I m really racist for not giving someone my phone number?

[Anonymous]

[ShellyB]

No it was not, from reading comments, you have a boyfriend so I would not expect you to give your phone number to any guys who were flirting with you and asking for it. Second you are under 18 I don't know how much like I don't know if you are 13 or 17 but the younger you are the less I would give out a phone number anyway unless it's to somebody you know pretty well or are in a class with maybe. Third even if you did not give your phone number to a guy bc you do not want to date somebody like him which could be for any reason, that is OK you do not need to force yourself to like somebody you do not like. I mean there is a hair color I will not date I don't want to say which it might bug people with that color hair. There are heights I won't date. I am just saying, you like who you like it can be for any reason and it isn't always fair.

[Amy10223]

To whom you give your number to is your business, and you don't need our approval here. You give your number to potential daters who you find attractive or like their personality. You don't need to feel guilty because they were not of your own race or ethnicity.

[Amy10223]

Thanks for the MHG

[Anonymous]

It depends on how oppressed, on average, the race of the person has suffered over the past 5,000 years. Nations have fought wars against racism and for justice so that anyone could ask for and receive the phone numbers of anyone they want. It’s basically why WWII was fought.

[slatyb]

No. You have no obligation to date anyone.

NEVER EVER EVER explain your reason for declining. Just say "Sorry, I don't think it would work." If it's a stranger, say "Sorry, I'm already in a relationship", even it that means with your mother or your cat.

[OlderAndWiser]

A few details would be helpful.

[Asker]

the guy was African American

[OlderAndWiser]

Did you feel any physical attraction to him?

[Asker]

hell yah.
he was really hot

[OlderAndWiser]

So why did you not pursue it?

[Asker]

I have a boyfriend

[OlderAndWiser]

So your decision wasn't based on his race, but on the fact that you are committed to someone else?

[Asker]

yah.

[OlderAndWiser]

So there's no racial motivation in that whatsoever. Has someone else called you racist because of this?

[Asker]

yah another black guy who was there and a girl

[OlderAndWiser]

Woke people LOVE to call other people racist. It makes them feel good. And they don't even care whether it's true.

[slatyb]

Sadly true. I'm generally liberal and vote Democratic, but there are illiberal people on both sides and plenty of false accusations thrown out casually and accepted without evidence.

[Charlesbrandonf]

Do they know you have boyfriend?

[Amy10223]

Having just read this... so out of tough, those girls who called you a racist. Just ignore them.

[PetiteBabe64]

Your Attractive Don’t let people take advantage of you. you did the right thing to Decline could of ended badly for you if you would have given your number they sound like Rapist that didn’t get there way so they try to Guilt you.

[LaBokaChula]

Why in the world would that make you racist? In some situations it makes you appear to be smart, the only time it would considered racist is if YOU decided to make it about race.. LOL

[BeMuse]

Nope, you're just retarded for thinking you are.

[BeMuse]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o58crKXlBlc

[RonStone45]

I think it's pretty dumb that she asked that question when the girl says she said no due to having a boyfriend already, even if she said no because she didn't want to or for whatever reason who cares about being called a racist for rejecting someone.

The guys that pull the race card after getting rejected to guilt trip gullible girls into giving their number is just next level pathetic.

[humanearth]

No, fuck no

Not giving out your phone number protects you.

Next time someone wants your number, give them 911 and tell them your 911 operator

[Summeroflove]

No. Lol. That’s not racist. Especially if you don’t even know them. If someone said that they’re a idiot.

[HighValue]

No. You can choose who you do or don't go out with. Plus you already have a boyfriend. Don't fall for being pressured into anything like that.

[notwoke]

it's perfectly fine to have the opinion of "I don't don't blacks attractive", or whites, or bald men or fat women, whatever. Not everyone is obligated to embrace every culture, look, etc.

[Levin]

Yes. I think you're racist against English people, too.

[bubblegunnn]

What is the relation between racist and give someone ur number

[dustybiker]

Sounds like you are a child. Not giving out your number is probably wise regardless.

[Charlesbrandonf]

If you like him, you should have give it your shot. But you’re not raciest for not giving your number

[FilmGuy93]

I don't understand what you're trying to ask here.

[worldscolide]

you're not racist if your choosing to preserve your current relationship by not giving some random guy your number.

[TacosRAwesome]

Nah not racist. And if they call you racist for that they suck ass and don't deserve your number anyways.

[Havthrills]

It's probably a good thing you didn't. It's not racist to deny someone a phone number. Did someone really think that?

[Jamie05rhs]

No. You're not racist at all. What they did there is a trick called manipulation. It's a good thing to learn and watch out for.

[shortster]

Nope. It is your phone number to give to whomever you want to or not. Don't let people bully you with obsurd ad hominem attacks into doing what you don't want to do.

[Phoenix98]

Some details would be helpful what exactly happened?

[exitseven]

You should be careful who you give your phone number to.

[tfan1]

No you are not racist. You are protecting yourself and it’s your choice. 👍🙂

[Anonymous]

there's a big difference between uninterested and racist...

[Sparkie460]

It's not being racist, it's called your personal preference

[FireFox001]

Dafuq are you talking about? You give your number to whomever you prefer. That's that.

[AmeerX]

It's not racist and you shouldn't be giving unless you know you can handle it

[User3191989]

I wouldn't say racist, but, I would say "closed-minded"

[imfreeze95]

No you’re not calling someone a racist is a final whimper for those with no cogent argument left

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Bing Bong Ching Chong

Does that make me racist no, so you aren’t either

[mT2359]

Whatt? Exchanging phone no. is considered racist nowadays!!! Strange world.

[Hardworkingguy]

I think most women don't give men the phone number so I guess it's normal

[Twalli]

No, you don't have to give anyone your phone number

[RegularEOS]

No, just ignore the racist express card pullers and move on.

[Anonymous]

Was he black and did you reject him for being black then yes you are racist

[Asker]

he was.
and no i said no because i have a boyfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

He was black then yes you are racist. You could have still been his friend at least.

[Asker]

:'( ok sorry

[Opinion Owner]

What about your boyfriend what is he

[Asker]

white.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn I knew it

[Asker]

What?

[slatyb]

She has no obligation to date or befriend anyone. Her only obligation is to treat people courteously as long as they are civil. Besides, just like men of any other race, she may be attracted to some black men and not others.

[notwoke]

@slatyb and it's perfectly fine to have the opinion of "I don't don't blacks attractive, or whites, or bald men or fat women. Not everyone is obligated to embrace your culture

[Anonymous]

Was it a black guy? Cuz they're the only people who would accuse you of racism for that.

[Asker]

yes.

[ThatMadGuy]

At this age you shouldn’t be giving anyone your number.

[AddylynnNightingale]

If you only target a specific race or races sure.

[Asker]

but i didn't give it to him because i have a boyfriend

[AddylynnNightingale]

Right, so not based on race. So in that case you're not a racist.

[Asker]

okay good

[Emii_Urashima]

I fail to see how it is racist just because a person might only want to date within their own race. Many black men will not date white women. The majority of black women will tell you to your face that they would never date a white man. Are they racist?

[AddylynnNightingale]

@Emii_Urashima It isn't though, she's just being a loyal partner.

[RonStone45]

You got to be kidding me. Even if you don't have a boyfriend who cares about race if you reject someone.

[RonStone45]

@Emii_Urashima Who cares if it is racist if you don't want to date outside your race or you don't want to date specific races for whatever reason.

[Anonymous]

It's no big deal to be a racist.

I'm proud to be racist!

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Bra, choo smoking?

[summiter]

Not at all.. it is your number and your privacy

[athelete_7]

👀whats racist in bot wanting to talk?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

If it has nothing to do with race, not.

[iamaMAP]

I wouldn't give my number to her.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Context?

[Asker]

i went to walmart and a black guy asked me for my number i said no i have a boyfriend and he said i was racist.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

That’s not racist, just ignore it

[Asker]

okay.. thanks

[Amur8711]

Why didn't you give them your number?

[BLP11520]

No, you do what you think is right

[tralalala38]

No absolutely not

[melanieeeB]

Nope

[ihavequestions89]

No girls need to be on guard with guys

[Beatrix7]

no dont be silly hen

[Anonymous]

Not if that someone is sjw.

[Anonymous]

Don’t know, depends why you rejected them

[Angelo75]

nope

[helva]

Not at all.

[britishbby]

No lol wtf?

[Staximus]

Of course not

[Staximus]

Anybody who guilt trips you for not giving your phone number is a piece of shit

[Joker_]

yeah lol

[SmokinAces2000]

Need more context

[TallAnon]

Lol, no

[MrTaboo]

No, not at all

[panamared1]

Depends on why

[Asker]

i have a boyfriend and he was hot

[panamared1]

Would you if you did not have a boyfriend

[Asker]

hell yah.

[panamared1]

Good girl

[panamared1]

Would you pm me

[Anonymous]

LOL. Hell no.