Why don’t men care as much about a woman’s ability to earn/provide security, but women care? Also, why do men care more about body count than women?

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mr4435669 · Accepted Answer

Men care more about the sexual past of women because in earlier times the man could not be sure if his son was really his son, on the contrary, the woman does not care about the sexual past of the man, but on the contrary , because promiscuous men have more status than other men, and women do not have to worry about making sure if their child is really their child because they are the ones who give birth to it.

Sixgunsound · Accepted Answer

Because men and women have different goals in relationships. Women want someone who can provide for her and any eventual children, as well as protect her from the world. Men want youth beauty and purity to have the best chance of passing on their genes in healthy children.

MzAsh · Answer

Smart women care about a man’s sexual past because the greater likelihood he has of fathering children from other women, the more she and her family with him suffers from the division of his time and resources.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Men care about body count cause it's an ego thing, they want to be the only one to be the first to plant their little flag and claim discovery before any other guy does. But a lot of them think they should be able to have high body count and it not matter? How are you going to demand virgins while also wanting to run through multiple women? In order to do that a woman would have to what? HAVE SEX WITH YOU, in otherwords that means she's no longer a virgin and sleeping with you will give her a body count. The whole thing is just idiotic, don't bitch about body count if both sexes aren't willing to abstain from sex and wait for marriage, otherwise you're going to have get over yourself and realize that most people these days have had sex or relationships before you even came long.. kinda like what you were doing before you met them. it's just dumb. Also men don't care cause that's typically not sexually attractive to them like other things are. For women it mattered cause it shows a man is stable and good partner that can't provide for her and her future offspring if they have any. Most people want and like stability in all areas of their relationships.

Aimer07 · Answer

We all know the answers but still ask... well at least in the past was obvious but don't know why now wonder?

What men want is so much simple than what women want and yet we ask?

Ok. Men want a beautiful wife that will care for him and his kids and be loyal.

Men have since beginning of human time provided and protected in exchange for love, care and respect. It's a man's dream to sacrifice most of his relax time and take risks to become great enough to attract a woman for who he wants to offer everything.

For women in the past and even now a big body count it's unacceptable because women are supposed to be pure unlike the men who It's a necessity to go through dirt, shame, humiliation, pain, and have all types of experience and knowledge.

No woman will look up to a man and be attracted to a man and respect him if he is a crying emotionally unstable virgin bitch who knows nothing and has experience in nothing.

Now we have science DNA who can prove who the father is but even then it's not worth the risk raising kids with a woman who had a high body count only to find out later they are not yours because some feelings of her ex came calling her back for a night or some random dude. So now your life ends up being a lie and wasted.

Women who have a high body count don't feel shy to have sex with a guy they met 10 minutes ago. Women who are pure have shame because they only had you and only have you so are much more likely to stick with you through hard times.

We've seen the impact of this. High body count women.

They will just block you and fuck some other guy.

Lionman95 · Answer

Because men have other interests in their partners then women do. Men are idealistically rather the ones that step up and try to solve a problem that arises, they are the ones for the "hard" fights and the ones that are less likely to be frightened by the changes of life.

I know that sounds stereotypical but I know from my own life that I feel miserable if I can´t get something done. Guys want to be the leaders, the strong ones. I don´t know a guy that loves to be called cute, pretty or sweet by other guys or women.

It´s not true that women don´t care about a guy´s body count they just make less of a fuss about it. Because guys have an idealistic mind that virgins are pure and women that had many partners are in some way damaged but it could also be the other way round. Because not all virgins are innocent angels. Plus her sexual past doesn´t make a you and her automatically compatible in character.

USLegionary · Answer

Because men generally have to be independent and fund themselves from an early age, if they want a partner they have to be able to look after her too. A woman's body count is an indication of her future loyalty to you, loyalty is important in a long term relationship. There's a difference between the women you bang and the woman you marry.

fred_durst · Answer

Why don’t men care as much about a woman’s ability to earn/provide security, but women care? because men are provider since thousand years ago , well back then men value determined on how good he was at hunting animals for food , but now , it is pretty much on how much he make money

why do men care more about body count than women? i prefer promiscuous women because they are just better in bed , generally people are good at things because they have experience on it ( everything , not just sex}

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Women and men are seeking different kinds of security. A woman's money isn't going to change how any man's desire to live his life, but a man's money will change whether a woman desires to be a stay at home mom.

Conversely, a woman having a high bodycount is a problem because it's a statement about who she thinks is worth letting get that close to her.

Vasarion · Answer

Because human nature has been shaped by evolution

TroyDT · Answer

Maybe men care more about body count than women because men, unless gay, do not have someone else's cells forcibly injected into them.

grega239 · Answer

Body count matters for the same reason miles on a car do.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because we're not looking for handouts and we don't need anyone to pay our shit.

Jouth · Answer

because thats mans job

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