Are you a nice person?

Question

I watch comments here where people say the most outrageous in human things about other human beings, sometimes about their opposite gender. Its scary just how much we appear to dislike each other.
Although we're dating some say to find love, we subject our partners to silly tests and conditions that of the roles we're reversed we wouldn't like.
The term alpha in modern society seems to mean inflicting harsh conditions on the weaker counter parts, instead of them enduring the trials to lead the pack to 'salvation'.
I'm a little confused as the world to me feels back to front.
What was considered bad, rude, inconsiderate and anti social seems to be prevalent whilst what was considered considerate, kind, caring, honourable and respectful is all wrong.

No ones expecting people to be subservient and remember to mind their p's and q's, just to be mindful of others.

Have an understanding that life on the world isn't an insular journey, and harmony is needed so we can all coexist.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I wish i could say that you are nice person... but from everything I have seen you comment on... You are actually a rather wrathful angry person who enjoys lashing back at those who views you don't find to your liking. That is rather common on here with most of those with pink profiles lashing back at anyone even responding to their questions.

In other words you are par for the course around here. It's rare to find a pink account (since I have no clue what your real gender is) that is actually genuine and is able to give a true female perspective. Seriously, How can this site confirm anyone true identity. As far as I know you are nothing but some grossly obese man, stuffing his face with chef boyardee spaghettios while watching my 600 lb life to feel better about themselves.

Here is the real trip... can you prove to me that you are not? I think not! In other words, I have no clue who I am even talking to... hell, or you me... That does work both ways.

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

What's your definition of nice?
Cause if you basing nice on, Not been racist, Not sexist, Not homophobic, etc I am clear there.
If your basing nice on, Not been cynical, anti social, not holding back on saying something harsh to an idiot. Then I am not.

Personally i see my self as moral, but not nice. And i would be on the wrong side of heaven but the righteous side of hell.
This don't mean, i ain't friendly or open though of course i am to people i like or have to put with or out of just talking to a person i've made no judgement of or have nothing ageist them. The word moral and nice are so subjective tho... so I don't know.

Apulu_3 · Accepted Answer

It depends on others what they think about me. I'm happy with myself. I will give myself 4/10 in the nice scale because I am too straight forward sometimes and unknowingly do disrespectful acts. I also think that I am not a nice person because it is really bad of thinking even a bit negative about the people who hate me because I get this guilty feeling immediately. I surely have done many sins like this but I can be a nice supporter at the same time. I can be a trustable person. Oh god I am writing good about myself now and it is too selfish so yeah other mistake and you know now why I am a bad person.

Ez-Bri-Z · Accepted Answer

I think I have the capacity to be nice just as much as I have the capacity to be cruel. I just choose the former more often than not. Some will say I'm incredibly friendly and nice, even some of the ones I've debated on here tooth and nail. Some will say I'm a raging feminist with a penchant for degrading men (which by the way isn't true, I just don't tolerate sexists very well and am ok calling it out when I see it.)

In the end if rather just put out more good karma than bad karma 😊

t-8900 · Answer

I always leave it up to the individual to decide what I am. I can claim to have a big heart, caring nature, a nurturing side, a part of me that just wants to hold and be held. But I cannot make the claim that I'm nice or good because it would require me to embrace a certain level of self indulgence or arrogance. I just try to be good and hope I help others in doing so. Sometimes i feel i just hurt people more by being nice because they had a rough life and me being too "nice" makes them feel worse about themselves? I don't know...

DizzyDesii · Answer

Im a goofball. I love to laugh at things i find funny. So yea i enjoy people's company for that. But i wouldn't say im nice. I can go from 0-100 real quick. Im usually only nice to people i get along well with or whoever im crushing on. But even if they piss me off, things can change real quick. Im quick to drop people if i ain't feelin it no more

Medhat-M · Answer

Even though I'm a loner and I don't know how to socialize.. I'm super nice and friendly... People always call me a gentleman... People sometimes open up to me and act like we're friends for a long time on the first meet... online tho.. Sometimes I like to troll or fool around lol..

Brokenheartedx · Answer

I call out stupidity... Nothing irks me more when someone puts a picture up on how do i look asking whose better looking, her or her friends. And gets all loved up when everyone is saying her then belitting her friends.. To me Thats fucking ugly in my eyes. And they need a hard swift kick to the fandango... Lol

dustybiker · Answer

Personally I used to be overly nice and positive, then, survived some incredibly inhuman experiences. Changed my way of thinking completely.

On here its different. When people ask questions they want honest answers, even if they don’t like them. I will reflect back rudeness, and stand up to bullies.

Shizunk · Answer

Yes I am nice. I never avoid conflict or unpopular topics, but I will always prefer calm and respectful relationships and tend to earn people's trust and keep it.
Also, I trust people, especially the other gender. That trust was rarely betrayed and never in major ways.
And I like to be subjected to exactly the same expectations and conditions I have for others. It would give me such an advantage in dating if women thought like me...

Oigit · Answer

I can be a really nice person or one hell of a mean sob. Really it comes down to the idea of treat people the way you want to be treated. When dealing with often let them take to the lead to see how they will treat me and that sets the tone for how I will treat them.

ohshee · Answer

Just about everybody I have ever met in my life and told me I'm a nice person but I'm a good guy. Now my brother has been around when lots of people have said this to me and his comeback is well you don't know him very well do you he is the eye of the storm. I asked him what that means he said everything is great when you're sitting in the center and everything is going right but if somebody fux with you too much you step out of it into the storm whatever that means

Anon621 · Answer

Meh. Define nice. I'm a polite person and I understand manners. I'll also happily admit I don't care about most people in life which you can say is not a nice thing to say but in my opinion it's true because so many people in the world exist and I understand my actions and contributions to the world only affect so many people. Can I be nicer? Yes and I have a large desire to volunteer in the future along with doing other things I consider to to nice

Stoner710 · Answer

To humans and living things yes, to electronic devices like iPad or internet connection no, Buffering is my main pet peeve so when I get kicked out of my game or a podcast starts buffering I’ll say buffering should be the moral equivalent of slavery or basing the Jews

kyleelyn199723 · Answer

People come on here to be hurtful because there’s no consequence to it. I have a feeling that most people that do it , are afraid to get their asses beat in person or are just flat out losers

whirled_up_girl · Answer

I think of myself as a nice person, but nice people can have flaws too, like everyone else. I have to agree though until I joined gag I didn't realize how much anger and geniune dislike there was towards a whole gender.

sweethrtx · Answer

It's funny because I believe I am, but at the same time I think I'm not as nice as I think I am or that I could be nicer.

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, I'm kind and nice for the most part... but if you see my comments at posts from some "men" in here... then it might seem otherwise... lol

Flower7 · Answer

I feel like most people “think” they are nice, but they’re really not.

FatherJack · Answer

I'm probably perceived as not nice , I am not fond of people , but I'm not antagonistic either , & realise most people have a cross to bear. Keep myself to myself. If you are a ferret , I'm definitely a nice person.

Rachelspiks · Answer

I think so. At least that's what most people tell me.

Bdsmaster · Answer

I would not say I am a nice person luv, but I try to be good with those who are good to me and vice versa.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes, but I'm also a tactfully honest person, and too many people can't separate the difference between honest and rude/mean.

Rachel794 · Answer

Yes, I’m nice, but it’s also possible to be nice and set healthy and precise boundaries at the same time.

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