It sucks for you and anyone who were bullied but I clearly said NERDS who were bullied. I clearly put that in the title. This question only applied to nerds who were bullied. I am saying they get the last laugh with their good careers
I never though of nerd as implying smart but fair enough, I don't think it changes my answer tho. Factors like wealth and background will effect your success more than being smart unfortunately. Its also not helped that careers for life don't really exist anymore, so it might be true for a few months but it won't always be true, life just isn't that linear unfortunately
And people regardless if they are smart or not that end up in cases like what I described, compared to their bullies. Regardless how much it happens, when it happens, it's karma huh?
No Karma doesn't exist, not really. Some people who where bullied will do well in life, some won't. But there is nothing that makes good things happen to good people and no metric to even judge what doing well in life really means. All we can do is fine are own happiness doing what makes us happy
You are making a bunch of excuses as if you are sticking up for bullies. For example if you found out a victim of a bully ended up being that bully's boss, you still would make up a bunch of stuff , while others would be like"that is what they get "
No I'm not saying that, I'm not sure what you think I'm saying which would imply that?
If you think I'm saying something by saying that I never though of the term nerd as meaning someone particularly smart, then I didn't, its not what that word means here so I just though you meant someone unpopular
REGARDLESS WHAT NERD MEANS, REGARDLESS IF IT MEANS SMART OR NOT, FOR SOMEONE TO HAVE GOTTEN BULLIED, TO GET SOME TYPE OF REVENGE IS NICE RIGHT? LIKE IF THEY END UP BEING THEIR BOSS, ETC? I AM SAYING BECAUSE YOU ARE SAYING, THEY won't END UP BEING THEIR BOSS, ETC. I AM SAYING IF THEY BEING SUCCESSFUL OR IF THEY END UP BEING THWIR BOSS, IT IS SWEET REVENGE
It seems you are ok with people bullying people that are smart
You support certain type of bullying. Who is the bully now?
You clearly support bullying if smart people
Ok former bully. It's obvious you were a former one since you are defending them. Hurray for supporting people who bully others (sarcasm). And women are not everything. The point is many nerds end up having good successful careers while a lot of the people who made fun of them end up having lousy lives.
I was one of the nerds also in school also. But I didn’t get bullied either because I boxed from the age of about 8 so I could also fight.
Then why are you siding with the bullies with this post?
That’s why I called it a revenge fantasy, your idea is based on emotion over logic. It makes you feel better to believe that they receive some kind of bad karma, but in reality that doesn’t always happen.
You can still tell you are on their side. Defending them. Like you are ok they they bullied. Look at how you originally responded. Instead of saying that is what they deserve since they are assholes, etc
I bet when you find out a story when a nerd gets very successful and ends up being the boss or something of someone that used to pick on them, you just look the other way instead of thinking "lol, that is what they get for being an asshole to that person."
If you want to think like a woman be delusional and believe what you want to believe based on what feels good rather than on what happens in the real world, fair enough. I’m not defending anybody, I’m not emotionally invested, I’m just being real.
I am saying IF it does happen and a nerd ends up being a boss to someone that used to bully them, that is what they get right?
You sound like a former bully and it sounds like you never changed with your ways despite being a grown ass man. You refuse to answer about what if you found out a nerd turns out to be a boss to someone that bullied him, don't you think that serves the bully right? Yes or no?
I wouldn’t really care. Karma is a bullshit idea.
You were clearly a former bully and it shows how you said how your wife laughs at them, etc. The way you responded shows it. You keep saying it won't happen. I am saying if it does happen and at times I did hear it happen, when a nerd ends up being their boss or successful and the bully ends up being a drug addict or whatever, and the nerd ended up getting their revenge that way. I heard real cases like that. I wonder what you would think if you heard of real stories of where nerds got their revenge? You probably would still defend the bully cause you are one.
It is time to stop supporting bullies, grown ass man
It’s time to stop obsessing over bullied, grow ass man.
If you were in the victims shoes you would be singing a different tune dumbass. You support bullying. You and your wife. You guys are power trippers. Clearly need to change yourselves if you still support bully. Grow up. If you are bullied badly you would be singing a different tune. If you get a boss that you used to bully or your wife used to bully, that would be a big slap in the face to you guys. You guys probably are also Trump supporters. Since he is a bully himself. I bet you guys would be also singing a different tune if your kids got bullied
I never bullied anybody, and I didn’t get bullied despite being a short, quiet kid because I defended myself. Once you give them a nosebleed they pick someone else. My children do the same.
And if your kids didn't do the same, you would hate those bullies. You probably hate them now. And hated your bullies too back then. Yet you are saying how you and your wife laugh at nerds. What does that make you? It makes you a bully. I wouldn't be surprised if your kids bullied since they are how mom and dad make fun of nerds when they are grown ass people. You and your wife laugh at nerds faces. Grown ass people. Support bullies yet tell your kids to defend yourself against them. Weird
You and your wife laugh at nerds yet tell your kids to protect themselves against bullies. Dumb logic. A bully being ok with bullying as along as it doesn't affect their kids
If my kids didn’t do the same - but they do, because I’m not raising them to be pussies. If you try to pick up a woman who has already said that she’s taken, which she always does, you deserve to be laughed at. That’s what those guys do. The ones who respect that don’t get laughed at at all.
And the bullies are still assholes despite your kids defending themselves. You know that right? And if a nerd ends up being a bully's boss and you find out about that and don't think something like" He/she deserves that for what he/she did to him/her, than you are enabling what they did. Just like if you someone that robbed you, for many years in prison. You would think,"that is what they get".
I never said that bullies aren’t assholes. If I don’t think anything of it what difference does it make at all? I’m not enabling anything. Plus it already happened, can’t change the past.
What a pathetic man that has grown up and is still a bully
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It seems you were once a bully since you are defending them.
You'd have to a significant amount of mental contortions to call that a defense.
You are defending them cause you said the nerds get paid less.
And that's a defense... how?
Because you are mentioning the nerds don't get paid a lot and the tis why they don't get their revenge
You do understand that a description is not a defense, right?
Well, I'd point you to dictionary definitions but in essence a description is merely explaining the situation. A defense is trying to get people to agree the situation should remain as it is. Indeed, if one is aiming to change a situation they very first step is to understand it. To that end, for practical purposes, a description is more an offense than a defense.
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