Why is there so much hate on here recently for stay at home moms including by conservative people?

[Anonymous]

[Alli112]

Hadn't seen that. If anything I mostly just see conservative leaning people claiming that liberal leaning people/people with feminist values hate on stay at home moms (which like, no, that's a mischaracterization, at least in my experience, but what can you do?)

[Asker]

Yes but I’ve seen questions absolutely bashing them. Calling them cheaters and that most are one sided relationship

[Alli112]

Huh. well, if anything, I guess it could be coming from conservative men who have had unsuccessful relationships in which their partner didn't work a paying job (liberal families don't often have this structure, at least not for long, so that's why it would come from conservative-leaning people). They might be feeling resentful after the person divorced or cheated in response to the failing relationship and are taking that resentment out here. (They also might have heard that narrative from someone in their life with a similar experience.)

*Not excusing cheating, just to be clear. I'm just assuming that's a potential cause of the attitude.

There's also a subgroup of neomasculine/redpill/whatever people with in the "conservative" line of thinking who are pretty much just spreading misogyny regardless of context on the belief that women are fundamentally selfish/promiscuous/etc and SAHMs might just the current target of that rhetoric. But that's more of a guess since I'm not seeing the same stuff as you necessarily.

[LazerBean]

Conservatives don't hate stay at home moms, liberals who think they are conservative hate Sahms. And there just happens to be plenty of librals on this site.

[Asker]

It really depends. Yes there are women who are narcissistic. The lifestyle isn’t as glamorous as they make it on TV. I think the stay at home moms who cheat are trash.

But why let people live their lives. Find who and what makes you happy and stop trying to drag people down because you they’re miserable with their own life

[handsomelad70]

TRUE conservatives usually don't hate others for their legal choices;reactionary busybody POS do.

[WhitneySnow]

There is?

[Asker]

Seems to be recently

[WhitneySnow]

I never noticed

[jahaims]

Haven't seen or heard anything like that

[gorydetails]

There isn’t