What is something other people do that is normal for them but you find to be completely strange to you?

[mandyfire98]

[thatshydork]

Trying to enforce their religions/beliefs onto other people. I’m a Christian but I also understand the difference between “that goes against my personal beliefs so I won’t do that” vs “that’s goes against my personal beliefs so you shouldn’t/can’t do that”. Like, as long as they’re not hurting themselves or other people, who cares? Let them be who they are. Why does it matter so much how other people live their lives if they’re not hurting others or themselves? Let them be so long as they’re not being racist, homophobic, transphobic, antisemitic, etc. because if they are, then they’re hurting other people.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t understand why people have to make lives so hard.

I want something, I say.

Most people play games though.

My ex, for example, was a perfect manipulator and constantly played mind games with me, at the end of the relationship I felt like he was a girl and I was a guy.

[mandyfire98]

Honestly manipulators just get off on toying with people.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, it’s very tiresome and emotionally exhausting. My mom would often tell me my ex was exactly like her and he played with my mind the way girls do it to guys.

I am just too honest and straightforward, he was the opposite, It exhausted me mentally.

[mandyfire98]

Narcissists always manipulate

[Staximus]

Your mom would often tell you he played with your mind? You should have left that guy the first time you realized she was right

[Slingblade1126]

People that never watch the fucking road when they're driving! I have a friend and uncle like that. They literally stop at green lights. They look at everything else but the fucking road! I'm sure we all know someone like that and to them it seems perfectly normal.

[Wallythewalrus]

Lmao!! Guity! Just today, Jim bitched at me for stopping at a green light. Which is funny, because about 10min before that I ran a red light!

[Slingblade1126]

@Wallythewalrus Yeah, I tell everyone that! He stops at every green light and runs every red light. You need to get your cousin's tits off your mind! And also, I'm not a psychologist or anything like that but your family sees each other naked WAY TO offen!

[Wallythewalrus]

Not as offen as my posts would lead you to believe.

[Slingblade1126]

@Wallythewalrus Just do me a favor and start using the anon option.

[JackCarter]

Actors and sports people getting paid in millions..

And Youtubers and other social media "influencers" earning money relatively easily!

[mandyfire98]

100 percent agree

[OlderAndWiser]

Eating mayonnaise or chewing gum.

[mandyfire98]

You hate mayonnaise?

My grandpa used to say he didn't trust people who chewed gum.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, I do not like mayonnaise.

[NathanDavis]

dating online and even at long distance at that...

I am in no way judging at all, or saying it is wrong and bad, I just can't see myself trying it this way... and I think I wouldn't even know how to go about it

but I am very much used to the "traditional" way (which know sounds really funny to say) in which I actually get to know someone as a person... in person!!

even today, yes... I'll meet someone, we'll text, we'll call and all of that, but I still like to spend more time, hours long going out and being together, and let phone to phone communication to the less possible, only the absolutely necessary

[mandyfire98]

I agree. I just don't understand how long distance works honestly.

[NathanDavis]

yep... I would need the actual closeness, and could not go without

[mandyfire98]

I agree 💯

[Gochogirl]

I think it's strange that other people have a filter that stops them from saying what's on their mind. You can probably guess I get in trouble a lot when I talk haha.

[mandyfire98]

I'm sometimes the same way 😂😂

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I am an expert at making things super awkward. For short term and long term as well.

[Agape93]

Having good relations with parents. I don't know what that's like. I don't know how they feel at all comfortable with it or being around them. I don't know why they're smiling. I don't know why everyone is getting hugs and I love yous. I just simply don't understand it, no matter how people explain it.

[midnightmoon05]

1. Why so many buy/eat fast food. When there are so many more healthier options that can be purchase or made cheaply.
2. why go on phone all the time.
3. why so into baseball…too slow.
4. Why so many so broke.
5. Why everyone is having mental health/depression.
just so wired 😳

[Andres77]

I just read a story where a kid wondered why the milk was so sweet when he slept over at a friends house. Turns out that everyone poured their cereal milk back in the “cereal milk” carton after they’d finished the cereal.

[mandyfire98]

Oh Jesus. Ewwww

[FYI345]

If I was that kid I would lose my shit.

[TrueConfection]

Gross! 🤣🤣🤣

[Lliam]

LOL This is such a great question. All kinds of things occur to me. I want to keep it light, though, and not get into socio-political and religious stuff.

So I'll say wearing clothes during sex. I don't get it.

[mandyfire98]

I don't either. That's odd to me.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Asking a significant other for permission to do something/go somewhere. It's an entirely foreign concept to me and the very idea of it irks me.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah asking another person for permission is a bit strange when you're an adult. You shouldn't have to ask for permission.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Facts. The only times I see myself asking my boyfriend for permission is to maybe use his stuff like his computer or his car. Or for certain purchases that would affect both of us. As for everything else, I'll run things by him to let him know what I'm up to, with who and where. IF he's uncomfortable with something, he's open to tell me and discuss it with me and we'll take it from there.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah asking for permission in regards to other people's things is normal. But having to ask permission to live the way you want to live is crazy.

[Anonymous]

Well I would say "pre-marital" sex. But even I get that that notion is probably non existent anymore with people today. But I really don't get hookup culture. I really don't get how people can sleep with people they barely know or have only known for a while. I have to trust a woman to want to sleep with her and building trust takes time. I'll never understand this about people today. When it comes to this.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah the whole sex after marriage thing is pretty non existent unless you're in certain religious parts of the world really.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. Basically I won't sleep with a woman unless I feel there's potential for her to be the one. It's been my experience that she usually wants to sleep together before me. I've lost more than one woman because I wouldn't sleep with her.
It's kind of aggravating to. Because I feel like I roles are backwards in this.🤣

[talka20]

I dont stand and pee anymore for years and pee in shower anymore so yea

I dont wear red anything yet that shows it is red... i do have burgundy or dark red boxers which is not seen so yea anything red... also tiedye "print" i dont use that... id rather wear actual tiedye not the printed form

Kiss babies on lips 😂 @DizzyDesii

Using sex toys in solo session (mainly men)

Not shaving pubes n armpits for like months or whole season of winter

[DizzyDesii]

Lol glad you remembered how much I hate seeing people do that 😂 Like there are two whole cheeks right there on the side if their face! Go for it

[talka20]

Hahha i do remember more things that you have said😂 where have u been tho and howre u doin?

[DizzyDesii]

You know i like to come and go

[talka20]

Ik you you like to cum n go again too xP

[DizzyDesii]

😂🤣😂

[menina]

Hugging and kissing their family, friends and their SO. Not that I think that's bad, it's actually good. But for some reason I have a problem with it.

[Andres77]

On the cheek is fine. Do you know some that kiss on the lips?

[menina]

@Andres77 Yes, it is. I do. I don't think that's ok (assuming that we're talking about parents and their children, not a couple).

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Oversharing things with other people.

When living in a hostel, I noticed that guys share almost everything. I was like, that is not okay for me at all.

I kept my belongings locked up in the cupboard. Everything.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Also, I agree with every opinion I have liked.

[4ngelic]

walking with shoes everywhere indoors

eating breakfast everyday or eating when you're not hungry just cause its 'meal time'

[AaronKrieger]

People who wear headphones/headset out in public. It puts a target on your back and you also can't hear your environment as well. I genuinely do not get how they're so comfortable with it.

[Little_Bumblebee]

People who pee in the shower.
Apparently many people do this.

I could never

[strlb]

I don't see the issue here? I mean the water is running, why not pee and save a flush and help the environment

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yeah I just cannot. It feels like doing something dirty where you clean yourself... and the thought that it might smell eventually in the shower... and it's just kind of like... it feels so.. unhinged? I just cannot... and while standing up! That's unnatural- at least for me as a woman

[Jacq_attack]

Being manipulative for their own benefit or plain sick sense of humour.

[Kelly6]

i can tell what i do that others see as wrong, but to me its normal

[mandyfire98]

Ok do tell

[Kelly6]

I breastfeed my kids for long term.
I’m a mom but still work as a sex worker

[mandyfire98]

How's the sex work going for you?

[Kelly6]

It’s going very good.
And financially very helpful

[mandyfire98]

Very nice

[Kelly6]

Can you also follow me?

[Kelly6]

I want to ask some question but feel others will start bully me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

People who dress in different clothing daily because they got to follow their religion faithfully.

[Redstang88]

Dating multiple people at once. Never understood it, never will

[Staximus]

People being big sports fans. I don't give a chicken fried fuck about most popular sports. Boxing and martial arts are ok though.