Who is the ideal male role model for young men?

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It's a day early but here goes.

Who is a great role model for young men?

Answer can be anyone really. Famous or not.

Anonymous answers are off for this. I want serious answers only. I don't need this devolving into hatred towards either gender.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

It has to be somebody positive that has morals values and ethics and doesn't talk crap about the other gender

When a kid likes hanging out with you it's because you don't talk crap and you don't talk about anybody you're a positive influence no matter what you can teach them about wrong and right

You can teach them about cause and effect you can teach them about love and how it is 10 times easier to be good than bad
And you don't have to be serious you just have to be firm you have to be yourself you don't want to be a hard ass because nobody's going to learn anything that way except for that
You have to be able to talk to them in a way that is fun and they're not getting a lecture and they're not being told what to do you got to be able to crack jokes and not make everything so serious and you have to be their friend and they have to be able to feel that energy coming from you and knows that they're speaking from their heart

You have to be able to answer their questions and not making a bad guy or a bad person or blaming putting the blame on somebody else
You have to teach him sometimes some things just happen there are out of your control and it's how you deal with it is going to be your best way to handle things if you're crazy and out of control and you can't think when you're speaking then things are going to go right if you calm and you understand things that are big deals but not that big of a deal you can get through anything you just have to be able to want to sometimes you just have to take the pain and that's okay because it just makes you stronger person but it also depends on a lot of other things that you just have to be a positive influence and let them know that you always be there for them if they ever need anything and then in time you have to teach them they have to stand on their own two feet even though it hurts sometimes you got to still keep going forward. And love is the most powerful thing you got to be able to look at both sides no matter what just because you think you're right doesn't mean that you are right but yeah anybody that's just a caring loving person is best mentor and if they can laugh and smile and joke at the same time you're talking to them
And no matter what you have to realize that the kids likes you for some reason and so no matter what you have to be on your best behavior and show them who to be in the world no matter what happens that you'll get through it and you don't talk about anybody in a negative way because you're going to try to emulate you just like you so you have to give them positive input no matter what you're doing or talking about

CuriousMoonFox · Accepted Answer

The ideal is having as many role models as possible. Have this person as a role model for academic or professional success and that person as role model for being a good partner and another for being a good father, friend, etc. You rarely get to find a person who is a good role model for everything.

Laciejordan · Accepted Answer

My dad was an amazing role model for my brother and me. He became a single parent when I was just a year old and my brother was two. The sacrifices he made in his life to keep us a family and to constantly be a part of our life while growing up are immeasurable. I see him in my brother every time I see him, his loyalty, work ethics, love for his family and his overall kindness. I love and admire both of them a lot!

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

My dad. He is just awesome. He doesn't have any sons, just me and my sister, but he would be a great role model for anyone.  His values are something to be passed on.

Beckybooboo · Answer

Obviously, as other's have mentioned, my dad raised amazing men and was a great role model. Outside of family, I had a soccer coach that inspired and influenced an entire generation of young men in our city. I had a lot of respect for him as someone that played for him but what I didn't know, is he volunteered his time to mentor boys. After I graduated, there was a big write up about him and how many of those kids he coached and taught succeeded and continue to succeed. I knew him as a very humble and passionate person but had no idea he was a mentor and role model to so many young men. Shout out to Coach Gassel!

BTigers96 · Answer

Their father, or possibly a trusted relative, uncle, grandfather, etc...

Father's are ideally a young man's best role model, in a perfect world we could learn most of what we need to know about being a man from Dad. The one or two guy friends I know who didn't have a father figure present when they were growing up struggle with "how to be men" as adults. It's not difficult to spot.

Child Psychologist's also contend that boys (and girls) develop the majority of their confidence from their father's.

ThatGuyAaron · Answer

If we are talking about celebrities, perhaps Keanu Reeves? It can be hard to tell who is genuinely a good role model with celebrities because some put on a positive persona in front of the camera, but are actually awful people in real life. I know that Keanu has donated quite a bit to various charities without touting it in public like most celebrities do. Otherwise, he seems quite humble despite his fame and doesn't take himself too seriously.

SixFootSexy · Answer

Depends on the type of man a guy needs to be, male archetypes all need to be grounded in virtue and strength, but have very different roles and needs based on if they are warriors, builders, sages, or poets, etc.

A perfect man would have a combo of multiple archetypes, but it's rare that you get that in one person. That's why Jesus was referred to as the Lion and the Lamb.

It's kind of like if Jocko Willink and Mr. Rogers could exist in the same body.

TadCurious · Answer

Since domestic abuse is unfortunately so prevalent in our society, in my opinion it's important for boys as they're growing up to see men treating women with respect. That would help keep the chain of abuse from recycling. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

Definitely my dad, without question. He definitely gave me the courage and encouragement to go for my dreams and never be afraid to fail, as long as I know I tried my hardest. Most of what I fought for became a reality. I have no complaints. He also gave me my tolerance for alcohol. 🥂 To those wonderful fathers in our lives!

MisterWack · Answer

A father figure, teacher, principal, local town doctor, and everyone in between since it takes a village to raise a kid to be dignified, strong, smart, a critical thinker, and a speaker for the voiceless. That no matter where you come from, what you believe in, or who you respect you’ll be given a chance, a voice, and a healthy stream of support from your peers. You matter!

backdoorman · Answer

Not all fathers (or mothers) are good role models, but the best role model for young men is always a good father. Unfortunately a lot of boys grow up without one these days. I was (still am) lucky to have a great father. He is the best human being I know.

shoeboxcerealcard · Answer

None . Why would you model yourself after someone else? Just decide early in life what you want out of life and align your character with what you want. It's that simple. Most men are losers. Even the kind men are losers. Most women are losers. Don't ever have a hero. Be your own damn hero. Period.

madgoat · Answer

Probably their father. He doesn't have to be the best father out there. Just be there if at all possible. Every day. Too many kids miss it on this in my opinion.
Worth a lot more than the latest YouTube starlet with his cute hair and idealised doctrine.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Not me. I don't watch any TV or follow the news much... But I think the ideal role model isn't on there for them, it's someone in their life like a teacher, a boss, maybe even someone their age that is doing better than them that they can learn from.

Tarifa · Answer

My grandfather (father of my father). A righteous but also warm and caring man.

I had a difficult relationship with my father. Something I try to remedy now that I have a teenage daughter. She knows I'll always be there for her.

Still-alive · Answer

Tim Walz is still gonna be that guy to me. he's definitely a wife guy, respectful to everyone man or woman and he gets you pumped to try your best. just what men need! a kick in the pants to be better versions of themselves

Wiredone · Answer

My dad was a good role model. He worked hard all his life. Instilled good values in us kids. He did without just so we can have the things we needed

DizzyDesii · Answer

I know a lot of people say dads but I feel brothers, uncles and grandpa’s can contribute just as much.

nawtee_me · Answer

T try I be honest in these days it seems the mother is the great role model because a lot of men aren’t stepping up and being the dad they should be. Almost any guy can make a baby but only the real men become dads and role models.
My hats off to the mothers….

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I agree with a lot of people who already commented. Dad should be the first and most important role model for a young boy/man.

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

Our Lord Jesus Christ, of course.

I mean, His legacy, shall we disregard all the religious aspects, pretty much amounts to:

"Achieve domination, then wield it with grace. Just because you are in the driver's seat does not mean you should run people over. Just because you've got the biggest gun does not mean everyone else is a shooting range target. Use your power for the greater good, not to achieve your own ends. Also, lad by example, not by brute force."

DrPepper12 · Answer

Donald J. Trump! JK! That's the antithesis.

My first choice for any role model is usually Marcus Aurelius, but I think in this case we can make an exception since his son was commodus...

Let's go with a Confucius & Aristotle fusion

AviatorTom · Answer

Men learn from, and follow in the the footsteps of, their father, whether he's an ideal role model or not.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Ideally it should be family. Their father, their grandfather, uncle, etc.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Any man who has been well-cared for during childhood?

yourpalval · Answer

anyone who teaches them useful skills AND emotional intelligence

llorando · Answer

Roy Orbison, he never did drugs or alcohol and was well respected by everyone.

Ironco · Answer

I'd say his father and grandfather. Although since I've lost all my children, I've been known to take some young people under my wing to get them started.

justabuddy · Answer

It depends... some people without dads will conspire towards anyone they feel inspired by. The guy down the street. Some guy there mother knows. Most people don't even know it. Always be prepared for that to be you.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Someone that has the following characteristics  Honest Compassionate  Considerate of others Hard working Protective

debtfree_oneyear · Answer

My dad is a good role model. My grandfather was a good role model.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

His father ideally, but if not, hopefully he has a good male role model he knows personally.

goaded · Answer

Obama's got to be up there, right?

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Not Trump, Vance, Nicky Fuentes or CLB, that's certain !!!

dragoblack · Answer

The one with emotional maturity and the ability to teach the young generation tradecrafts.

LiamS95 · Answer

Mandy , probably not the guy that you're currently having sex with but there are guys out there that really truly want to make these little guys have a better life then they currently have.

BradleyScheff · Answer

Of the Popular ones currently on the scene, I would say someone like Jordan Peterson or Nick Freitas.

noohair · Answer

My Dad. Men are the only people that can teach boys to be men.

Miah06 · Answer

I think my pops is a great role model

Jennz6 · Answer

Arnold

slatyb · Answer

Tim Walz

Tonytoutouni123 · Answer

the top G Andrew Tate

LeatherDame · Answer

Samwise Gamgee.

LunarGoddess90 · Answer

Father.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

I think only rich dad can do with his $$$.

hotman5 · Answer

moses

lorenzomichael · Answer

There fathers

josepppiiii · Answer

The ideal president Trump 2024 !

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Elon musk.

Gwendoline · Answer

Their father.

Petslutofbff · Answer

James deen

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