Why dont all the 30+/40+ year old women now crying on the internet that they can't find committed husband simply keep the party culture going?

[ronaldo75]

You were warned about this 10 years ago and y'all said "I'm never getting married" or simply "whatever, i dont care". Now stop your crying.

It's not as easy to do when you're the dusty 36 year old woman in a nightclub full of tight 23 year olds

Dating is more about the internet now and you cowardly men filter out women over 30 in your searches

Because I choose to stop the party life hook-up culture and it's not right for age to keep me out of the marriage market

It's not right that just because I'm 30 or 40 now I'm only limited to single fathers, divorced men and tech nerds. I want the same prince charming the 21 year olds get

[MzAsh]

Women that age definitely can obtain commitment from a quality man if they played their cards right. Often these ladies are either looking in the wrong type of man, or they’re turning men off with their desperate and needy energy.

[Anonymous]

Hey don't put this on women. I dated a guys who was 10+ years older than me, I was 30 and he was 41 and he offered to marry me but requested to have kids soon as possible cause he had some fertility issues. Now I do love kids but its something I didn't want to do cause he had fertility issues and I think that if a man really desired kids he would have gotten it done from late 20's or throughout his 30's. Why is searching now? I felt like that this was not my problem, so I told him no.

I'm 31 by the way.

[ronaldo75]

But I'm not putting it on women. I'm referring to a specific set of women who are whining and crying. Are you one of these women? If you're not then I'm not talking about you.

[Opinion Owner]

What kind of women are you talking a out?

[Opinion Owner]

What are they shinning and crying about?

[ronaldo75]

I'm talking about women who are in their 30s and 40s, but can't get solid good looking men to marry them or give them attention anymore. Especially the ex-woke feminists and SJWs who said they "didn't need no man", and now when men look up their social media history - they run away in an olympic sprint.

I literally just did this to a 34 year old not too long ago. She came off as very VERY interested in being a traditional wife , get married the whole thing - then when I did a little digging into her on facebook and instagram I learned she was a male-hating CRAZY woke feminist about 5 years ago. I'm not interested so I blocked her from every app and now I'm seeing her from a secret account going insane on facebook about how "men are sexists for rejecting older women"

[Opinion Owner]

Okay well I'm not feminist. I'm just looking out to get married without kids is all.

[monorprise]

The way education and resources have all been rerouted to women since the 90's the man should be commended for simply having the resources to seek treatment by his early 40s.

Most guys don't.

Most boys after the 90s were driven away from education by the "new techniques" designed to appeal to girls not boys in "closing the gap".
Ignored by theses myoptic sexist was what was happening to boys just as they to this day iqnore what actually DID happen to those boys.
Few of which ever learned, and made it thou collage, or secured jobs able to pay the already absurd cost of living demanded of everyone thanks to regulations, undercutting forign competition, and inflation.

Everything necessary for life is more expensive today and thus takes longer for us to save for.
In just housing alone today it cost 3 times a larger share of the average income to buy a house then it did for our fathers and grandfathers because of Goverment regulations both limiting the supply and raising the bar.

How exactly is a young man suppose to pay for that particularly if he didn't even get a good education?

[Opinion Owner]

@monorprise how the hell should I know? All I know is that a man saying he has fertility issues is off putting and I don't give a fuck about his resources, I rather get with a young guy who is actually mentally secure and and is actually mature than getting with a aged man who was unsure of himself his whole life and throwing his issues on other people. A man resources doesn't matter if he is immature and unsure of life. At least I know what I want and solid about it.

[GreenLanternI0I]

Most attractive girls, well that WERE attractive when they were in their teens and 20's have been cranking up their body count until their biological clock started to scream at them, but at that point 1. no men would be good enough for her, I mean how can she possible settle down and be loyal to one, when she slept with more guys than stars in the sky and 2. No decent Man would settle down with a party girl who is already in her 30-40.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Something 30+ year old women would say is

"I gave my youth and fertility to a random dude who didn't have to do anything for it. Now I deserve a good man with his life in order who earns good money to take care of me and my child"

[LazerBean]

It's not like people like that would have been able to stay in a marriage anyway.

[monorprise]

What marriage?
It is a pure fiction that people didn't fight and suffer since the dawn of time in marriage.
The only thing that has changed today is we have become far less tolerate, having assumed somehow marriage was about keeping us happy rather than securing children.

When we let our cultural leaders redefine Marriage to be such a "happiness" pack of the adult parties we doomed the original relationship and the well being children who depended upon it.

Indeed the more we went down this road of defining marriage as about a feeling rather than a commitment the more rereduced that union to a mere friendship.

Today we don't even define the word 'love' correctly it is sold as a feeling rather than a service

[LazerBean]

So are you disagreeing with me? Lol

[Guy13]

75% of them couldn’t get it right in the marriage and it is no mystery why not….

[OrallyFixated]

What do you mean by this comment? What exactly do you believe is no mystery?