Studies show girls are attracted mostly to men older than them including 10 years plus. This attraction develops in teens and doesn't start in adulthood as some people think. Yet there are people throwing tantrums because they don't like young girls being attracted to much older men. I think it's ridiculous.
In some cases, girls admire the father figures in their lives and implant in their heads that they'll hopefully find a responsible man (like those father figures) someday when they're older.
A girl in her late teens or young 20s won't find father figure qualities in the boys her age.
As she gets older, she sets her goals to leave behind immature men who get upset at her while claiming that she should stick to men her own age.
In most cases, many people (males & females) simply look at such pairing with large age gaps to be unattractive or, worse, disgusting.
Meanwhile, I've always done the opposite ever since my teens wherein I've never dated a man or been seriously involved with man older than me or even in the same age as me.
I have yet to met any woman irl that's into older men. All the ones I know prefer younger. Maybe just haven't met them yet since they stay at home with their old grandpa's boyfriends 🤷♀️
People's opinions and reactions can vary widely based on cultural, societal, and personal beliefs. The topic you mentioned, about age differences in romantic attractions, is a complex and controversial one. It's important to consider that age differences can lead to power imbalances and issues of consent. While research may show certain trends, it doesn't justify or invalidate concerns raised by others. It's crucial to engage in respectful and open discussions to better understand differing perspectives on these matters.
I have had many interactions and 'friends' with much younger girls/women, WITHOUT me seeming or pretending to be what some would have you believe about older men and young girls/women, a lecher or just a 'creepy' male.
I do not understand it, it just is.
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I am 52 and find a lot of girls 18+ want to meet me, have sex with me. Right now I have 3 girls, ages 18, 19 and 21st are my friends with benefits. We have sex often. They all say I am more concerned with their sexual desires than guys in their age group or in their 20’s.
It's mainly a thing in the West.. And it's mainly women who made it weird mainly because a lot of them are pretty strict when it comes to age.. They associate it with pedophilia and sorta vilified it.. People seem to think we need to date people exactly or almost exactly our age or it gets weird if you don't..
I'm not surprised
It's normal fact 😂😂and i think it's win for guys we get young 🌱 pretty girls 😂😂 i like younger girls too
Males over 35 are more mature and are close to reaching their goals like having their own place, successful career and know what they want minus playing mind games
Excellent question. I have younger female students try and seduce me as their teacher. Only 2 have been successful so far because getting caught means losing my job!!
It seems to be true, and I don’t understand why some people have a hard time believing that or why it bothers them
Wait, aren't the tantrums cause they don't like older men being attracted to younger women?
It's because we try to be what we're not before we are comfortable with our selves... the character we act out as... often misses its mark... thus the inauthentisy is obviously.. well considered by some ridiculous
Its really the age difference. Why would a lets say 25f be attracted to a 95m? That difference I don't understand. But to each their own.
So then stop worrying about what others think. You're completely allowed to think what you want and agree with whatever stats you found.
As long as they're not minors, there's nothing wrong with an age gap.
Where are these people who are throwing tantrums about this? Can you provides some examples? I just never see it.
Interesting, but not really surprising.
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