Why are there so many questions from boys on here whining about being friend zoned by the popular girl they failed to hook up with?

[Anonymous]

[Curmudgeon]

Because that is "The Human Condition" and if GAG isn't about The Human Condition, praytell what IS it about?

That said, time to restate A Straight Man's simple guide to "The Friendzone":

Should you maintain the friendship? Is there anything on a non-romantic level that appeals to you about her? Intellect? Hobbies? Professionally?

(A very good sample question to ask yourself here is: Can you ever see yourself doing business with her? Could you see her as your Realtor? Your Attorney? I am using examples from my professional dealings.) Or could she be a business client of yours, like if you are a tax accountant, would you do her returns for pay?

If the answer is YES, maintain the friendship.
If the answer is NO, and you really just want her physically, then politely say goodbye.

[Gummy_Cluster]

Because it's easier to curse the darkness, than it is to light a candle.

[menina]

I guess they're looking for help or they are trolls.