Why everyone is biased against obese people?

[Anonymous]

Why an obese person can't show off their body in the beach without others stare once a fit person does it proudly, or an obese person can't wear a tight shirt while a fit person does it with no pulic stigma, or they can't eat two meals for lunch at work if they feel hungry still or if they like to without having others stares. It's gone far to the point that even people pray that they don't have to sit next to an obese person in a plane, which they have paid as well as them.
I don't know when the society loses these biases and accepts the differences, Do you really know those stares are really sharp and rude? Because if I'm proud of my body of my weight others have to respect it, too.

[OneViewpoint]

Is this a serious question? Body shaming bait? Well OK. Most people do not consider morbid obesity attractive or sexy. If you wanna be 100+ lbs overweight, that's your choice. Eat up and chow down. Don't exercise. But I don't want to look at that. Most people don't. It's unhealthy. Obesity comes with diabetes, heart disease, joint problems, and limitations in physical activity. It says something about you. You may not like that but you can't stop me from having opinions any more than I can stop you from trundling across the beach in a bikini. I absolutely do not have to respect your obesity. I have to respect your basic human right to make your own choices.

Conversely, people who are fit and muscular are perceived as healthy and attractive. They seem to demonstrate discipline and a commitment to taking care of themselves. That's why they get a totally different reaction. People actually do respect the traits they see in fit healthy people. Voluntarily without being told to do so.

And don't get me started on planes and trains. I paid for one seat and I take up one seat. If you take up 2 seats, you need to purchase 2 seats. I do not want to spend 6 hours with you spilling over onto me. Yes, I will say something to you. No, it will not be nice.

[NaultD]

I'm a BIG dude with zero Body dystopia. Fuck I get more compliments from guys wanting to be football players and lady very close second. Recently I've lost 40 pounds for health reasons and want to lose 40 more to get back to my early 20s peak heavyweight fighting weight and peak pussy getting.

You still have to work with what you got. You still have to find the right fit of clothes that you like and just as important if you're outside other people like on you.

It is a lot harder to find and try on clothes being big but with the internet it's never been easier. Thats we're i am at least around the same age. My biggest concern is being trapped in my own body getting old after a really bad leg break. There's a lot of big guys and there's a lot of old guy's. Not a lot of old big guys. It's only getting harder from here my brother.

[Agape93]

Because people may not want to see that or put up with it.

[Staximus]

I'm kind of fat but not really fat or obese. I can still hike a mile up a mountain at 7000 feet after smoking cigarettes all year, or run across the street and kick somebody's ass. Nobody has to respect your fat body. Respect is earned, not given. You don't even respect your own body. If you did, you wouldn't be fat. Being obese is very unhealthy. You're eating yourself into a early grave. You can kiss the last 20 years of your life goodbye. I'm trying to not be fat. You should, too. Nobody needs 2 lunches unless they didn't eat breakfast and aren't going to eat dinner. If you go all day without exercising then you only need about 1500 calories. Stop making excuses for being a fat ass.

[SmokinAces2000]

I’m assuming this is satire. I will agree that people are quick to call chubby people fat and say ignorant things but if someone is morbidly obese that’s different. At that point they made a conscious decision to get that big and they shouldn’t be proud of being obese and be complaining about people staring at them or “discriminating” against them. It’s the same shit with the woman that wanted to sue Lyft because the dude wouldn’t let her in the car. She was 500 pounds, no one would want her big ass in their car.

[DrPepper12]

Hey the plane thing is VALID!!

Im no sculpted marble but I also DGAF. I've been cut & fat so Ik both sides. My simple simple opinion on nudity / exposure is this: EVERYONE HAS A BODY! WTF people? They come in a bewildering variety but this one is mine and IDGAF what you think!

Why are bodies such a big deal? I just don't get it!! There's nothing gross, offensive, shameful, judgmental or wrong with any body!! It just IS!

[Pohjolan]

People don't want to have their personal space invaded while on a plane.

Because if I'm proud of my body of my weight others have to respect it, too.

It doesn't work like that. A artist might as well declare that others have to respect their art because they respect it themselves.

[blackeagle007]

it’s in this country tried culture. Everyone is so focused on visuals

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Fatphobia stems from misogyny.

[DryGermanGuy]

It doesn’t. I had a fat boy in my school class and a fat colleague in my office. They both got stared at wherever they go.

[andreasderjuengere]

I am not biased.
I simply don't like the looks.

[Anonymous]

They assume they are lazy

[jahaims]

Because it's disgusting

[hello4433]

I have no idea.