Women, how many of you find it overwhelming to operate in your masculine energy for too long?

[L12xX]

I personally have a lot of feminine energy. I had to learn to operate in my more masculine energy to survive in today's world. But when I did, I got so anxious and over time my entire body was breaking down. My mental health also declined.

I find it really hard to survive in a world where biologically I'm just not designed to operate like a man. Some women are more inclined to it than others and that's totally okay. But for me, I'm not built for that.

My dream would honestly be to just be a wife and have my business (it's a wellness coaching business) but not having the pressure of my job being my first priority. I'd be much happier to be a wife first and just focus on the relationships in my life and caring for my family. Business second cause it's what I'm passionate about. And maybe some volunteer work because I really feel called to help people.

Does anyone else feel this way?

I see so many men complaining how we don't exist but we do and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one. It's just the world doesn't do a great job at helping feminine women thrive and shames us for admitting to preferring more traditional roles.

I personally get super depressed over this occasionally. And it's hard to meet men in Canada cause they aren't huge on pursuing. And I noticed they tend to pick partners who naturally operate well in their masculine energy. Anyhow these are just thoughts and observations. I'm curious to hear your thoughts on all this.

I noticed most people on here are American but that's okay, I'm interesting in your perspectives too. But I get the feeling men in America are better at pursuing women and know what they want? Is that correct? Anyhow those are my 1000 questions.

Thank you!

[thattssitt]

Omg i feel so sorry for you. Don’t think too much about what other people think about you in the first place. You are a sensitive woman and choose a job that is suitable for your character. You don’t have to be masculine. Don’t force yourself to behave in a certain way. Just live however you want. If you find yourself too weak for a job, then don’t force yourself to do it.

if you want to improve your masculine side, then try to gain experience. Little little, it’s bigger. Just set goals for yourself and start from little things. It will help you boost your confidence and improve your masculine side. By gaining confidence, you’ll feel stronger and more open to world. F. e. If you aren’t able to drive and you think that you cannot do, believe in yourself and try to do it. You’ll be anxious at first, but after you get a driving licence, you’ll feel stronger and ready for other changes and successes. Try to do things on your own. It’s very very helpful. It’s the way how i made it.

[L12xX]

Thank you for your kind words. So I actually have my own business and did operate in my masculine energy for a job before. And I did very well. But believing in myself wasn’t the problem. That lifestyle where I needed to operate in my masculine energy gave me serious anxiety and health problems. Biologically many women’s bodies havnt caught up to all the changes yet. Some women’s bodies can handle it but mine can’t. The tricky thing is it’s hard to survive in your feminine energy today cause that’s the standard now. To be in your masculine. But I’d be happiest being a wife and my business coming 2nd.

[MzAsh]

It’s cool you’re a wellness coach. I’m a relationship coach. I’d love know more about your work. On the topic at hand, there’s a lot of masculine energy that’s always been natural to me, with the exception of decision making. My preferred decision making strategy is process of elimination bas ex on research so I absolutely detest when I’m called to make a quick decision I can’t be confident in.
Other than that, there are days when I just want to chill and have my husband do all the cooking and give me massages lol.

[L12xX]

Thanks for sharing!

[OddBeMe]

Can you define both for me? Just quick bits about either….

[Anonymous]

Yes. It’s causing me so much stress and anxiety.

[L12xX]

I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah I'm feeling the same way... I'm a wellness coach and I'm thinking of gradually shifting my marketing to help women with this specifically. I'm not ready yet. Cause I was in my bed with my cats crying feeling so depressed about this today. But I'll be okay. It's nice to know we are not alone in feeling this way. <3 Sending you some hugs, from one stressed out feminine lady to another.

[L12xX]

Do you mind sharing what country you live in? I'm curious to know if the opinions differ depending on geographics.

[Opinion Owner]

Go for it. I think it’s probably very common and to be honest I don’t think people are even aware that this might be the cause of their mental health issues as it’s just so normalized to have the sort of lifestyle today where women need to be in that masculine energy all the time.
Right back at you.

[L12xX]

So true, thanks fir sharing this. And I 100% agree.

[Gibbons44]

I am a virgin and male. Thus - a boy.