Were you broken or damaged by society?

[MementoMori777]

if so how has it damaged you? and what life changes have you made and what changes have changed in your character?

[MemeSupreme]

I don't know about broken lol BUT I've been damaged by the environment I've lived in. I've seen and lost a lot so that leaves a mark. i try my best to stay away from all of that and do what i can to cope with life.

by the way, I've noticed some positive stuff too bc i grew up poor. im hardworking, frugal, empathetic, knowledgeable, and i have this weird combo an anxious thick skin lmfao

[MementoMori777]

i felt that, but thats good that you gotten good results from certain things you forgot one tho, you left out the fact that you are also mentally strong as stone, i yes i did use the word stone because you get stoned so two birds with one... stone, okay ill stop 😂🧀

[MemeSupreme]

you said stone so many times that i deadass read that like 10 times bc it made me lose my focus lmfao

[MementoMori777]

were you stoned when you read it, last time i promise 😂

[MemeSupreme]

i was something lol

[MementoMori777]

damn 😂

[AmandaYVR]

Answer, please!

I'm worn down and bedraggled by society.

I might have been broken by my upbringing. It was a mess.

I just plug along. Nothing else you can do.

[MementoMori777]

aw well feel better Amanda, if you want i can pick up the pieces and put you back together like a puzzle 🤣

[AmandaYVR]

That was beautiful, by the way...
💛
Good night, moon.

[MementoMori777]

goodnight 🙂🙏🏽

[AaronKrieger]

Nah, I've been fortunate in regards to being affected by society. My family was only poor for the first 5 - 7 years of my life and I didn't even know we were until years later. That's the extent of it.

[MementoMori777]

interesting opinion bro

[stepyo99]

"The concept of "mental health" in our society is defined largely by the extent to which an individual behaves in accord with the needs of the system and does so without showing signs of stress."

[MementoMori777]

okay lol

[stepyo99]

The feelings of anger and unhappiness are natural given the circumstances created by society. The "damage" is the demoralization and desensitization that society pushes to make you compliant.

[Anonymous]

Yeah but no need to bitch about it... The past is the past. Am still here. So clearly God has a plan for me🙃

But if I had to go back and experience it all again I wouldn't.. Am much more colder now than before. Which is good for me.

[MementoMori777]

it is good for you mysterious anon, but im glad you are doing much better now, god seems to be guiding you into the right path from the sounds of it 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

You call all anonymous people mysterious?🤔

[Opinion Owner]

And.. yeah thank you:)

[MementoMori777]

yes cause they all act so damn shady and mysterious, i only call the anons that show personality mysterious because they are, i know nothing about me but they have a personality that you can clearly see through the anonymous account lol

[MementoMori777]

them*

[Opinion Owner]

What makes me shady and mysterious?👀

[MementoMori777]

well im guessing you are the same anon from before right? 😂

[Opinion Owner]

I have NO idea what you are talking about. Don't doooooooo thatttttt..

[Opinion Owner]

You know you can choose not to let anonymous people to comment on your questions?😂

[MementoMori777]

yea i know who you are but I've promised you that i won't expose you so i won't, and yes i do know that but i like anons, they make this site more exciting cause there's many personalites that come from anons, simply cause there's many people that aren't comfortable expressing their personalities and anon helps them do that lol

[Opinion Owner]

mmm thank you...😶‍🌫️

Thats a nice way of looking at it:)

[MementoMori777]

well you see how much of yourself you express yourself, you dont express yourself like this with your normal account, you have that freedom feeling of not being judged 😆

[Opinion Owner]

mm maybe that's true..:)

[MementoMori777]

😆👍

[Opinion Owner]

... also you mute a question by the 3 dots next to the question titel...

I'm gonna get better at hiding my personality tho lol.. but eh

[MementoMori777]

no you won't, and dont, i already know who you are, there's no point in that 😂

by the way it doesn't work, i only see report 🙃

[Opinion Owner]

Urgh mhm😦🤔

Under Report it should say Mute?

[MementoMori777]

well it doesn't 😂

[Opinion Owner]

One of these days you will have no idea who I am and I will trick you. The day is gonna come! It must!

And it should😂 it does on mine lol. (Only on other people's questions not your own).

If you wanna mute your own question you click on the bell under your discription

[MementoMori777]

you can only be cold for so long before i bring out your personality anon and i dont see a bell, what gag are you on bro 😂

[Opinion Owner]

mm you'll see:)

Lol then I dont know. I use online version tho😂

[MementoMori777]

either ways good luck trying to hide, ill find you, i always do mwahaha

[Opinion Owner]

you'll see👀...😌

Bye!🙃

[MementoMori777]

lol.

[Andres77]

Getting raped at 4 and sexually bullied by neighborhood boys and hounded by gay men and bullied at school by entire childhood leaves a mark. Let’s say I was damaged. I’m not broken.

[Andres77]

Healing had to take place. I’m better now. Trying to be a better dad has helped me stay the course. I’m not a religious man (no human made religions or churches) but I know that God helped me heal and forgive. Letting go of the bitterness was key for me.

[Anonymous]

Society./culture is only a problem if large numbers of its members have the same dysfunctional problem that didn't exist before.

[MementoMori777]

interesting observation bro

[Anonymous]

I don't think I've been damaged. I think I've been raised with certain IDEALS that I've since learned are not reality. I had to accept that. But I wouldn't call myself broken by any means.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough 🤔

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. I damaged myself by being a idiot.

I take full responsibility for my life and the stupid decisions I have made.

[MementoMori777]

lmao i felt that 😂

[exitseven]

I was pretty damaged and I was closed off for a long time. It caused a lot of problems in my relationships. I could not trust anyone.

[OddBeMe]

I’m not a bitch who blames society or my parents. I’m broken because of me.

[MementoMori777]

okay lol

[OddBeMe]

I mean half funny, half real. We have a tendency to become easy victims. Life is tough but manageable.

[MementoMori777]

it is fosho, we can't let society change us cause society got a rep for molding people into shit lol

[OddBeMe]

Well, this may just be a semantic argument.

But people mold themselves. Either you adapt and work with new society as it changes (ie coal miners) or you get jaded. This is why higher ed individuals receive more income over their lives (statically). College is notorious for pushing sink or swim.

Unless you can catch a football.

[MementoMori777]

but if people mold themselves because of how they are treated by society, what really does the molding, cause would someone change themselves if nothing made them change, forno reason 🤔

[OddBeMe]

True, semantics. That’s why it’s wither you or society. I get your point, we’re molding ourselves to society. But that’s still better than society molding us. You can always tell the difference

[OddBeMe]

*either you

[MementoMori777]

indeed

[Anonymous]

I'll still be a good person.

No matter what. I stand by my morals and I respect myself. I'll pray for anyone that hurts me. I'm not going to change my good character for others.

[MementoMori777]

but sometimes we make changes, even if its losing the ability to trust well and thats an example, i dont necessarily mean toxic changes lol

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah true. If someone is toxic. They have to fix themselves but I'm not going to be mean to someone just cos they're mean to me. I've done a lot of growing up and learn this is for myself. I want positivity in my heart. I don't want negativity to weigh my heart down.

[Lexina]

That's a great one@PrettyCrumblBb

[Opinion Owner]

It maybe hard to trust others. But not everyone has the same intentions as the person who hurt you.

[Opinion Owner]

@lexina thank u

[MementoMori777]

well crumble thats a very wonderful mindset and your strength to not change it is highly respected by me

and its wonderful for you to join us vampira 😂

[Lexina]

@pretty you're welcome

[Lexina]

@MementoMori777 my pleasure

[alice55]

No i haven’t

[Fireguy17]

not at all.

[zebronics]

Strengthen by🌱

[SmokinAces2000]

Nope