How do women view feeding a man by hand?

[jumpman]

As a man, I think when a women feeds food to a man's mouth that it's potentially a very sensual act. Do most women know this already and do this to flirt or is it just an innocent act if done to friends of the opposite gender?

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+1 y

so the common answer is that it's a motherly act too for women. As a guy I don't think I would let a female put her fingers near my mouth if I didn't find them at least alittle attractive. I would just pick it out of their hands and feed myself.


If a guy gets mad at his girl for doing that towards another male friend, is he being a controlling ass or should he let it slide?

[Julia_Dorst]

I don't find it motherly, or I know it is in origan but I don't think about it like that. I like 'feeding' my boyfriend. Feeding him a strawberry, or when I'm cooking. He comes stand behind me, his arms around my waist. Just getting a spoon for of whatever, turn around, feed it to him and then he pushes my against the wall and kisses me. Very sensual ;)

[Gianni]

some women know that it's an arousing act and some just don't. some do it as a sort of motherly touch and some use it as a flirtation. the thing about it is is that it appeals to your senses- touch, smell and taste and how this person makes you feel determines how much these senses are magnified. but to figure it out just think of the situation properly

[Red_Raconteur]

I don't think it's sensual. A lot of times when my boyfriend and I were racing home to pick up our sisters after school I would feed him fast food. It wasn't a sensual act, it was because we didn't have time to stop and eat lunch.

[muzeasd]

Why do I feel it is little sensual? This must be sensual as the couple should be in love.

[dryad]

It's a number of things, from flirting to motherly nurturing -- each girl will tell you differently. I've done that a few times to a guy as if reliving the wonderful adoring memories of feeding my niece. Also, have you ever held a carrot or cellery stick while feeding a rabbit? Kind of the same satisfaction.

[Gianni]

no you not being a controlling ass...that's not cool period...sit down and have a talk with her about that

[jumpman]

it's not me...lol. this girl I'm attracted to told me that about her boyfriend getting mad at her and "warning" her to never do that again.

[Gianni]

hahaha so you're the other guy...well well...i understand how the guy feels and he's right you know...i mean you're already attracted to the girl and I'm sure the handfeeding thing hasn't diminished your attraction to her one bit

[Cailleach]

I would not feed guy. What am I? His mother?