Is it normal to feel obsolete as a man in the modern world?

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I don't feel needed. Anything a man can do a woman can do with the aid of technology plus they play the more important role reproductively. They also are starting to out earn men too and society has changed enough where they don't need their protection. What am I supposed to add to a woman's life except acting like a dog or something?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Trust me bro , most girls’ need a man , it doesn’t matter if she makes more Money than you or she can protect herself , there is so many things a guy can do for a girl that makes a girl drawn to him Most girls want a man that can guide her and protect her , that listens to her and is there For her when she needs him , Most females’ are natural care takers , most girls’ love guys’ that she feels l she can fix and take care of , why so many girls’ like the bad boy type , she feels she can care for him and take care of him , she also feels safe and protected by him and feels he will have her back if something bad happens. Most females are weak and insecure deep down inside , she cries over things that really aren’t that big of a deal to us guys’ , and she bitches and complains about dumb shit as well , Females’ do not have testosterone that is men have , she has hormones that make her seem crazy and delusional at times , by pouting over things that really do not matter. She loves having a guy that understands her that makes her feel safe , when you get a girl that looks up to you and wants to be close

To you , she will more than likely stand by his side no matter what , as long as he makes her feel safe and protected and loved , Most girls’ love being submissive to a guy that keeps her on her toes , that she feels every other girl wants him , and she feels lucky to have him. Most females want a man she can chase , she doesn’t want a man that chases her because she looks at him like he is weak and insecure , Girls’ love masculine men that take lead , that make her feel loved and respected. Not all girls’ are selfish whores , even though it seems like that’s all I end up with , but she is out there , just harder to find these days because of social media and all the nonsense we hear about relationships and cheaters. Girls’ also love confidence is a man , that isn’t to cocky or stuck up , she likes a guy that accepts himself for who he is , she is t expecting perfect , if she is , then she is going to be waiting a very long time to find perfect , because she isn’t perfect either

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

As a man, no.

Technology, women & men come up to me for advice.
“They play the more important role reproductively” then men were obsolete since the beginning of time lmao.
“What am I supposed to add to a woman’s life except acting like a dog or something”. Give her comfort, support, love, passion, romance, fun, humor, and be her therapist from time to time just listening to her & giving advice like the man she was always meant to have just as she will with you.
That no matter how backwards the world feels from time to time, she’ll make it seem alright.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

No that's not normal. Regardless of who can do what, you're still a human being and you have value.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I got tired of men cheating and treating me like crap and bought a dog.

genericname85 · Answer

why the heck do you need to feel needed? can you not enjoy your life and build on your vision of your future without someone elses validation? i mean it's your life after all right? not someone elses. i uniderstand human have a basic need for companionship. but what does feeling obsolete do for you to get a companion? think about that. maybe work on litterally not being obsolete.

Fireguy17 · Answer

You are never obsolete.  Don't base your worth based on what women need. You are probably making a difference in people's lives that you aren't even aware of.

strateguy632 · Answer

Not normal. Sounds like depression. Get a psychologist fast.  Those unrealistic emotions are symptoms.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Stop the pity party and go to the mirror. If you don't see a worthy person there then counseling is a must. There's LIFE AFFIRMING value in a authentic loving partnership. Woof!

normalice · Answer

Not at your age unless you have thus far chosen a life of impulse and indulgence.

exitseven · Answer

I do not feel obsolete but I feel like I have no place in this world

Dargil · Answer

Maybe you are OK and the world has become corrupt around you.

ThinkerShell · Answer

Are you really in the situation where you feel miserable?

Juxtapose · Answer

Who cares what other people need? Care about what you want and if someone worthy comes along then you can enrich their life with your company.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe something other than come on the internet and troll about it for the 200th time.

Anonymous · Answer

To the RIGHT woman you'll be needed. Just for being you.  But understand these women are rare man. So when you find one, don't let go!

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, just forget about sex and all that just focus on yourself and fuck everyone else

gatixek710 · Answer

Then become needed.

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