me it sounds like they don't know the difference between celibate and incel.

[InfobotLives]

Incels are only "forced" to be single by their defeatist nature and their self pity. Many self proclaimed incels are far from bereft of attractive traits, they just buy into bullshit narratives and join the "woe is me" club rather than being brave enough to choose positivity and to stick to it until it produces results. If incels ran the world they'd have killed us off before we even invented the wheel. They'd have labelled themselves involuntarily stationary and would have starved to death.

[shushhhhh]

First off why do people choose to identify as an InCel. Doesn't it seem counterproductive? You want to have a romantic partner yet you choose to cling to a trait that more often than not repels people from you.

There's always room for improvement in dating, always strive to be better!

[RolandCuthbert]

That's not a lie.

That's truth.

You can choose to do what you need to do to build your self-esteem and confidence. But you absolutely refuse to. You blame the world for choices you make.

[Kas19]

Based on how you're talking, it is by your own choice that you're single. Who would want to date or fuck someone that talks like that?

[Kas19]

Do us all a favor and get therapy. Maybe you'll get some coochie after you get your head fixed.

[Kas19]

If you say so. Guess I'll yeet myself off the planet because angry virgin said so 🥺

[shushhhhh]

Cmon now Kas, the poor lad is frustrated 😔

[Kas19]

I get sexually frustrated too. I just don't tell people to kill themselves over it.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Fine sense of judgement on right to live.. *coughs*

[ibodi]

Do you mean that moroccan girl make french teacher...

[ibodi]

but sorry for missing your the last half of your sentence.

[Anonymous]

I don’t necessarily believe incels are single by choice. But they are celibate by choice.

[anylolone]

Because they aren't lying.
They are single by their own choice. If you lower your standards enough you'll find a girlfriend/boyfriend.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I guess that they don't really understand the Involuntary part of the term incel

[Asker]

Your an honorable man

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Yes, I am

[Asker]

Involuntary means against ones will. did they not go to school?

[SuccessfulHornDog]

They went but they slept through many classes

[OddBeMe]

It’s your choice to have that fucktard attitude isn’t it? Why would a woman want you?

[Anonymous]

Show me a incel with a high-paying job and Fit. Or been on multiple dates.

[Dontaaa]

I'm sorry, but you sound all the way fucked up.

[joeldalton]

Because they are single by their own choice.

[joeldalton]

Aww sweet cheeks, you're choosing to be a cunt right now. So being single is a choice.

[Asker]

Just goes to show you don't know anything.

[joeldalton]

I know you're being a cunt.

[JessieBellll]

Unwillingness to accept reality

[Anonymous]

And this rant is why you are single I would bet.