A mistake I did what do I do?😔?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys.. so I applied for a job this week and got the work and i worked yesterday and before yesterday that’s it.. so its a factory for ham and sausage and these stuff…the problem is that I feel soo freaking guilty that I did that to my self because I’m beautiful and studied in private school and college.. how do I work with this people and in this place …i know what you’re thinking…the people who work there are disgusting old poor not educated disrespectful people.. also i didn’t tell my parents they will kill me if they knew because they will not accept me working there what so ever because it’s shame for me working there and many people know my father.. they will say oh his daughter used to work in this place …i feel so ashamed of my self for working there and I hope nobody knows that i did that because I’m really so educated and beautiful to be there.. I thought it’s a good place as I see on factories on YouTube, but it was all disgusting old women who shouts and really not my or my family class at all.. here in Palestine it’s different from any other country.. so please don’t get me wrong and understand me here the people are animals.. I don’t care about working but not in this country.. for me I’m beautiful and educated and I wear most expensive things and my family is very known and famous here especially my father.. i feel so guilty and ashamed that i worked there.. not to mention that I cried there because of the guilt that I did to myself and I deserve to be in better place and i saw a man who worked there today in coincident and felt ashamed because i think he told the seller in the shop that i worked there😞also on top of that guilt my stomach hurts from lifting the heavy boxes. Please understand me and help me 😞😞i told my mom and she was so ashamed and disappointed now my father will know too…I want me and my parents to be happy I don’t want people talk bad about me or my parents 😞😞😞😞😞😞

[Effably]

McDonalds.

A lot of highup people include a job like that on their CV, mine is Subway. I include that and I have a masters in finance from my country's best university in the field.

McDonalds though. It shows so much. It shows you actually have worked - because no ordinary work is as demanding or stressful as the entry level ones. It also shows you can tolerate people. Harsh conditions. Strenous circumstance.

Its a little sign of being unbreakable and humility at the same time. So a lot of people include it. It also makes you a little relatable.

Your job is your McDonalds. It will make you grow. Help you understand things and become a more multifaceted person. Most would say a better person after reading this.

You can always get that different job later. Or search for it now. But you should never be ashamed of your own McDonalds. Working in a place like that only shows your strength. But you're of course too judgmental now to see that.

[boggboss]

I'm not sure if u are trolling or nit but this question makes y sound like a fucking asshole if you are so amazing surly u would have had better choices to work for that u are working their shows u clearly ain't as golden as u thi k about yourself

[Asker]

Will thank you for helping me.. I’m not even working there i just said.. i worked Monday and Tuesday (yesterday and before yesterday) and left …I wrote my story and my family how they think but you didn’t understand me.. if you live in Europe or America it’s good for you to work there.. but here my family thinks it’s shame for our known family that there daughter worked there…i am a good person ok I just needed a little money so i can live independently and far from here but me and my health more important than money

[boggboss]

But thats the thing the way u think makes it pretty clear u don't sound like a good person but somehow thing anyone that works their is benith you thats not the type of qualities of old good person yes u can use culture as a shield for you thinking but it still makes said behaviour shitty

[Asker]

So you think it’s normal and I should move on with my life and don’t get scared of what if people knew or no that i worked there? because the guilt is going to kill me

[boggboss]

Look u can live your life how u want lol but as soon as u describe yourself u set a standerd for the type of person u are

[Asker]

..👍

[JosyJosy]

Your parents only want the best for you, unfortunately they didn't express it well, but they want you to do better because they know you can do better. That said, if you like the job, keep it, it's your life, if you can live off it and enjoy the job, go ahead and stay. If you don't like the job, you look for something else.

[Asker]

Also because I’m a girl.. they and the people here say the guy can work in any job no problem because he’s a guy and needs to make a living.. but as a girl in their opinion it’s shame to work in place like this especially in my case

[Jkgordon]

Wow your country u don’t have basic rights and the 3D mind control needs to stop!
WHY DID U SETTKE FOR THIS job?

[Staximus]

If the job makes you feel bad then you should quit and get a job that doesn't make you feel bad and out of place. If you have a college degree then go get an office job or something related to your education

[JackCarter]

"Disguisting old poor not educated disrespectful people" ?
Seriously? 😶

[Asker]

Not the idea in your mind.. I mean disrespect ladies also that what my family will say in their opinion I’m better than them and have everything I don’t deserve to be with them…also here in my country it’s different from any other country people love to talk about you negatively

[JackCarter]

Oh ok
Well if I was your dad I would rather be happy that you have a hard working mentality... considering how spoiled some rich kids usually are
But if that job is really stressing you out you should quit

[Asker]

Thank you so much 🙏🏻

[JackCarter]

Sure thing !✌️

[Lokiion]

makes sense since you Muslim anyways send me a message for a from home way