White women have been held up as the standard of beauty by society for a very long time. Don’t get me wrong, everyone is free to love whoever they choose. However, you have to examine yourself and discern whether you feel the way you do because it was spoon fed to you or do you really have a natural attraction.
Are you white
I am not.
Yes because of white beauty standard.
Black women are beautiful
Are you white
Hello
Mixed.
Mulatto?
No mixed with indian
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I can’t speak to that I’m a white guy with a preference for darker skin (so my game changes with national race relations which is frustrating to say the least). My ex of two and a half years was black and even after we broke up over distance we still sometimes catch up with each other. I say that because I was certainly exposed to more white beauty than you…I’m literally a white person. Personal preference is to the individual, you either own it or you don’t. Be ashamed of it and blame society if you want to but I think you’re missing something if you do.
It’s also worth noting that today there’s a plethora of attractive black women in media proportional to population black women are represented more in media than they are in actual demographics. They’ve made a decent splash in the last few year. Like yeah there’s going to be a shit load of white people in American media, probably a majority. That’s because a majority of the market relates to them on account of being white. I lived in Africa briefly and everything was black because guess what the market they wanted to relate to was?
Im just saying that if you like lighter skin then just like lighter skin. Stop overthinking it.
Not all Europeans, American African, Asian, Latinos are the same. We all have preferences.
know what you want from the outside and the inside. If you want kids… this advice will be beneficial for you to raise your future kids. Other than that… what other people say will not matter.
I am of Asian decadent living in America. I married someone who is of American Jewish background. We share a lot of the same value. Even after our divorce, we still raise our kids with 99% similar value/style. my second husband is American Italian. In some ways I know some things that Italians that he didn’t know. At the end, again, we share similar value with how to raise these kids.
just to make life easier… not about the skin color.
I actually had a discussion about not liking using black to describe a human race. I am Asian but it gets me really upset that everyone has been brain washed to call everyone black. as far as my simple mind thinks.. black is a color. It should not be calling someone by a color.
who am I to argue?
You're not brainwashed dude... same reason I go for Asian chicks over white chicks... you just don't want that bullshit bitching at you at 3 in the morning about some bullshit. Nobody wants to make time for that. I like my effeminate little girls. Maybe I'm not a fan of some chick barking at me like a football coach when I just want some love.
It has nothing to do with white supremacy, it has everything how your brain is wired.
I am Native American and I find black women very attractive, and yet I grew up similar to you watching the same predominantly white TV shows, because that is all that was available to me.
So if anything, I should be like you and only like white girls based on being inundated with white girl dominated media, but I am not.
No excuses, black boy.
We white men grew up in the same society as you, we're subjected to a lot more pressure than you when it comes to dating white girls since our parents usually make a point in wanting us to date white girls... And you know what?
WE CHASE Asian GIRLS ANYWAY.
Hahahahahaha.
Suck it up, black boy.
Yes but Asian women prefer black men though
I watched a video on the hub last night about a Japanese girl taking BBC while they was watching anime
Hey you are lucky you keyboard warrior. If you saw me in person bro you’d run the other way
I’m 6ft tall bro. I’m built like a body builder.
You wouldn’t be ready bro
I never can understand how a person can't find a woman of their own ethnicity and phenotype. That's crazy to me.
The black women looks like you and you find them unattractive?
It's just not you nor blame the media, most black men are just self hating and project that hate and discontent towards black women.
*attractive
It’s even Hispanic men too! You guys are not special y’all prefer white women over hispanic women too
Very few Latin man will pick a white women over a latina and if they do is because they love that woman from the heart, not because they think white women are better than other latinas.
My Latin women are gorgeous and take second place to no one.
You don't see a Latin man get a lots of money and go immediately seeking to be with a woman that isn't latina unlike black that as soon they come into money they gotta go get a woman that isn't black.
It's embarrassing or should be but y'all have no pride.
You guys haven’t been oppressed like we have though
Man, please. Stop with your sorry ass excuses.
When were your people ever slaves?
So actually the native people of the America were enslaved…they died from diseases at rates too high to meet demand. That’s why the black slave trade to the new world started. Modern Latinos at least partially related to these natives. Not only were they enslaved, their original culture was erased from the earth and their populations made to integrate with Spanish colonist.
That’s a damn lie.
Nope. Read your history. The Spanish wanted to turn the citizens of the conquered peoples of the Americas into serfs owned by the Spanish nobility. When there wasn’t enough of them left because of war and disease they bought slaves from African in huge numbers because they were used to tropical climates and already accustomed to the diseases that ravaged the locals. Had the Aztecs and Inca survived in greater number then the Spanish wouldn’t have brought over anywhere near as many black slaves and thus start the infamous triangle trade alongside Portugal and the Netherlands.
The reason why Hispanic men still prefer to date Hispanic women is because they haven’t been oppressed like we have @Yyyyu
? Uhm, asker. . . you are embarrassing. Of course Indigenous folks were persecuted above and beyond what happened to African slaves. They were in many instances, wiped out as an ethnic grouping. Just take the Taino Indians. Very little of their culture is left. Many of the people who are descendants do not keep their culture or traditions.
The thing is you are talking to @Hispanic-Cool-Guy and he gets deeply confused on the subject of culture.
HCG, why are you pretending that you don't identify with being "White"? Even if you claim to that Hispanic could be defined as a culture, you would say racially you are "White". You even said your mother was "White" in terms of race. So what does it mean to claim you only like Hispanic women. . . when Hispanic means "White" in your mind anyway?
That's just nonsense.
Besides, you are friends with a racist who doesn't like "White" women. WTF?
@Roland we were talking about Hispanics. Not indigenous. There is no history of enslavement for them.
I never disagreed with that. And culturally many Hispanics are different than Indigenous.
But some are not.
Tenoch Huerta has always touted his Indigenous ancestry. You have Latinos who tout a connection to Africa.
HCG ain't one of those Hispanics. So I don't get his deal here.
@RolandCuthbert: Hell you are talking about? I'm not white nor identity as white. My dad is white, not me.
Dude, I just know you claimed "White" folks were in your fam. . . then you are throwing stones at "Black" folks who date out. That doesn't even sound rational.
When I first got here, one of the first discussions I had was with you over ethnicity and dating. I don't mind folks dating out, but you and I agreed that if you don't find the women of your group attractive something is wrong.
Since then you have posted all kinds of crazy.
Including the nonsense that Latinos don't have these kinds of hang ups. When everyone knows they do. Any non-"White" group in America is going to have image issues.
George Lopez;
"It a Latino family has a man who dates a "White" woman, they will hate her. But if a Latina dates a "White" man, they will love him".
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikr-QGhndz4
@RolandCuthbert: Yeah, obviously if my dad is a white latino and my both my grandma's are white latinas then yes my family has white people in it but I'm not white. I'm a mestizo.
And you are taking a comedy skit which is around made up 98% of writings of jokes as truth.
You can't possibly be this silly? 🙄
Yes probably but you can climb over this. For example some black girls are so beauty. For example Joy Sunday from Wednesday series. And Jade Smith from Gotham series
Possibly. I reckon many are brainwashed that White is the default colour of dang human beings. On the respect of Disney, there are some non-White heroes, like Pocahontas, Mulan (if You call Her White not), the heroine of the Princess and the Frog, Moana, etc.
No I don't think so. I'm white and I find Asian women to be more attractive than white women. Was I brainwashed too? And by who? I think it's just a natural preference.
Did you watch anime
I do not think you are polite by mentioning you don’t like black woman cause when I think somebody is unattractive I do not say it out loud.
I am not saying it out loud. This is more of a safe space to say what u want
Well don’t watch Cinderella what you have listen watch the black Ariel now..
what a troll
Black Ariel wasn’t a thing for me back then
It was not around
Not at all. I'm white and find a woman attractive regardless of skin tone. There are plenty of women from all ethnic backgrounds that I find attractive.
I won't waste time responding to the original question. I don't think the poster is authentic.
But I find your response interesting. Why wouldn't this be due to "White" supremacy? If you grew up in any community, why wouldn't you consider the women of that community to be attractive?
I think your answer is a bit inconsistent in that you say "no", but then substitute an answer that says you are attracted to all kinds of women.
He said specifically he does not find "Black" women attractive. And that is very, very odd.
Yeah, we know what Kodak Black said.
What is your point?
No.
You're jut a kid who hasn't seen the world much.
Yes. Your opinion is other people’s fault. You have no capacity to think for yourself.
Hey bro I don’t like your sarcasm
I checked my fucks bucket and have no more to give. Sorry.
Are you white
Yup.
How would you like it if the world said white women were ugly so then you view ur own women as ugly
Since I have a brain I can make my own decisions
Bro believe me, all media channels wash mens brain. Mostly feministic, misandristic propaganda. I asked a similar question about media and google, and how they wash mens brain.
If you are attracted to Caucasan women and not to women of your own race, then that is because of what is in YOUR head.
No, that is nonsense. If that were the case then why doesn't everyone in western countries prefer white women?
No. People are naturally attracted to different things.
I've had African-American Male friends, too, with that lack. I as a Mexican-Chicano male loves Black Women.
You dont find any black wemen good looking at all
I do think you’ve been conditioned yes
Is you white
nope
How you think about this then
like I said I think you’ve been conditioned
But by who or why
by society and media and possibly some self-loathing; societal perception of white women and black women. you need to work to overcome it
Can you help me
Your choices are your own.
Yes you were brainwashed.
Seems like just a preference.
That's just dumb excuse.
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