My boyfriend broke up with me because i wouldn't give him money?!

[Anonymous]

Ok. Last month he asked me to trick my dad into sending me $1000 dollars for his rent and lights and stuff which I did. But I felt bad for lying and gave it back because he pays all of my bills and shouldn't have to pay Malik's too. So he had to move out. He lives with his mom now. So the other day he asked for $30 to keep his cell phone on...that's not my job so I said no. He texted me and was like "if I had a dad who gave me money I would take care of you always. Forget you ho. I'm done. You a kept b*tch I need a b*tch that keep!" I laughed it off and didn't text back. But when I told one of my friends she looks at me and goes "it was just $30" and I was thinking about it. Should I have given him the $1000 and $30...since I had it? I just didn't want it to become a habit.

[zahra]

You are right.. Man who asking his woman for money is not a man. am not against helping others but am against using our lover's emotions for our own benefits.

He doesn't love you. you did good for not lie to your kind father.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't matter $1 or $30 or $1,000

In my society... the only way to look at a man who keeps asking money for a woman's money is...

sorry...

a kind of doing living on women's money...starting with P_ _ _

[Asker]

Yeah. That's what I was thinking too lol

[AltTech]

Good for you for not giving it to him. You're damn right it would have become a habit. That guy is a douchebag and you are better off without him.

[Asker]

Yeah...thanx:)

[mikkie180]

He was just trying to use you. Good riddance.

[yanikaray2015]

I just got rid of a bum like that. Tried to play me out my money and when I said NO, of course he left me... so he did me a favor. I'm glad bcus he asked me how much my paycheck was... as if... and then inquired about my alarm code... Im like bye craig!

[Bosslady3535]

I think it’s wrong and it will be continued
If a man is with you for the wrong intention, “money” then he will expects gifts and also expect money to be given to him. Especially if he knows you have money. I went through an experience where I was asked for a large sum of money and when I said no, because I could not do it, the relationship was ended with me and I was shamed as a horrible partner and ignored and even told I was weak as well as other things.
No one should shame you if you can’t give them money, that’s not love, that’s manipulation

[Quadrophonic84]

He's a total f*cking loser. A guy that asks a woman to steal for him has no respect for her.

[Asker]

Yeah. It completely felt like I had stole $1000!

[Honeybaby]

Be thankful that you are not with him anymore.