If a waiter or waitress demands that you use their desired pronouns, are you tipping them?

[SolitarySolace]

Yes

No

[DaveJord]

Nope, I am packing up and leaving... that waiter is there to serve me as a customer and not project their personal preferences upon me. I literally do not give a shit what you think you are or want to be called. I came into the establishment looking for a meal with service, not a conversation about what gender means to you. Because I know what it means to me.

[NaultD]

You introduce yourself as solitarysolace (or proper name) and i react you are a liar. i look like a god damn crazy person.

Unless your an irs or dedt collection agent just stop being a jerkoff at least the irs and dedt collector xan blame the boss for being the jerk off.

Do you really want a state ordered prostate exam everytime going to a public bathroom? Or just let people live there own lifes?

[HelpfulWoman]

"demands"? probably not. that word would indicate they're probably dicks for the whole service.
Informing me of their desired pronouns wouldn't be a reason to not tip.
But also uk so tipping isn't really a norm here.

[Anime_person]

Yes because the waiter/waitress was not afraid to speak her mind.

[normalice]

As long as they do their job.

But also it's hard to think of a situation where I'd be talking about a waiter or waitress to whomever I was dining with, so I don't see where pronouns would enter into it.

[goaded]

It's a situation that will never happen. If you intentionally misgender your wait staff, the most likely results are either that someone else will take over, or you'll be asked to leave for being rude.

[JacobJordan]

I am walking out. I don't care about their mental delusions if you look like a dude I am calling you sir if you look like a woman I am calling you ms. If you don't like that too bad.

[WindAtMyBack]

No because as soon as they start that bullshit I'll tell them it's bullshit, then I'm walking out.

[spartan55]

They can demand all they want. They are getting he and she... hate that bullshit

[NathanDavis]

I always tip regular, and also great service

[Drewtate]

No life's too short

[gorydetails]

Nope.

[AngelLily]

Nope

[jahaims]

Depends on context

[ThrillSeeker01]

It's no big deal