Is it better to have a daughter in the modern day?

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It seems like the media, men, and women demonize men constantly. It's a woman's world, and I don't want a boy to suffer through the same abuse I went through growing up.

inhua · Accepted Answer

no matter who you have, life won't be easy for either whether son/daughter. especially for you as a parent. you'll have the toughest job by far.

society (with the backing of big daddy government) will try to find a way to strip your parental rights away from your son/daughter and if your wife ain't on your side, it gets even worse.

your son will be emasculated and have his self-esteem destroyed to placate to the gynocentric social order. if he's not a winner (whether genetic, financial, social etc) then he's a loser and the longer he stays a loser, he harder it is for him to escape being a loser until he either commits suicide or does something worse. it's survival of the fittest for him as in he needs to "fit" in or get cast aside.

your daughter will be bombarded with so much damaging outside influences from pop culture, social media, peer pressure, feminism etc trying to tempt her into a seeming fun but degrading lifestyle under the disguise of empowerment and any mistakes she makes will be forced to be forgiven otherwise you're just an insecure misogynist. when she finally realizes her mistakes it will be too late and she'll either live in regret or follow in the footsteps of her influencers and spread bad influence to next generation of girls.

yeah it's a tough world out there which is why the woman by your side needs to have ride-or-die loyalty, something your son/daughter can look up to.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Accepted Answer

I'm indifferent towards that, to be honest. I have a daughter but wouldn't have felt differently if it was a son - it's simply because men in my family are not too close to their children and usually leave their care to the mothers and relative.

I wanted to be different than my father and my grandfather, but in the end I am not - I love and care for my daughter, but I don't feel able to connect with her and keep some distance. Same will be for the children I will be having next, whenever male or female. It's just the way things work here.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Actually both women and men are suffering this times.
What is a women documentary. Is fetus alive? Etc etc a Trans male to female entering women sports and assuming they are equally stronger as a real womb - women ‘ on and on craziness. Or how a women can survive alone they don’t need amen I mean a men but once they hit 50s their soul is in pain realizing how much they missed from life and others lied to them. Yes it’s true I was even told this specific words form a 63 years old women. Never married.

Main goal for this earth is to remove love form us and we become robot like no emotions and no family structure. To make men hate women.
What I’m saying might sound depressive it’s like OK then don’t give birth at all? Well those who are controlling us that’s exactly what they want.
But guess what? We have to win. This earth is our home. And we need to reproduce both sexes. It’s going to be hard but if you love earth I guess.. you can fight for it. Problem is that we are so tired as a society. We can’t see clear.
And the evil is the wining atm
I hope things change. I’m sure this darkness is temporary. More and more people are waking up. Slowly but that’s ok

NeverknowNeverTell · Accepted Answer

honestly it's nobody's world out here. both men and women have there own sex or gender related traumas. Men aren't aloud to be emotionally expressive and there act of affection are black and white, creepy or romantic. depending upon factors like race, looks or status. however women are shamed no mater what they do in life. they are harassed for sex then called sluts for giving it. they 're told they have to be girl bosses or they've perpetuated the patriarchy.

if you do want to have a child. I would subject a son so at least you'll understand his feelings and situations and hope to consul and advice him thought tough moments. but if you also willing to be emphatic and protective towards your daughter, despite your traumas, then you'll be a good father either way. just do your best to understand your childern either way. despite how awful the world is.

MCheetah · Answer

With feminism, whores demanding "respect," and OnlyFans? No. Men may have it far worse nowadays, but adversity creates character. Women are so spoiled nowadays, they can't even allow men to suffer in peace. Women get their asses licked by everyone in society and as soon as a man complains, some dumbass female has to come in with the "oh, but women have it bad too" bullsh*t. Yeah, the women in third-world sh*tholes have it bad (and still not as bad as the men), not your spoiled upper-middle-class ass living in America.

I'd rather have a son who could endure anything life throws at him than a spoiled bratty emotionally and mentally weak daughter. Like some of the crap females on this site who are under the age of 25.

holdem4884 · Answer

Do you know what young girls go through because of social media? Girls inflict "reputation destruction" on one another. Combined with their hormonal changes, it's way more challenging than what an "average" (not all) boy faces

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah I don't think so. The problem is that men of the past weren't raised correctly or even really raised at all. I'm about to have my 4th son and I'm not worried for them at all since I'm raising them correctly

SlothySlob · Answer

Why can't this be a challenge to you? Why can't you have a boy and be the best father there is, so when people start saying to your kid, men are shit, he'll just say, but my dad is good.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

I would rather have a daughter but not because the world sucks. I think I'd be harsher towards a daughter than a son, some people are too careless and reckless due to their childhood. I don't want to raise a spoil girl.

fembotnpc777 · Answer

What, so that a bunch of men can sleep away her innocence and kill her soul?

DaveJord · Answer

It seems better to have anything other than a white male, if that's what your asking.

_piotr · Answer

I agree. I also think it would be better for my child, if she is a girl. Being men is hard and sad.

Andres77 · Answer

at this point, the way the world is going i wouldn't recommend anyone having kids.

Anonymous · Answer

It's better to not have kids between overpopulation, the cost of living skyrocketing and the liberal fiddlers and diddlers in schools

purplepoppy · Answer

Most other men seem to flourish, why can't you.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Daughters are always the best.

loveslongnails · Answer

It's better to not have KIDS!!!

Anonymous · Answer

I say no.

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