Why do incels think their experts on women and relationships while being single at the same time?

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Sonorous · Accepted Answer

I don't think it's fair to generalize in that way. I mean surely the bulk of incels (aka regular degular ass guys who just accidentally don't get pussy) don't legitimately believe they're experts.

But answer me dis. If a man has a lot of objectively correct information on how to run & manage successful businesses, but does not own a successful business himself, does that mean that his knowledge is somehow invalid or less than? If so, why?

In my opinion, someone can have a lot of correct knowledge on how something works, but for whatever reason, they're unable to achieve physical results as well as someone else who has a better natural talent for the thing in question.

MecheD · Accepted Answer

No offense, but you dont always have to learn in life by going through something. As there are plenty of people with “bs” meters who can detect what not to do and what to do. For instance you have learned something or seen something whether it was done to or from a friend or family. Hell even just walking up a street you can see it. In the relationship aspect there is a reason for the term “Love Drunk” or “Honeymoon phase”. Usually those moments are essentially spotted by some outside of that said relationship both single and not single.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Yeah, it is funny how the ones that think they are experts are usually single or from failed relationships, and of course their failures are NEVER their fault.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Are you willing to listen to people in their late 70's or in their 80's who have been married for 50 years or more?

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Let's start by defining what you mean by incel.

I've seen guys labeled as incels because they voiced an opinion most feminists disagreed with regardless if it's true or not.

These social media buzzwords are often weaponized against anyone whose opinions do not match the user's.

This is no different than when women, who can get 100's of guys who will sleep with them, but can't get them to commit to an actual relationship, start bashing and grouping all guys into the same category, again whether its true or not.

No one is an expert. NO exceptions. Everyone will use their own anecdotal experiences to form their beliefs right or wrong, good or bad.

Billlewis · Answer

By no means do I consider myself an expert on relationships, but I'm practically obsessed with increasing and refining as many different ways to please the female as possible. I view male sexual frustration as a tremendously valuable element in my life, because it drives me to want to be as sweet, attentive and generous as I possibly can be.

hahahmm · Answer

The term incel is meaningless because women like you toss it out anytime a man disagrees with you. But let me translate what you said: "Why do men who don't find me worth taking seriously saying that my life choices aren't attractive to men like themselves when men are supposed to do whatever us women tell them to?"

slatyb · Answer

They don't really believe that -- they pretend to be because they are terribly insecure and can't admit that they are inadequate in any way. That's why they blame their lack of success dating on anything except their own behavior. The idea of admitting that they need to change in any way is terrifying.

CozyCoffin · Answer

I presume it has to do with absorbing certain ideologies that are misogynistic after being rejected and lashing out. This is then piled upon by seeing men they think are lesser than them and could be considered bad decisions - end up in jail, leave her a single mom, etc.

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

They're experts on their own thoughts and experiences. Combining that with the endless online feedback loop from similar minded people - their view and actions get reinforced into a single train of thought, which from your question; compels them to stay single.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

They're* Anyway people are individuals so it's impossible to be an expert on the behavior of an entire gender, just as its impossible to know what every involuntarily celibate person thinks.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

They don't, especially when people are tainting the definition of incel, to mean any male they don't like.. As usual.. Most incels don't have the confidence to think they are experts..

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I don’t think it’s specifically incels. It’s just people on the outside without the emotional connection in the way who can see issues or things that people in the relationship can’t.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Wow, all the incel comments here. It’s like you lit a fuse and set them all off. Insecurities, frail boy egos, and all. congratulations.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Really interesting screen name you have considering what you are asking.

KillinItHard · Answer

No idea. I've never claimed to be an expert at anything in this life. I can share past experiences.

verylovelyguy · Answer

creating a new account just to troll. cringe

OddBeMe · Answer

Because they’re not. It’s an absurd level of (what’s it called?)…knowing less thus you think you know everything. See? I don’t even know that lol

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

a person who calls herself a "femcel" is asking such question?

Tomisworthless · Answer

Because when you’re on the outside you see clearer than those involved

Anonymous · Answer

🤣🤣 They are Narcissistt and think they know everything..

Danny_dan92 · Answer

You asking about it is wild

Ashley1993 · Answer

You're a "Femcel" so you have no right to ask lol

HouseMoat · Answer

Because they are

Anonymous · Answer

Why "Femmcells" think single men are all Incels?

RebelisAlwaysHere · Answer

that's interesting i dont know

Anonymous · Answer

What "incels" say they are?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

What is an incel?

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