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Not to combat actually.
To make self self awareness that there is something within that attract that.
Such as perversion or fear.
And to stay away of that. Avoiding.
Changing the pattern by laughing , stepping away, not entering the drama
I just watched YouTube about cheating in the world. I decided that go silently if I am in.
because hate in heart ruin my health instead.
So open mind let it go.
For young girls and boys to be taught about it. 40% of domestic violence is deliberately instigated by women. Men are such fragile creatures that one bad bitch can break them inside. My mother was such a bad bitch.
The only thing that keeps bad bitches form being broken permanently is police and jails and consequences. I’m an apocalyptic freak. I pray daily for the world to become mad max. I can’t wait until gutless punks and smart mouth bitches can’t ruin peoples lives with criminal records and have to be accountable for their words and actions.
For what it’s worth I fully support tranny athletes that have transitioned from men to women in combat sports only. I love watching a penisless male put smart mouth bitches who think they’re bad asses in comas. Who was it that was fragile again? Probably the dumb bitch laying on the canvas knocked out cold. Equality is awesome.
Increased firearm ownership and cheaper higher quality recording devices to document evidence. Some people are so far gone they can’t be saved, and it shouldn’t be the taxpayers fault or problem.
Fewer people in prisons would actually benefit society for reasons other than being minus one scumbag: it would decrease the profit margin of the prison industrial complex and companies would get out of the business, decreasing the strength of the prison industry lobby, and thus decrease the incentive for government decision makers to put so many people in prison.
Guns! If you have more guns you'll have a lot less frequent domestic violence since the people who are violent will end up shooting their victims or being shot. Guns solve everything, even world hunger lol
People don't solve a problem with a problem
Coz guns are one of the components in aiding violence,
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The guy should learn to fight back if she is abusing him. In this gender-neutral, "women want the same rights as men" world... both genders need to know how to defend themselves against aggressors. If they can't... then they leave themselves vulnerable to abuse.
Once you sense that slight aura. (The aggressiveness in your partner) then try to keep people around at all times. And when alone with your partner try to act cautiously
Take a stand. Let people know what you are facing. Speak to local parish priest.
At home, hit back, talk back.
However, remember one thing. If you are wrong, accept and say sorry. If you are right, stand your ground.
Depends on the type of DV.
One good preemptive measure is stable two parent households with good relations with extended family and community.
Parity on the legislation is key as well. The biggest risk for DV is practicing DV.
Not more domestic violence, that's for sure
That'd be like solving alcoholism, by putting bottles of alcohol in the house where the alcoholic lives and sleeps and telling them it's not ok to keep drinking
Raising awareness and for people who are in a situation like that, to leave and start new.
Shoot him.
Do you think I'm trying to be funny? I'm dead fucking serious, shoot their asses. You're not going to have a chance fighting them unless you have a weapon or good training.
Shoot "him"? Women are at least as likely to commit domestic violence as men.
@Kraken
Long time no see. Nice to see you back.
Since both of us worked in law enforcement let’s compare notes real quick. In my experience women in fact commit more domestic violence then men, the problem is they just get the worse of the exchange when the male decides to return blows. I’d say out of all the calls I went to involving domestic violence, the female was the initiator around 65% of the time. I strongly believe this is due to it being socially unacceptable for a man to hit a woman and they banked on that and found out what happens when you poke the bear one too many times.
@Exterminatore Absolutely, positively. Women get violent at the drop of a hat. How many domestics where the woman threw a glass, ashtray, vase, pan, etc. At the man... man. Or how often women just generally break things, smash windows, claw men and leave serious scratches... and what happens? The man BEGS you not to take this bitch to jail.
Thanks, I was on sabbatical ;)
Welcome back my friend.
Happens all the time. The problem is there are some guys that right away want to take the guy. Despite trading its like they’re stigmatized to think baring the worst cases it’s the guys fault. This is the one area I swear I seen other officers throw investigative skills and common sense right out the window due to being conditioned by society to automatically view the male as the aggressor. I don’t care who got the worse or it. I cared who started it and if there was retaliation was it immediate self defense or revenge? Also plenty of women who initiated and try to lie. Frankly I put more women in restraints for DV then men. One psycho even bashed her dude with a Champaign bottle. Opened him up. One of the worst facial/head lacerations I’ve ever seen.
@Exterminatore Thanks man. Again, I completely agree. The times I arrested women for stabbing men with knives, forks, keys, you name it. Women also don't hesitate to throw things. Women also always feel completely justified for the violence they commit and ho berserk when they get arrested. Crazy.
I'm talking about cases where the man is the initiator of the violence. Obviously I don't think women should go around shooting guys just for fun.
I repeat, women are at least as violent as men.
@KrakenAttackin I don't know man, most violent crime is committed by men.
@Juxtapose
Both Kraken and I worked in law enforcement. Both of us have seen first hand domestic violence situations probably hundreds of times apiece. I’ll swear on a stack of Bibles women more often then men are the initiators.
I’m sure there are plenty of stats you can pull up to refute this. Remember stats can and are manipulated by the creator of them for their purposes. No stats are going to convince me of what I’ve seen first hand.
Hell I’ve ever arrived at the scene where the woman was still beating the crap out of the dude and that call was made to 911 4-5 min earlier!
Most victims of violent crime's are men.
@Exterminatore Truth. Cops are more likely to let violence by a woman slide especially when the victim/husband/boyfriend begs you not to lock her ass up
@Kraken
That’s also true. In most instances though I did not let them off the hook. In most cases it wasn’t possible. Someone has to go if there’s DV. I Damn sure wasn’t risking my career hoping that would be the end of it only to find one dead hours later and me being escorted to internal investigations. So if someone had to go, the one who broke the law went and of that was the woman, to bad so sad. Think next time before you tee off on your man.
@Exterminatore I agree. We had to fike a DV affidavit even if there wasn't an arrest. I had no problem arresting women for DV.
On a side note, how about we go to the Ukraine and kill Russians for fun?
@Kraken
Well sir, I do own an AK and have an itchy trigger finger. I got 2 weeks of vacay in July. If the war is still on I’m down. Killing commies is a wet dream for me.
Yeah the way law enforcement favors women overwhelmingly is pretty annoying.
Every woman needs to be taught how to throw a good throat jab.
To build away domestic situations. Plan your societies on the principle of men and women having their own space rather than have to deal with eachother every day.
Separation. The abused should grow a backbone and quietly, if possible, stealthily leave the abuser. Simple.
By when first time it happens leave. I had ex starting become verbally abusive. I got out before it got physical.
My wife is like this the first time she punched me in the mouth and took a bite of my finger.. I should of left her then.. meanwhile she will act like nothing is wrong.. a few weeks ago we got into it again.. her saying things like oh you don’t want me to kiss you? Are you getting kisses from some else? She claimed I punched her in the chest.. the kicker was she lied and said she had a protective order on me so of course I get arrested and in jail for 4 hours.. until they researched and saw no protection order existed.
At this point I just want to cut my losses 4 years is enough with her meanwhile my mother in-law is pleading with me to forgive her and take her back… hell no! But I think I know the reason why and I think it deals with her trying to become a citizen.
Ensuring that housing is affordable so that people are not trapped living in unhealthy situations.
Imprisoned serial killers, terrorists and rapists receive thousands of love letters from women.
Leave the relationship. For some, homelessness ends up being the alternative, but it's better than being assulted on a regular basis
Prevention.
Pick better partners.
Teach kids to know what is abuse and how not to get locked in a relationship.