I had no preference, but, having a daughter it made me see women in an entirely different light. It has been a good experience and opened my eyes as to what women are thinking/wanting.
I had to raise my daughter for decade on my own, so I had to learn on the fly.
@CoolCatMar1 you do realize that a guy who calls out bad behavior by a woman is not an incel, right? Even so called misogynistic guys aren't incels. Incels don't even really exist because if a guy really wanted to, he could have sex with a prostitute or a fat ugly girl, so the fact that they don't makes them volcels.
@CoolCatMar1 I like to give every woman the benefit of the doubt. Just because I've been hurt by a couple doesn't mean all women are the same. The glass is half full.
Good question. I don't think this a hard and fast rule. I have three sons and a daughter, so if I have another kid, I'd prefer a daughter. With the first child, I didn't have a preference.
Healthy men have a protective instinct and daughters require more emotional protection then sons so a lot of men like to have daughters because they feel like a bigger hero when they protect her.
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The preference for having a daughter or a son can vary from person to person, and it's important to remember that not all men or women have a specific preference. However, some individuals may express a desire for a particular gender based on their personal experiences, cultural factors, or societal expectations.
"Daddy's little girl" is a phrase often used to describe the special bond between fathers and their daughters. Many fathers find joy in raising daughters and cherish the unique relationship they can have. Fathers often play an essential role in their daughter's life, providing support, guidance, and love. They may enjoy participating in activities traditionally associated with daughters, such as playing dress-up, engaging in imaginative play, or sharing emotional connections.
It's important to note that gender preferences are not universal, and some individuals may prefer having sons for various reasons. Preferences for specific genders can stem from personal beliefs, cultural norms, or expectations tied to family dynamics. However, it's crucial to value and appreciate the inherent worth and individuality of children, regardless of their gender. Each child is unique, and their worth should not be determined solely by their gender or the preferences of others.
Ultimately, what matters most is the love and care that parents provide to their children, regardless of their gender.
Son - Help mold and build him into a confident young man ready for the world, but who is also a better person than myself.
Daughter - Protect and nurture her into a confident young woman who is a ready to take on the world with a prepared, yet healthy perspective on life.
Anyway, I'd want to make sure either one I'd get is way off better than people I've known throughout my life and myself too. I want to help teach them useful coping skills through experience and be positive individuals. I do not want them to share toxic traits of people I've known who didn't even realize that it was toxic.
Most men want sons that will carry on the family name. Boys are easier to understand for men. You can play sports and video games with them. You can take them fishing or hunting. You can teach them how to build things and fix shit. You can science things up with them so on and so forth. You just have to try to give them all your best traits so they carry on your genes well. Girls while sweet and cute when little girls are a pain in the ass for pretty much everything else. If they're our kid, we'll have a soft spot in our heart for them, but girls are stressful.
The "wanting sons to carry on the family name" is superficial, and a false advantage that was created to give boys an advantage (perhaps because women still do most of the parenting and obviously the pregnancy part) and there is a concern I think that women will prefer girls. As far as the "pain in the ass" that could be said for boys too. I think the generalizations about girls come from men who fear that girls will be wanted more than boys. And you can "science things up" with girls too. I'm just grateful my dad didn't think like you.
My dad is extremely protective of me. I don't think he cared about my gender when my mom was pregnant with me. Both of them wanted a boy and a girl.. and I have an older brother, so they got what they wanted. On the contrary, I think a lot of men are actually scared of having daughters. They think they need to be more protective of them and worry a lot more, which is somewhat true, if you ask me.
I relate to my dad more. We have so much in common. Yes, he likes sports, but we like different sports. We have similar political and moral opinions. I feel like I'm the female version of my dad in terms of personality.
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Anonymous
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I’d rather have a boy. A lot easier to deal w. Don’t have to worry about them as much. Everything dramatic to a girl isn’t the end of the world for boys. Don’t have to worry about her getting knocked up, chased around by boys. You can be a little more rough w boys. They’re simple, throw them a pizza w a video game they’re good for the night. Then there’s always that estrogen there of being in a house full of women who just argue, catty. Boys just seem way easier than girls. I mean hell a lot of you can’t even stand each other. How do you expect me to understand women when they don’t even understand each other?
Estrogen? What about testosterone? I mean with boys you have to worry about are they going to end up a school shooter or hurt someone. Girls are more innocent. Yes women can be more verbal and opinionated. It's not estrogen. Boys on the other hand have anger issues and are temperamental. We're dealign with their "testosterone' fits etc. I'll take girls any day. They are super sweet and I'd rather deal with emotions than a boy who doesn't show emotions.
Yes, some guys are like that aww the "Rock" Dwayne Johnson with his little girl, and she is carrying his American Samoan ancestry. This brings to my mind.
I'm rapt that I have two daughters , but I think initially ( back then ) I wanted a boy , but of course I wouldn't change anything , I think men are generally protective towards their daughter , so I think the answer is probably yes.
Dunno. I always wanted a son. Curious Jr. I'd teach that little mufucka how to fight dirty, pick up girles, and take him to stupid events I enjoy even though he hates them :)
Rather a boy, but any kid would do. Just wasn't in the cards for me 🤷🏽‍♂️
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I’d prefer a boy tbh. They’re easier to raise. They require less protection. That being said the downside is the world is cruel to men. It’s popular nowadays to hate a man for simply being a man.
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