Is the Russian or Israeli military more brutal?

I know that a lot of people will answer Israel because there have been far more civilian deaths in Gaza than in Ukraine. And a trend I've seen since the war went full scale back in February 2022 is people saying that "if you think what's happening in Ukraine is bad, look at what (insert western country) did in Vietnam, Iraq, Palestine etc... because those have claimed so much more civilian lives than the Russian "Special Military Operation" did in Ukraine. But none of these commentators want to talk about why the Russian invasion claimed comparatively few civilian lives:

Is the Russian or Israeli military more brutal?

Because the Ukrainian army drove the Russian army away from their major population centers like Kyiv and Kharkiv and Ukrainian air defenses inflicted unsustainable losses on the Russian Air Force. But where the Russian army has been able to advance they used a similar strategy to Israel: use shells and bombs to grind everything to dust with places like Bakhmut and Avdiivka being reminiscent of Gaza. The reason that the civilian death toll has been lower in Ukraine than in Gaza is because there was a lot more space for the civilians to flee to and the Ukrainian army bought them time to do so. And if that pill is too difficult for pro-Putin commentators to swallow, they make up excuses like "Russia never wanted to occupy the whole country" or the Reason Russia hasn't is because they've been "wary of civilian casualties".

So while there are many hypocrites in the Western media who say that when the Ukrainians fight back against Russia they're "freedom fighters" and when the Palestinians fight back against Israel, they're "terrorists", they're matched by those who say that when the Palestinians fight back they're "heroes" but when the Ukrainians fight back, they're fighting a "NATO proxy war".

Is the Russian or Israeli military more brutal?
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