Agree or Disagree, if you've had a shit ton of bad experiences with people, then you're definitely the problem?

[Anonymous]

Agree

Disagree

[MemeSupreme]

there's truth to it, altho it's not that simple for EVERY case

like i grew up in bad environments, so i'm gonna have a shit ton lol yet i've had way more okay or good experiences. its just my brain focuses way more on the bad ones

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If the only common denominator is your presence, it’s most likely you, yeah.

[egan3141]

If by problem, you mean the bad person, then no. Could be, but not definitely are. If you mean, you should have left already, then yes. In that sense, they are they problem. Don't stay in areas where everything around you sucks.

[OneViewpoint]

It means you're likely part of the problem. Poor judgement. Poor social skills. Anger issues. Poor choices. But you can't blame kids in a bad family situation. They have little control over their lives.

[msc545]

No, that does not make you the problem. That makes the people that created the bad experiences for you the problem. I realize blaming the victim is what you're all about here, but that's actually not valid.

[Sal_Monella]

I am not sure what a shit ton is. But I will agree that a lot of Bad experiences means that your judgment is poor, which means the problem is with you.

[Anonymous]

Not unless you're a jerk. If you are not a jerk, then people are the problem for certain reasons.

[laert]

It's up to you, how you look about bad things? You focus on what? Like that etc.