I just turned 25 but honestly since I’ve been 22 or 23, every time I tell people they’re like “do you have kids yet” or “do you want kids” and I most definitely do! I just didn’t have the right person back then nor did I have a steady job and wasn’t emotionally prepared. I’d like a baby in my late 20s as in 27-29 because I think that’s an age range where I’m gonna be matured some more and I’m also not as young or naive like I used to be, and I’ll have more of a steady income with my fiance by then. I feel like these days everyone starts off super young and two each their own but it’s sad that some people bring a baby into this world only for the child to suffer the aftermath of the parents separation, abuse, financial struggles, etc. In my opinion I feel like women should take time to find themselves as well, I’m not even a feminist or anything like that but I see girls so young having a baby and they didn’t even fulfil some of their goals yet, not that they never can but it’s much harder with a baby. I’m just gonna be so proud of myself that I can say I did all that and make my future son or daughter the happiest and provide all the love and support one day.
Is it normal for people to ask if you have kids more often once you hit the age of 23 and up?
