What’s surprisingly more traumatizing than most people realize?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Being coerced, forced, threatened to abortion against your will. It’s common for women who’s gone through it to develop mental health issues, some even become suicidal. But the whole issue is taken very lightly, unserious by so many people and the issues are never aknowledged or allowed to talk about. Even feminists who love to preach womens choice only talk about the right to abort, never about the right to keep it without outside pressure to abort. The people against surrogacy argue women are taken advantaged of if they chose to carry a child for someone else, and they can’t consent to that so it should be illegal - but the same issues of women being abused emotionally, bullied, threated or pressured into aborting, men taking advantage of womens bodies not using protection and then pressure her to abort if she ends up pregnant. Never talked about or problemized. Women who’ve had an abortion are many times more likely to suffer mental health issues or suicide after than women who’ve not had one, even she wasn’t pressured the rate of mental health issues are significantly higher, and even higher than that if they were pressured. Never talked about and people don’t seem to realize or care.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think when a parent tries to enforce physical fitness and academic training through social humiliation and hostile social pressure. I know many adults that have mental illness because they sacrificed their mental and moral health to achieve easy romantic relationships and financial skills. It has hampered their marital prospects and led to divorce for half of them.

[Anonymous]

Probably anal sex entered raw (no or minimal lube, (especially if it's not water-based) - ouch 🤕😳 🕳️ and with a "pump and pump vigour"

Ouch! 😣

And probably anything else that involved even a paper cut
Paper cuts sting :( 🩸 🤕

[Opinion Owner]

Those poor 20s/30s prime ladies - 😅🤭 some men are such pump and dumpers 🩸😣

[jshm2]

Getting into life or death fights.

Everyone thinks it's like a video game, where the guy who walks away does so "better". It can fuck you up for a while, when the adrenaline wears off.

[ProbablyClueless]

Family and friend dynamics where people keep each other humble.

It's not healthy. You aren't building camaraderie. You're just making it unsafe to express joy about good things.

[exitseven]

When you lose your job. Especially for the first time.

[jahaims]

School