Who does society care about more men or women?

[VanillaSalt]

https://youtube.com/shorts/Atb35BLzvOM?feature=share

This circus show called the Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard case should already be over by now. But I’m grateful it’s showing people more publicly the difference between being a man and a woman. Society only protects women and men don’t matter. That’s the truth. Even with such facts brought to light there’s still people defending Amber and picking on Johnny’s son in school…

Men

Women

A total of 25 votes were cast: 5 girls and 20 guys. See detailed results

[ZackBan]

It's not even a debate but I'm glad this high profile trial brought it to the spotlight.

This woman made a one sided claim in an interview and a world famous actor lost everything.

And now he's suck in a long legal battle just to prove that the opposite is true. And even with endless evidence she's still getting movie deals.

Where's the fairness? Why hasn't she been banned from Hollywood already? Regardless of the trials outcome. All she had to do was make a claim, now a claim has been made about her. But no, a man's claim needs to be proven in front of judge and jury and even then she'll get away with a slap on the wrist and Will STILL use terms like "patriarchy" as if there is such a thing.

[MCheetah]

Society objectively cares about women more. It's an indisputable fact. Not only for societal reasons (the "Women are wonderful" effect), but also for sheer biological reasons: sperm is cheap and plentiful but a womb is invaluable and has an expiration date. Where are all those women at, fighting for Ukraine's freedom against Putin and Russia? Oh? What? They all left the country? Well I'll be a monkey's uncle!

There's a ton more I could say here, but it'd mostly just be on how retarded feminists are, so I'll just leave you all with that.

[HormoneGuy]

As a man suffering with depression, I can say that for men, it is way harder to get mental health help. You also don't have many people to talk to.
This will slowly rot your brain until its to late.

[VanillaSalt]

I had depression. Then I stopped. Got tired of it and found a focus. Gaming and anime go me through the most difficult years of my life… continue to this day. Though I’m def warped by this world. Less empathetic to others and less social then I should be.

[Anonymous]

Society cares more about woman. Always has, always will. There is an overall lack of sympathy for men and male victims of any sort are often overlooked.

[Opinion Owner]

Women*

[Anonymous]

It's not just a question of society, it's a question of biology: all human beings always have, still do, and always will care way more about women.

[Anonymous]

Women, and you can credit that to men.

[VanillaSalt]

I feel this is the biggest truth here but I’m not looking to assign blame. Many people believe this type of woman to be a trope in movies… these women are real and this is to be an eye opener for anyone that fails to understand…

[Opinion Owner]

Okay

[Jamie05rhs]

@Anonymous Are you saying that it's a good thing or a bad thing?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

It's a bad thing, but if you want to be successful, you'll just play the game to win. I answered a question about if nice guys finish last. I said they do, and some guy didn't like my answer and now I'm ignoring him. The author is also ignoring him. Just cowboy-up and play the game to the best of your ability.

I told a guy on here that I'd write him a dating profile that made him look like a rock star, and he ran for the hills. I'm tired of trying to help those who can't help themselves.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. I can't understand why he would reject your offer. That sounds very generous and helpful.

[Jamie05rhs]

But why is women being favored a bad thing? Please explain that part.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

He just wanted to argue, and I'm not into that. I just think both sexes should be equal. If you and her are on the same page, you should just go with that. If you like her an she likes you, life is too short to play games. My parents divorced when I was eight years old. I used to cry myself to sleep listening to them argue. On sites like this everyone thinks that marriage is the dream come true. I'll take a friend with benefits any day, over something like I had to live through.

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww. I'm sorry you had that bad experience. I can tell you right now that some people are just not right for each other, and they shouldn't get married because they are not compatible. Others are just not mature enough to handle a relationship. But that doesn't mean that no one is right for anyone. There ARE good relationships out there that do exist.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

Relationships are very much like a video game. There are different levels, and not all of us are on the same level. I hate people who judge others because they are on a lower level.

So here are the levels as I see it.

Single and content

Hookups

Fuck Buddy

Friend with benefits

Boyfriend/girlfriend

Marriage

If you’re coming out of a bad marriage, there’s no way in hell you want to go back to the top level. You might just be better off being single. But then married people might judge you for just being single. I see this all the time. Just let people be on the level that works for them. I’ve tried hookups, but it just wasn’t for me. I think the best situation is the friends with benefits. That’s where I seem to fit in the best.

[Jamie05rhs]

Interesting. I don't quite see it exactly the same way, but I will respect our difference of opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

How do you see it? I've said on this site that hookups are like trying to only eat one potato chip. I'd rather have no potato chip than just one.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, I agree with you regarding hookups. And I totally feel you on the potato chip analogy. 100%.

Where we differ is just that I don't view sex as levels of a game at all. I think relationships have levels, yes. But my personal beliefs are that sex should be reserved for committed relationships *only.*. So I don't even get into sex with someone At All unless it's the final level. As in, we've already "won the game."

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

I can respect that, but we're not all made out of the same cookie cutter. Before Match bought OK Cupid, the site was so fun. It was the largest collection of poly people on the Internet. Now it's total crap, and they made it like Tinder.

I talked to a wife that had a husband, two boyfriends, and two fuck buddies. I couldn't wrap my head around this dynamic. How does it work? It was fun to talk and try to learn, but I just couldn't get how it worked. I'm not for or against this, but how do you do it? lol
Is there a schedule? What if you had five women. Now what? How does it work on Christmas?
Valentine's day? How does Friday work? Saturday? I love the topic, but I still don't get it.

So now you have five women, but they also have other men, and the other men have other women...

It's like a spider web.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree; OKCupid sucks now. (But that's okay, because I don't need it anyway.)

[VanillaSalt]

Lol that’s what I’m sayin! But what comes into it is the broken families that make these individuals. These people have broken families so they don’t get together with extended family on holidays. It’s usually one or both sides like this. Feminism and BLM (not political) have broken the nuclear family and this is the result. We care more for ourselves then we do others, more for minorities and fringe politics then our children, more for our planet then we do our future.

As if life and dating and families not hard enough some cunts gotta make it harder.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm definitely 100% against polyamory. No offense.

[Jamie05rhs]

@VanillaSalt Not sure what BLM has to do with anything.

[VanillaSalt]

Minorities are a major focus for politics right now to the point a black man has similar privilege to women. If they say something it won’t be questioned off the bat. And BLM pushes for the breakdown of the nuclear family.

Anything that negatively impacts society effects this issue but the top issue is the movements looking to break relations between people. Could argue MGTOW and MRAs are part of this. Ide say this is true even though I’m very pro-MRA. If men just shut up and did everything their told and bowed to the obvious superiority of women then men and women would get along better right lmao?

But anywho yeah. We’ve weakened the bonds between people. Now look nobody cares when men or women cry about how unfair everything is, nobody cares to improve because for men women ain’t worth it and for women they can get what they want, and when it comes time to value family they can’t because… pick your reason.

[Jamie05rhs]

@VanillaSalt I pretty much agree with you on your opinion of that organization. But I don't like to use the term "minorities.". We're all precious children of God, and every life and every soul should be respected and valued.

[VanillaSalt]

I don’t give a damn what we are labels exist for a reason. Blue is a label, human is a label, minority is a label. I don’t believe in this control of speech. If I ain’t running up on you calling you the n word I’m not insulting you cause of your skin color… I’m probably insulting you for being a moron or being an asshole but not your skin.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

Cupid was free, and Match is a pay site. Match bought them to destroy them. There's a Reddit page devoted to this. I don't care.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Anonymous I wouldn't doubt that for one second.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

They had the most sophisticated search engine on the planet. Maybe you don't want a smoker or a drinker. Cool, so just tick those boxes. Or maybe you don't want a fat girl like me, cool, just tick the box.

But the best part was the questions you could answer. There were tons of them from many categories. No one cared about any category but sex. Match destroyed that.

[Jamie05rhs]

I know!! Their matching system was state-of-the-art. That's why I joined.

(I might have gotten a date, too, if I actually knew how to talk to girls. 🤦)

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

It was the best system on the planet. I'm not into hookups, but Cupid allowed you to check that box. I think it was called "casual sex."

Here's why that's so important: 90% of people on any dating site is just looking for sex, but the dating sites frown on having that as a category, so they prefer people just lie about their intent. It's much more noble to lie than tell the truth. It's so stupid. Let everyone find what they want. If you want a real relationship, then just be in the 10% category that are looking for the same thing.

[Jamie05rhs]

90%? Holy shit!! That's really fucking sad. Good grief!

[Jamie05rhs]

But yeah; I agree! Just be honest about it!

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

I know a woman who’s been on the same dating site for 15 years. She says that all men are assholes and just looking for sex. OK, groovy. So why has she continued to fuck all these monsters for 15 years?

She’s full of shit, and just needing to be a victim. Online dating is the most logical thing on the planet, but it doesn’t work.

I’m going to become a billionaire for my new idea for singles.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow.

Oh yeah? Nice!

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

www.meetup.com

It only works in big cities, for obvious reasons. You join for free, and then join groups you like.
Maybe you like wine tasting, nature walks or dinners.

ONLY join groups with a large membership. No one gives two shits about a sewing club.
Dinner, drinks and dancing is what you want. And when you join for free, you can PM the other members. Ask women for advice, guidance and tricks of the trade.

When I joined, I joined about three groups. You have to RSVP for an outing. I joined a dinner club, and I signed up for a Mexican restaurant. A guy messaged me and we started chatting.

He was so cool and funny. He asked if I could be his date to the restaurant. I agreed, because I felt awkward going alone. It was awesome, because endless chatting doesn't compare with a man holding your hand. I was so out of my comfort zone and scared, but I loved it. At the end of the night, I was afraid he would kiss me. But I was even more afraid that he wouldn't kiss me. Crap. lol

[Jamie05rhs]

You know what, this is hilarious. Because this one chick that I met on OKCupid 10 years ago is the one who told me about Meetup.

[Jamie05rhs]

Meetup isn't for dating, though. Just saying.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs

I don't even know what to say about that.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. Lol

[Anonymous]

Women are scarce commodity.

[ZackBan]

Why? They are literally half the population, some studies suggest even more than half.
Why are we socially programmed to treat each woman like rare gemstone?

[Opinion Owner]

@ZackBan

"Why? They are literally half the population, some studies suggest even more than half."

The sex ratio for total population of the world is 101 males for 100 females.

So men are more in numbers.

I said scarce not rare, I didn't say women are special.

They just relatively less in population than men.

"Why are we socially programmed to treat each woman like rare gemstone?"

Ask simps!

[ZackBan]

I don't speak Simp which makes communication hard with them.
And the urge to punch them in the face is hard to resist.

[VanillaSalt]

Anons right. Women are items to be used by the human race for procreation. Men are tools to be used by the human race to build it better with blood, sweat, and tears. This IS true.

And the fact is 1 woman and 100 men is not the same as 1 man and 100 women. Unfortunate biological importance.