“If no one hates you, you’re doing something wrong.” Thoughts on this statement?

[Kingofkings1992]

Agree

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[MCheetah]

100% agree. When I was a kid and teenager, I was such an ass-kisser. I wanted everyone to like me, only to fail all the same. In my 20s, I tried to do this with women and appeal to every girl, but my short ass just couldn't make it work, which only made my depression even worse. By 30, I was all out of f*cks to give and nowadays, am the type of person who can berate someone into tears and/or trying to take a swing at me (and failing at it) just from words alone. I am beyond brutal and cruel, if I have to be, even though I'm not a bad person.

Basically, I learned that in life, not everyone is worth your respect. My old boxing coach used to tell me to treat respect and money the same: work hard for it, and only give it out to those worthy of it. So many guys my age and older are still simping and kissing women's asses, while I've long since been red-pilled and on Eminem levels of not kissing female ass. And with guys, they already know not to mess with me. Because in real life, I come off very articulate and well-spoken. But anyone who's read my MyTakes or knows me on here, knows I'm not as kind and mild-mannered as I seem. And it'd be folly or me to say anymore than that.

So many people hate me. On GAG, and in real life. But I know what kind of person I am. And I don't need to prove jack sh*t to you or anyone else, in regards to that. I'm a strong component of cutting assholes out of my life. Are you?

TL;DR: I fully agree.

[AdithyaR]

Kinda true cause it implies you're trying to please everyone, generally one person you'd end up neglecting in that is yourself.
The reality is that there will be people who hate you for arbitrary or unfair reasons or sometimes for no reason at all. It's physically impossible to make everyone like you.

[wittymilf]

I said disagree… but that depends on whether or not you think it’s wrong to choose who you interact with or not. I meet I judge I keep or reject and move in :). This is how I ‘people’

[KayMay]

Strongly agree.