What is something that you feel like is normal and very easy for others but you can't seem to figure it out?

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What do you feel like the majority of society experiences easily but you can't seem to accomplish it like everyone else?  Do you feel resentful because of it?

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

It’s so easy for others to avoid being obsessed with Henry Cavill. I wish I could do that. He is the pinnacle of handsomeness. I look at his photos and wonder if it’s even possible for someone to be like that. It’s overwhelming, and others think it’s weird and unhealthy to feel this way. I wouldn’t be able to talk if I ever saw him in person. He will always be handsome, but his old photos have an undeniable charm.

I’ve talked to my mum about it, and she tries to convince me it’s makeup and lighting, but I disagree. My friends say he is handsome, but they’re not obsessed with him. I will never tell my partner about it because I don’t want to hurt anyone. No one can understand my perspective. He is straight out of a fairy tale or a beautiful dream.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Be vulnerable, interact healthily with family, go to parties, have social media

Eight_Ball · Accepted Answer

Eating breakfast. Everybody I know eats breakfast with ease. I can't and haven't eaten breakfast since I was a teen only because my mother made me. I just can't get hop out of bed and starting eating. It feels unnecessary to start eating that early in the day. To not even be awake a half hour and then start dumping food down my throat is foreign to me. I'm not even hungry when I wake up. Why should I eat? " Most important meal of the day goddam you!" they say. Yeah, well, I'm not doing it. I still marvel at how other people can do it.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

I've never been good at formal dancing. I just cannot get the counting and steps down. I see many others dance beautifully. I don't resent them, or myself for failing to get it. I guess we all have strengths and weaknesses, and dancing is one of my weaknesses.

Still-alive · Answer

on a role with the question asking today!

anyways for a long time i thought it was taxes... until i look around and notice others find them confusing too so i feel less alone lol.

So instead ill say tying knots... always had trouble with those lol

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Having enough time in a day. I help friends and family out a lot because I can do reno work, so a lot of my spare time is taken up helping others. I should likely just say "no" to give myself a break but find it very hard to tell people that I care about that I need some time to myself.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Signing and drawing, the words I suck just don’t do justice to have bad I am. Everyone I know can draw, do artistic stuff, not me, also music in general I’m sooo bad, the rest of my family are naturally gifted, as are my friends. My family all go Carol singing, I go to the pub.

skidawgkc22 · Answer

Dating. Approaching women in a way that doesn't come off as creepy. Approaching women who are actually single and not already seeing someone.

Nifrayu · Answer

Making important phone calls. Everytime I need to call somewhere, my anxiety spikes.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

answer immediately which hand is left or right... impossible... also don't tell me "turn right NOW" it won't work :D

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Small talks, I understand the concept but on a strategical level only, intuitively I can't really do that, I need to force it so it can happen lol

Wiredone · Answer

Dancing is very difficult for me. I got 2 left feet and can't dance to save my life

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Talking without being ignored. A lot of the time I feel I am wasting my time talking

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Dating, and chatting to women in a romantic way. I always think I'll come across as creepy (I've been told I'm not creepy), and just generally inept at it. Simples...

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I can't keep my mouth shut in the face of nonsense. Bad luck for me.

Nerdvana · Answer

Dating/falling in love. And yes, I am a little resentful unfortunately.

LazerMan · Answer

why are they stupid too many people are stupid being not stupid is not hard you just need to use brain

Tstrbrainer · Answer

I suck at talking to women.  It sucks, but I don't think I resent it.

petitedollbabee · Answer

How the hell you whistle 😭😭😂

Slim57 · Answer

Adulting, math, mechanical stuff

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

I wish I was funnier and I could make people laugh

Anonymous · Answer

Small talk with strangers

eagle1951 · Answer

math

lexie_xo · Answer

maths lol

MrGSpotHer · Answer

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