Is it normal for kids my age to use so much double meaning phrases and words?

[Apulu_Imback]

Honestly it's so hard to communicate with these people. I realized that it was all double meaning when this one classmate said me today "Aww you are so cute. I wanna be your sugar mommy" and I innocently replied her back "Ah thanks for that but I already have a sweet Mom! Glad you want to pamper me" . I thought that she found me cute and wants to pamper me like a mom. But few other people were laughing at my reply so I asked my best friend (one who isn't in my school). And he said something which I wasn't expecting at all. It is something bad. 69 is also something like that.

Is it normal for 14-15 yr kids to use such double meaning things? It's so uncomfortable and confusing.

Me and my best friend (not the one who explained but who is in my school) both don't know meaning of such words. It is dangerous too because they might be say us something sexually offensive and we won't have a clue that we are being humiliated.

I should ask my cousin and best friend (not in my school) for helping me getting educated in this case. Just so that I could know intentions of people easily. I didn't knew that I had to loose my innocence so soon. World won't be same now.

[serious]

Honestly speaking this is not normal at all. However, yes some people have the habit of speaking like that. I see no logic, no meaning in such sentences.

Yes I can understand it can be uncomfortable for the other person listening to this. In your case, your reply was good but you could have also been silent if you did not appreciate that.

When your classmate said this "Aww you are so cute. I wanna be your sugar mommy". The way I see it this doesn't seem to be a genuine way of complimenting you or appreciating you by any means. Sounds like a tease to me. I don't know I think like that. Of course then it also depends how much you know your classmate, you know better.

However if I was in your place then irrespective to anything I would ask the person to never talk to me like that or I will stop talking to that person. Simple.

Anyways, that being said in some countries people tend to use swear words, foul language regularly in their sentences while speaking and apparently for them it is not a big deal but yes it can be really uncomfortable interacting with such people.

1."Me and my best friend (not the one who explained but who is in my school) both don't know meaning of such words. It is dangerous too because they might be say us something sexually offensive and we won't have a clue that we are being humiliated."

Yes that is correct. Many times you may not even know. Given that you are very young also.

2. "I should ask my cousin and best friend (not in my school) for helping me getting educated in this case. Just so that I could know intentions of people easily. I didn't knew that I had to loose my innocence so soon. World won't be same now."

Of course you can ask and even if you get yourself educated in this case, it is still best to have minimum interactions with such people, meaning keeping it extremely short and business like communication with such people.

It is tough to know the intentions of a person. Intentions cannot be seen, only actions can be seen. You can only get an idea of the intention of the person from the way they speak and from their actions.

Yes that is my overall opinion.

[Apulu_Imback]

I don't know that girl very well. I was kind of confused too so I just replied awkwardly as I wanted to be polite given that she is a new person I was talking with. I guess in today's world it is completely normal and it shouldn't be. There are so many double meaning words that one can't even recognize which one is. I should avoid everyone who seems to be influenced by such thoughts.

[serious]

@apulu_imback

"I don't know that girl very well. I was kind of confused too so I just replied awkwardly as I wanted to be polite given that she is a new person I was talking with"

Okay.

[serious]

@apulu_imback

"I guess in today's world it is completely normal and it shouldn't be"

No. It is not normal to me at all. There are so many people who never speak like that. I surely never speak in that manner. Never.

I am always straightforward and I speak in proper language and in full sentence.

[serious]

@apulu_imback

"There are so many double meaning words that one can't even recognize which one is. I should avoid everyone who seems to be influenced by such thoughts."

Yes that would be best. Avoiding them would be the best possible option.

[Anonymous]

You do know that immature kids only know how to humiliate. Ridicule is all they know. Don't give them any power. No shame ever before them. Try this
PFFFT <-- that means whatever you just said was so stupid I don't even respond.
Do not get into a tit for tat with them. They want to bait you into it.
You are in control. never raise your voice, never get embarrassed, Never try to be one of them, Always be respectful. Just move along with your lesson. Ignore as you would a worm their comments or anything outside the lesson. PRAISE those you understand and are positive toward the lesson.

[Apulu_Imback]

Thanks!

[Blackcosmo]

This society has become so much more sexual. Of course it rubs off on kids too.

[Apulu_Imback]

Ugh it's really annoying

[Blackcosmo]

Ikr.

[Blackcosmo]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Apulu_Imback]

I didn't chose it. You're welcome anyways lol

[Still-alive]

oh yeah be ready for even more of that nonsense especially from teenagers smh

[Apulu_Imback]

Ah whyyyy

[Still-alive]

just how it be lol

[Apulu_Imback]

Was it like this in your time?

[Still-alive]

yeah it was lol.

[Apulu_Imback]

And here my parents are like Today's generation is destroyed. There is nothing like innocence. Ah how much I wish I could have seen their teenage selves.

[Still-alive]

Well im guessing your country didn't go through a bra burning hippie generation like america did during the 60s and 70s. It led to our culture being more sexually open. less conservative about sex. So as a result they passed it onto our generation and now we are passing it on to the new generation. Innocence is long lost by now lol

[Apulu_Imback]

I fear in future kids of 7 years would be crossing streets singing 34+35 :-:

[Guy13]

Speak proper English? What are you trying to say?

[slatyb]

Completely normal.

[slatyb]

try urbandictionary. com

[Apulu_Imback]

Okay

[Anonymous]

Even young girls talk like this?

[Apulu_Imback]

Yeah

[Opinion Owner]

I thought it was boys only. Girls talk sexually too? Am amazed

[Apulu_Imback]

Okay

[Opinion Owner]

Girls are sexual?

[Apulu_Imback]

Sorry ask from someone who is appropriate to talk about these things. It doesn't sits well when you as adult talk about sexual things to me when I'm a young teen. Not to be offensive but you are crossing the limits. You already know the answer so kindly stop asking stupid questions.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh my bad 😔