You can tell a lot about a Man based off their children and I grew up in an abusive home so I hate child abusers with a passion with a burning passion
If you're a child abuser or I feel like your child is being neglected I'm going to hate you I'm not just going to lose respect for you I'm going to absolutely hate you
Another reason I might lose respect for someone because of their children would be because I've seen that person being neglectful of their kids like not keeping an eye for them when they should be an example I'm going to use and this is an actual person I've actually seen on multiple occasions she goes down to the same train station everyday and lets her kids run about right next to the tracks this is a small train station sure but trains are fast and letting your kids play near the tracks as an absolutely horrible thing for you to do and this lady lets them do it so yeah I have no respect for her honestly I barely even view her as a human being by this point
Aside from things involving neglect of a child
People who talk good about my sister or talking bad about my father will quickly lose my respect
People who I find to be incompetent leaders will lose my respect
People who neglected their employees also lose my respect
People who I find it to be stupid losing my respect
There are relative quirks everybody has and there are fundamental flaws.
I noticed a lot of women immediately listed “racist, sexist, homophobic, etc.” So if I declined to join you on a pride parade or I never supported BLM does that automatically make me a homophobe and/or racist? The definition on what is or is not racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. keeps getting expanded.
The truth is EVERYBODY is prejudice about something. The human brain has a way of categorizing situations, people, etc. to avoid risks and danger.
This is of course no always justified and has historically lead to horrible injustices. But with that said nobody I mean absolutely nobody is 100% non prejudice. Many people adjust as they grow and mature but the far left doesn’t even think thats good enough (e. g. people getting canceled over stupid tweets they made 10+ years ago).
Anyway I have the found the people who go around protesting and proselytizing about this alway turn out to be giant hypocrites.
Stinginess in the house of God and anger management problems, like a guy who slandered me for years asked me to pay $25.00 for a ride to a bible study less than 40 miles away and there were three passengers so he was collecting $75.00 for the ride there, and when I refused to date him, he hated me for over a year because he did not charge me gas money for rides home from church and he thought I financially robbed him of his monetary investment. And there was another guy who would get angry at me because he did not like my casual and carefree demeanour and than tell me he would date me if I changed for him because he wanted a conservative girl - I would rather eat nothing except rice for 4 months than go on a single date with him.
Oof… it’s a pretty big list. I’ll name a few or I might have to keep typing a LONGGG paragraph the whole night
- rude to waiters or people in the service sector
- racists. I don’t mean the ones who actually aren’t.. I mean the ones who genuinely are racist. I’ve met plenty and it’s an instant dealbreaker. I would not like to interact with them at all.
- showing complete lack of respect to anyone irrespective of their age or gender
- throwing insults at someone for having an opinion that was different from theirs
- arrogance. I despise arrogant, know-it-all’s with a passion.
Agree with all but I wouldn’t be so automatically judgmental about somebody working in a psych ward. Sure there are bad people but I imagine many of them are decent. It would be a very tough job to have. Would require incredible patience.
@adfsdf1996 That's like saying a few staffs were known for being abusive, so now pysch ward staff in general everywhere deserve than moniker when you know damn well those people would be sacked the second they laid a finger on anyone.
@suckmynuts369 The same people who generalize police as being authoritarian are the same idiots who try to defend psych ward staff. Bunch of hypocrites.
Are all psych ward staff abusive, no but that doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be reforms. People who think psych wards don’t need a makeover are part of the problem.
@suckmynuts369 if someone said that 1 out of the 5 brownies in front of you had dog shit in it but they didn't know which one... you'd be warry of all of those brownies...
@adfsdf1996 Admittedly I've only experienced one psych ward. They bend over backwards and must go to sleep in torture because of how much they get shit on. I can't imagine an accredited hospital where this isn't the case.
@Subarugirl 1 out of 5? That's like saying a gastric bypass surgeon is a bastard for calling people out when they cannot be lied to but apply tough love, so you get one complaint. It means nothing.
Bigotry, hatred, intolerance. Just recently, a now ex-friend complained about an actual friend, saying that they were homophobic. When I mentioned that I knew for sure, by personal experience, that that could not be true, I became the target of expressions that I just do not want to repeat and all in very nasty forms.
This person has been having a rather difficult time for some time--health, financial--but I just was lost for words and, even when I could respond, asking if the horrible attitude I had just been exposed to was a constant belief, I was told in even cruder terms that since I was obviously 'one of those' that it would be best if I left, which I did.
Later attempts to make contact were rebuffed and, actually, I'm relieved because I still feel shocked at what happened. It's that loss of respect that I don't think can ever be restored that's the worst of all of this.
People who are racist People who are cruel to animals. People who are really homophobic People who are sjw People who just hate others for simply being religious. People who try to indicate you for not following a religion at all. People who are anti-sjw ( The opposite of sjw basically people who just hate any sort of progress.) Rich white old men who controls and abused others! And parents who constantly abused their children and demand respect in return. (Trust me from learning from experience!)
So you are the perfect being, hate everything and everyone and are too pussy to have a stance against the wrong in the world. Tell us about your "abuse." I'm curious. Real parents demand respect without commanding it. It's little bastards that are so butt hurt they defy comprehension. Do you have a nut sack?
-when someone is self entitled, lacking any respect and behaves like a Karen -deluded queers -> those who are strictly in denial of the truth and keep on believing their dumb conspiracies/superstition -highly religious people -people strictly holding on to toxic gender roles -> like: the man as the provider and mentally strong leader, the woman as the poor victim -shallow superficial people -people who are fakes and lying -those doing everything to make people believe they are something great
I think one of them besides just repeatedly disrespecting me is the gossiping type spreading rumors about people behind their backs. They put me at a disadvantage with their indirect ways to assault the reputations of people I care about because I refuse to do the same back to them. Snitches also bother me as well even if they're doing a responsible thing trying to maintain order and rules in society since they have such an indirect way of going about it.
@dustybiker I had a colleague long ago who sort of epitomized that type, and initially, she seemed to single me out more than others for the gossip mill perhaps because I was the youngest to join the team. I didn't really know what to do about it except to forge as many alliances as I could there so that people could see that the rumors are untrue. Later she shift her focus to a new designer who joined our team after some years and spread rumors that he was secretly sharing our internal product designs with our competitors.
Thankfully she sort of dug her own grave since she got caught leaking company IP to customers and then tried to blackmail my boss threatening to leak more if he fired her. He just ended up letting her go. Yet I've never learned an effective way to deal with those types given the ethical constraints I impose on myself.
@dustybiker I was definitely very lucky that way in the end. I tried to do some direct confrontations with her but she was many years my senior and would say how she doesn't care about the opinions of some junior engineer. That's one of the reasons we all struggled as a team even after discovering many of the rumors came from her and were untrue. She had a senior position over all of us.
I think I hate cowardly people if I think about it. That's what I see in common with snitches and gossiping types even though they aren't as bad as the gossipers, and backstabbers. I don't like how cowardly they are. Asskissers too to some respect -- gossipers, snitches, asskissers. But the most damaging are the gossipers.
When they: - Don't show respect towards my boundaries and/or emotions. - Treat everyone like shit. - Make inappropriate comments regarding sexual attraction. - Make the most foolish and offensive jokes or comments towards the LGBTQ+ community.
Right now, with unemployment as low as it is, someone who says they can't find a job.
Means they either aren't trying or they are way too selective. If they at least get a job, even if it isn't the perfect match and work at it while they look for another that gets respect from me.
Drug use and inconsistent opinions/thought process. I really appreciate people who are honest and straightforward and stick to whatever values they hold. Constantly changing is very frustrating when you are trying to have a relationship or maintain a friendship.
I would say, greed OR disregard for animals. With animals I mean, being mean to them and also--not believing in their own rights. I dont like those who engage in horse racing, especially if they are in it for the business of racing them. That's exploiting an animal for your own entertainment and to make money. Greed disgusts me.
Extremism… I don’t care if it’s left or right. In one day I unfriended two people on Facebook for it. One was continuously spouting alt-right QAnonsense. The other answered everything… EVERYTHING… regardless of topic, with near religious praise of everything Biden and the democrats do. Both became a hindrance to logging in.
I don't know really, because if it is something they've said, I can usually forgive them. BUT, respect doesn't work like that for me. Every time I might forgive, respect for them dwindles away slowly. I guess it isn't normally over one thing, it is many until I no longer value them at all.
Three things. If I find out they are drug users, or really any substance abusers.. If I find out they are a spouse abuser.. Or if I find out they are a child abuser..
And finally one that makes me lose some respect, is if they are feminists or leftists or any combination of the two.
I was a substance abuser, but I am probably one of the most kindest and caring people you will meet.
Before you know someone’s story as to “why” maybe you shouldn’t be so harsh to judge.
Some of the stories behind why are quite tragic and sad. And if you stand by someone’s side through this to help them see there’s a light behind the dark, they can come out from the storm.
You WERE a substance abuser.. Were.. That is VASTLY different than if you are currently. Please don't put words in my mouth.
And the reason I feel the way I do about it, is because my m chose drugs and prostitution over being a mom to me, I haven't spoken to her in 25 years because of that.
Again if you were a substance abuser but aren't now that is VASTLY different for me that if you are currently. At no point in my comment did I ever say "if you were ever a substance abuser" I said if you are one. I find it comical when someone reads something and sees only what they want to see.. It makes my first rule real.. People are stupid, they will believe something either because they want it to be true, or are afraid it might be true, rather than seeing the actual truth.
Why did you feel the need to put me down because I replied to your comment? Calling me stupid.
I didn’t put you down, I just expressed another way of thinking to look at things and maybe not to judge those so harshly when going through something.
I don’t understand why that was such a bad thing to do?
I also never put words in your mouth, again I gave a different way in which to see or think or look at things. I never said you had to see things this way, but the thought was now floating around that you could.
If you haven’t seen, spoken or heard from her in 25 years then who’s to say that she hadn’t changed?
And I can speak from experience. My sister, I do not speak to her. I won’t go into why. But I have also left the door open and said that if I ever saw change, and I mean real change, not fake change then I’d be open to the possibility of starting to gain our relationship back slowly.
Again I think you may tend to jump in and judge before thinking. But that’s just my two cents. Have a lovely day.
@its_amelia_c The only part im going to respond to is the 25 year thing with my mom.. She both physically and sexually abused me as a child, and so did one of her husbands.. That is reason enough that i just dont want her in my life.
People who are obviously full of shit and deceitful. Corrupt people. Extremists, especially religious zealots and political extremists (unfortunately these days, that means those who "still" support Trump and your basic Republican leadership). Bigots and racists. Anyone involved in major criminal acts, especially human trafficking or pedophilia.
Lying, when people treat others poorly - people letting their emotions dictate their actions and behavior, when someone judges others - based on their own morality & world view. The latter being very common on here.
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I have had this in a minor way with a few guys (masturbating after seeing them), but in a very very intense way with one of my long-term love interests. I can just text with him and the simple thought of him makes me very wet without me touching myself. More specifically, the idea of him simply thinking of me makes me wet.. when we actually do see each other and get physical, I shake and get so insanely wet that he asks me if I already came which I haven't lol
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When it comes to girls that I’m looking for it’s a deal breaker if they’re immature, make fun of you behind your back, look down on others because they think they’re hot shit, had some kind of nasty occupation (like they were a stripper, prostitute, or only fans girl), mean to others, quickly judges a book by its cover, gold diggers, are into incest, racist, and use guys to boost their egos.
When they insult me/anyone without provokation. Smoking. Alcoholic. Being rude to everyone around them and cursing too much. Doing shitty things to others. Acting in a bitchy way. They do the double standards. Careless.
There is probably more, but these came to my mind now.
People who don't think for themselves and people who lack empathy. The two often go hand in hand. They're empathetic towards people that society says to be empathetic towards. But at the same time will demonize and dehumanize certain other groups of people.
Prejudice/bigotry, shaming promiscuous people, and shaming women who get abortions (people are quick to jump to conclusions regarding that last one) just to name a few. Sorry I couldn't help it. 🙃
@Creampiekarl420 you like when people behave entitled and pompously? Not talking about confidence here, talking about people who treat others like scum because they perceive themselves as better humans somehow. As if they don't shit like everyone else. If so, I wish you the best. But nope. It's not for me. As a matter of fact it's also a form of disrespect.
Lying for no reason, eg lying about what they ate for breakfast. Stealing instead of asking for something if they’re in need. Becoming friends with people who have abused/assaulted/r@ped me in the past.
When someone is bullying When someone is racist When some on is abusing a animal/child/old people When someone SA someone else when someone is disrespectful, arrogant, judgmental or underhanded
When they are a hypocrite. Or act one way in front of you, but another way in front of others. (Such as being nice to you, but a total arse to other people)
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Liars have none of my respect. Also, when someone can’t properly spell or speak (for native speakers) makes me lose a little bit of respect, but not much.
If I find out that they are a liberal/democrat still after all that has happened these last few years. I won't be friends with them or trust them either.
arrogance. i hate arrogance. if someone acts like he or she is superior and look down upon someone , it is just huge turn off for me. i lose respect for them. treat others like humans because you are one of them.
Right at the top of my list are liars and cheats. Followed closely by foul language. People that press politics even after being told to "knock it off"!
People who treat others badly because they are different or think different. Also people that make up stories or twist things in a negative way about people they want to harm.
Talking down to anyone and or anything different than what they perceive as normal. Everything is always changing, accept what is and be open to new experiences and peoples.
if they say things like "a woman is a person that identifies as one" or "trans women in female sports is an achievement for female empowerment", "there's more than 2 genders" stuff along those lines.
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If they're anti gun, pro abortion, voted for Biden in the last election, promote LGBT/trans stuff, supported BLM ever, Antifa ever, or is apart of any other hate group.
So basically you like liars who say they won an election they lost and who support violence because of that lie. Oh, and you like people who march around statues with torches screaming about Jews. Got it.
Aww it's so adorable you actually believe the shit you got told on TV. None of it is true. 3 more got acquitted of no wrong doing on Jan 6th The cops waved them in and opened the doors. Gosh you such an adorable little cupcake believing everything you hear I'm sure you believed Saddam had weapons of mass destruction too and that Putin is hurting from the war when his currency has gone up and us dollars down drastically. So adorable that you believe antisemitism is from the right when they hold all the funds to help Jews displaced while the left back jihadists. Backing both Muslims and LGBT at the same time. What kind of retards you gotta be to not see the "conflict of interest" in that? Lmfao. Also also also pay attention to the midterms and enjoy the show. People are 4x more likely to register republican over Democrat in midterm elections. Also the right wasn't burning down city blocks and shooting minora calling it the "summer of love". They had one day of issues and the left had 4 years of looting, burning, murders. You think everyday people aren't paying attention to the lies? Russiagate, collusion, the lies in the Rittenhouse case? Gosh I just can't wait for the next elections now! ☺️
Sure thing, anonymous Naziboy. I'm sorry you have zero talent and are filled with insecurity and irrational hatred because of it. But it's your fault, not the Jews. OK?
Lol look how programmed you are. I'm with a brown woman, married to her, having babies with her. My family has black and brown all up in it and I'm multiracial. I'm pretty sure Nazis aren't fond of my Moroccan and Tunisian heritage but whatever, try harder nazigril. The left are the real Nazis, always using race and tribal lines to distinguish and divide and then try to weaponize it... Like nazis.
You are a racist. Skin color has nothing to do with being sucked into a right-wing extremist cult. Anyone can hate Jewish people. And you are the proof :)
I am? So point to where I mentioned Jews once you Nazi nutjob. Jews aren't a race either. It's a religion and an ethnic identity. But please continue the idiocy it's hilarious 😂😘🧁
So you didn't support Antifa burning down city blocks, beating people at voting booths, vandalizing small businesses. God you're a low hanging fruit. "Your peeps" : You're such a f*cking moron if you're comparing tikitorch wielding virgins holding a protest to literal domestic terrorists attacking American citizens. This is why I hate white chicks. They got no idea wtf is going on in the world. Keep drinking the koolaid. There's a reason I avoid wh*te b*tches like the plague
You support violence and I don't. That's the difference. In other words, u r a monster. All you do is find excuses for murderous rioters on January 6th. Find where I support rioting. Go search. :)
@supercutebutt Biden totally legitimately got 81 million votes. Anyone who believes that still at this point should check themselves into the nearest psych ward.
@Sioercutebutt point to where I supported violence moron. You said "my peeps". No way of knowing sh*t about me. So then I used turn about and your clueless white female lib brain can't even see it because you're so goddamn stupid. 😂
Violent? Abortion is violence. You allowing Russia to invade Ukra is violent. You arming Mexican drug cartels is violent. You telling illegals to cross the border in the back of a Coyote's truck is violence. Don't act like a troll now just because you got pawned for your complete lack of know and reasoning. I'm nice to people who aren't establishment shills and leftist retards. Your ignorance is a plague on society and you wanna joke? Here's a joke let's see you buying a home in 10 years from all your leftist Bs. Now THAT is gonna be hilarious! 😂😂😂
Me? Wow. You are delusional. Go find Trump and pleasure his mushroom, while his lover Vladdy P makes luv to his elderly anus. I never saw a group who loves dictators and mentally ill people more than u QAnons. It's sick, dude. You are in a cult. Seek help. :) PS I am wealthy.
@supercutebutt Cool your heels, you pie-faced hobby horse. Ashley's diary and Hunter's laptop are not fake news. The Potato Head diddled his daughter in the shower, the Biden family has received tens of millions of dollars in shady dealings with Russia and China. Why don't you go have a totally mostly peaceful fiery protest about it?
This is what happens when retards take Facebook memes literally. See you in the midterms lol. I'll be enjoying that meltdown and it's coming to birch smack your ignorant ass real soon better go phone project rice bowl you little welp. Pedo Joe is gonna leave you really hungry while Republicans have to bail your asses out of your own stupidity 😁
No you're not, your parents are. And if you think money will have value when the dollar crashes in 10 years you're funny AF. Wealthy people don't like leftist Bs politics, look at Elon musk. And he's way more wealthy and important than your whole worthless bloodline. Your ignorance makes me smile. I wish I could be there to watch you have to deal with that fall out. 😘☺️
@supercutebutt He said she's tall, she voluptuous, she's tall, blah blah blah, if he were a single guy he would think she's very dateable. This is all very true, he's a proud man, has every right to be. "Oh, but Trumphth, he's the more evil of two evils, I'm a libtard that has Trump Derangement Syndrome, oh my godzzz!"
@supercutebutt Who blows Russian cock? What? The family that totally legitimately according to lefty sources does nothing wrong with dealing with Russia and receiving tens of millions of dollars? Yup, it's totally fantastic. Just consultation fees? Consultation for what?
I am a proud moderate who sees that Trump and his tards are doofs. But since you are in his dope cult, you can't figure out how people can possibly dislike him. Your brain is warped. And I am wealthy on my own. I am an investing genius :)
You are NOT a moderate. You never speak out against the DnC or bring up any libertarian or moderate ideas so GTFO. You're not an "investing genius". At 21 if you have money it's because you're a only fans thot
@supercutebutt Is this the third time you said something about your money? Your genius investing? I could care less if you had treefifty worth of pennies to your name. You're still a libtarded moron who's "super wide load ass" has nothing on Ivanka's, Melania's, or Tifanny's.
@suckmynuts369 Well, you can tell the gentleman who just enjoyed my butt that it sucks. But it won't explain why he exploded within 2 minutes of experiencing it. LOL!
@supercutebutt Your boyfriend or john or fiance or husband and his lasting prowess is something you tell the whole world about? He throws his hot dog down the hall way, and which hall way we don't know, the Hershey hall way or the other tunnel that can fit a semi truck and trailer and spouts in less than 2 minutes. This is such great evidence your butt is anything other than as fascinating Whoopi Goldberg's, that we must all bow down to the great butt and investing prowess you have.
when they put their "pronouns" after their signature. A sure sign of a retard, Anyone who approves of affirmative action or dividing students or employees based on their genitals or melanin levels.
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You're such a f*cking moron if you're comparing tikitorch wielding virgins holding a protest to literal domestic terrorists attacking American citizens. This is why I hate white chicks. They got no idea wtf is going on in the world. Keep drinking the koolaid. There's a reason I avoid wh*te b*tches like the plague 
