I’ve made a mistake 😔😞?

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Hey guys…I feel so guilty and I feel like I lost happiness and never gonna be happy anymore…I’m Muslim living in Palestine…and virgin…last week I met a guy on telegram and decided to go with him for my first hookup…and we made out without putting his thing inside me…. I feel like I betrayed my parents, betrayed my self, betrayed my family and I feel so disgusting and awful. I feel so guilty so so guilty and I can’t take it anymore.. also what if someone loved me and wanted to marry me and I told him this.. no one will ever marry me …please help me also I can’t tell my parents this or I’ll be killed.. and I’m scared that he filmed me too …. please help me please please I’m begging for help …I will never do it again never ever 😔😔😔😔😞😞😞😞

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's understandable that you're feeling guilty and overwhelmed by what happened. It's important to remember that everyone makes mistakes and has moments they regret, but that doesn't define who you are as a person.

It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and take steps to address your feelings of guilt and shame. It may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or family member, or seek support from a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your feelings and develop a plan for moving forward.

It's also important to take steps to protect yourself and your privacy. If you're concerned that the person you hooked up with may have filmed you without your consent, you may want to consider blocking or reporting them on Telegram and taking steps to secure your online accounts and personal information.

It's understandable that you may be worried about how this experience may impact your future relationships and marriage prospects, but it's important to remember that everyone has a past and that honesty and communication are key components of any healthy relationship. When you do feel ready to enter into a relationship, it's important to be open and honest with your partner about your experiences and feelings, and to choose someone who respects and supports you for who you are.

Remember that you are not alone, and that there are people and resources available to help you through this difficult time.

MementoMori777 · Accepted Answer

Well you can't change the past and no matter how much you lie not only will it make you feel worse but you won't change that past, you have to accept your mistake and move on from it, don't do it again if you feel so guilty about it and if you know it will bring more guilt, learn from your mistakes is what I'm basically saying but don't let that mistake destroy you with guilt cause at the end of the day it won change, it could've been worse, you could have gave him your virginity and that would make it much worse, I don't know how your religion works but if it's to that point it's impossible to marry then perhaps marrying outside of your religion is your next option, worst case of course.

strateguy632 · Answer

i believe you, 1, you preserve the sad truth of your culture that we get ce_n_sored for repeating despite true. 2, what you did was, according to your faith, a sin that is why you feel shame. 3, obviously keep it a secret from parents and i will pray a christian prayer for you. 4, you can try to do what your religion says clean sins, atonement that is your faith, or secretly believe jesus paid the price for the sins of any who are loyal to his idea. i suggest you read my short story "mytake" here and see if you are willing to accept that. link at...

Berethor · Answer

You become a technical virgin, not innocent anymore, but you was not going all the way.

Stevefiveo · Answer

You're fine. You are just being yourself. Make sure you find someone you can really trust before you let them record you. Although this is coming from an American so I think sex is just a natural part of life and doesn't have to be repressed.

jshm2 · Answer

Relax. You're still alive and still your own person.  Kids make mistakes. Do astagfar and move on.

Anonymous · Answer

If you were a westerner none of this is a big deal. You made out with someone. That’s not a betrayal of anything in my opinion. Just keep it to yourself if you think your family has a problem with it.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Your thing is gonna get taken down for spam, just a heads up, it's possible they can take all of them down just cause you spammed it.

Shamalien · Answer

You are still a virgin. No man in his right mind will care that you’ve made out with a dude

Agape93 · Answer

You're afraid of getting killed for making out or fondling?

Googlemyahoo · Answer

All that because you went on a date?

gag37627 · Answer

This story does not sound real to me

Anonymous · Answer

More than a mistake. Who will have you now?

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