Should parents / teachers and others really have the right to attack and abuse children?

[molonski2]

Its very proven that this does not achieve anything.

Just as the old " boys homes " have been abolished due to creating even worse , hardened criminals , yet we still in some parts of the world allow people to abuse their own children..

People makes mindless comments like " It didn't do me any harm " , sorry = yes it did , you were abused , unacceptable.

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Its really time to move beyond this lunacy and to understand you are creating future abusers , because that's exactly what it is , make no mistake. Its NEVER okay , its NEVER justified.

[IslaTheWitch]

no... no person, no animal deserves to be treated without respect... Even small people, like kids, have their feelings and problems they deal with...

we should show them kindness and understand the reasons of their behavior... help them solve their problems and teach them how to approach problems, so they won't mess up their lives

raising kids means showing them best practices in life, teaching them but not assaulting them or force them to do something they don't understand or don't like... if we force them, without explaining and convincing them, what they should do and mainly WHY, we teach them, that their opinion and feelings are not important... we teach them, that others can decide for their lives... we create people who can't defend themselves...

all skills kids learn in their childhood from the people closest to them... they learn by observation or interaction... what we say doesn't matter, what we do is everything... so we have to adopt the mindset we want our kids to have because they will learn from us...

so if we physically or emotionally assault them... we teach them it's socially accepted and they will do the same... consciously or unconsciously... they will repeat all behaviors they saw and learn as kids...

raising kids is sharing our life and mindset with them... it's pouring our experiences into them... so... we have to be really careful what and how we teach them... we have to be very critical against our own behavior and work on our unconscious reactions...

[molonski2]

I never had any problem with my Children , now grown adults.. I never struck them , thats abuse , some of what I see around is ignorance. If I'm 7ft tall basketballer and smash some guy who is 5ft? Thats okey? Of course its not..
Same thing only far WORSE.

[MemeSupreme]

teachers no bc you can't trust them but parents can spank bc it's not abuse when it's done right

like trust me ik abuse. my grandma spanked me some growing up, but she never raised her voice and tried to explain things to me why. i understood it

BUT my mom and step-dad were extreme in every way and unpredictable. anything could set them off and it felt like walking on egg shells. very different experience and it made me terrified of doing anything bc it set them off

[molonski2]

@MemeSupreme
And you think what happened to you is okay? Are you kidding?
You were abused and crushed.

[MemeSupreme]

spanking was fine by my grandma bc she was calm and not extreme at all. like she did it the right way

from my parents no obviously LMAO

[molonski2]

Ohh mate , I dont think either were a good strategy. , not good.. as for your parents...

[Date_a_Snob]

Me and my sisters were all spanked growing up

[molonski2]

My sisters and I... thats not a positive , just very poor parenting.

[NathanDavis]

they don't have that right here... no

[Maybeyoutoo]

Never ever