What is it with Americans thinking they are tough with their personality, when most can't handle the truth like Europeans, Russians, etc?

Most Americans ask bullshit questions like"how are you to strangers," when most of them don't give a you know what how the other person is doing and people that they aren't close to. If the other person says they are not good , than the other person would get annoyed, etc. Most Europeans, etc. handle the truth and when they ask how you are doing, they mean it. Same with most Americans can't handle how most other Americans that they know don't care about them, they melt when they know. If you tell a Russian that someone doesn't care about them, they dgaf.

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They aren't tough
What is it with Americans thinking they are tough with their personality, when most can't handle the truth like Europeans, Russians, etc?
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