Why is it considered so wrong for me to want to be beautiful and happy like 4 billion other people? Why have I been treated like a monster?

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As a child I kept telling myself that when I start puberty I'll finally stop wanting to be a girl but puberty made me suicidal. I was growing hair out of my chest and back. So I transitioned and stopped male puberty at 15. I don't understand why it's been so wrong for me to want to be beautiful and feminine. I have been treated like a monster, I am so hurt and traumatized. I just want to be a beautiful woman. I love looking in the mirror and seeing a beautiful woman. I love being desireable to men. I would rather die than be boring and grow hair out of my face and chest and back and ass cheeks and go bald. I never felt happy looking in the mirror until my cousin dressed me up like a girl when I was 7. Why would it be wrong for me to be a woman when 4,000,000,000 people are women? Why should I sit back being miserable and watching them live the life I dream of? Why have people been so mean to me and made me feel like a monster? I hurt so much. I struggle with feeling like a freak monster. I would rather die than be a boring, hairy, balding misogynist womanizing man. I love feeling beautiful and feminine. I am not a monster. I am special and beautiful. God didn't create me just to be miserable

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

I hear that you've gone through a lot of pain and difficulty with feeling comfortable in your own skin. No one deserves to feel like a monster or a freak. Wanting to feel beautiful and happy is totally normal.

It seems like some people don't understand what it's really like to be transgender. They judge without even trying to walk in your shoes. But YOU know who you truly are. You found the courage to transition and be your authentic self, and that takes real strength.

Don't listen to the haters - they're just ignorant. You have every right to live as the woman you are. Focus on the people in your life who support you for who you are. And try not to let the narrow-minded ones get you down too much, as hard as that is. You have so much wonderfulness to offer the world!

Keep your head high. Keep being confident and proud of the beautiful woman you see in the mirror. Own your truth. Your identity and happiness matter the most. I know it's tough, but stay strong. Things will get better as more people learn to accept others. You've got this!

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Because you never gonna be a real woman, can you give birth? so they see you as a freak.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You're not a woman. You don't have a normal vagina, you don't have breasts, you'll never ever be able to give birth. You have nothing that makes you a woman.

What you have is a mental health disorder. It's very very common amongst transgenders. Almost all of them have diagnosed bipolar, schizophrenia, & other disorders that cause delusions, delirium and hallucinations.

The reason why transgenderism itself hasn't been actively labeled a mental health disorder is because feeding these delusions and catering to the ideology that yes a born-as-woman is really a man or a born-as-man is really a woman... is extremely profitable for healthcare providers. EXTREMELY profitable.

A prescription for mental health that'd stop these delusions makes a doctor maybe $2,500 a year through pharmacy payments.

A sex change surgery can easily make a referring doctor $50,000 per year because they'd get a cut of the surgeon's profits for referring them.

Yabbut · Accepted Answer

Biological women are not all walking around feeling beautiful and feminine. In fact, I'd be willing to bet a significant number of us aren't. You can live how you want, and feel how you feel, but you can't expect everyone else to agree. Just the same as when Lizzo felt the need to proclaim that she was beautiful, there was much disagreement. Don't look to the world for your confidence, look to yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

If you want to be a trans women do what makes you happy.
This might not sound pleasant to hear but I still think it’s very true. A lot of men probably aren’t interested in trans woman. To men that aren’t transgender a lot of them probably won’t consider a person born in a male body (transwoman) to be an actual woman.

Anonymous · Answer

People like the ones in this video are part of the problem if their not acting like crazy 🤪 people they come off physically aggressive

NamerOfStars · Answer

Because you're incapable of shutting up about it. Have you ever asked a single question here about anything else? Spamming makes you unpopular; this should not surprise you.

gorydetails · Answer

sounds like a fetish.

Why is it considered so wrong for me to want to be beautiful and happy like 4 billion other people? Why have I been treated like a monster?

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