The public view of people with BPD seem to be needy, manipulative or abusive.
What they dont understand, the thought processes, being judged or bullied and fram, is what its like to go through what these people have gone through. Or to be abandoned. Or to experience extreme abuse or Trauma. Or to not feel like anyone loves you due to, those first two things.
These people may have never been given a chance, treated like shit by a lot of people. Even there families.
And they are often always told that, the problem is them, not other people. SOund familiar? If you been through something like that, what do you try to do or want to do. Normal people can go through similar stuff, and get more sympathy.
xpress there differences its seem as a bad thing, but normal people can be quirky as all hellNow BPD often had a troubled childhood or some struggle in identity development or personality development. That is one of the most painful things one can bear. Imagine your childhood being damaged by your parents, the people you are suppose to trust and who are supposed to love and protect you.
You seek help, and doctors tell you that the problem is you.
I dont think that anyone should do abusive behavior , or that its acceptable or that you shouldn't try to be good to people. My problem is the hypocrisy and the accusing f things just because people frame them or misunderstand them, always saying were the problem, if we get abandoned its our fault or were just being dramatic. Why is it always on the minority some of the time? They dont know the hell other people are going through. Sometimes people are just different, but when they express there differences its seem as a bad thing, but normal people can be quirky as all hell
