How do you explain unexplained shame?

[jennifer_bloom]

I avoided Facebook and linked in for over 3 years because I was ashamed and I avoided everybody at church because I felt like a fake and an impostor and I don’t know why I felt that way. I felt I would attract drama merely by appearing in public online. Something inside me told me to hide myself from the world. Now the shame is fading away, it gets weaker each day.

[Zeus_66]

Folks, pro tip. Do not opine on this person's questions. If you disagree with her in a civic manner, all she does is delete your comments. As a person who proudly calls herself a Christian of 22 years, she is not tolerant. She is extremely judgmental. And she has an elitist mentality. She is not worth your time.

[hotwife98]

Don't compare your life to others... everyone has their own pace and social media has totally destroyed that... anxiety is a major issue as everyone thinks they aren't good enough.

[KuriousityCills04]

I really struggle with that, and am currently trying to figure things out..
Do you give advice on stuff like this?

[hotwife98]

@KuriousityCills04 not really, just work at your own pace... dont listen to other people who have had different opportunities/backgrounds/upbringing to you... do what you think is right and always strive to improve... reflect on yourself every day.

[KuriousityCills04]

@hotwife98 Thank you for that! :) I do try my best, but I still struggle with it.
Would you mind checking out some of my questions, or hitting me up? I am needing some advice.

[hotwife98]

@KuriousityCills04 I dont tend to pm as some guys here have been pretty weird. I think the advice I gave you should suffice.

[KuriousityCills04]

@hotwife98 Oh! its on a completely different topic.
But I understand.