Who gets more hate in today's society, men or women?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Controversial question day today!

Who do you think gets more hate in today's society and why do you think that? I am sure this will probably go down blue vs pink profiles in most cases, but maybe I will be surprised. I will be civil in my responses, if I give one, so I expect the same from you. Also keep in mind I am not just referring to Western culture for you Americans out there.

[MisterWack]

I feel we all get shitted on for unjustified reasons.
If you type the wrong opinion or the overall message was there except for a few weirdly phrased sentences then you get dunked on, when the economy is bad we all get dunked on, when there’s a little Tweet or something made by a woman or man that targets a specific demographic for the world’s issues you all get dunked on for the bad words of one pushed onto the group (men utilize one woman saying something stupid against all men and say “see? all women are trash”.

Women have it hard, men have it hard because this is the internet. The internet sucks because everyone has an opinion, opinions stink.
Maybe this is one of those stinkers.

We should strive to be kind to one another, hear eachother and what they have to say, and go “we might not agree, but let’s not tear eachother apart over stupid arguments like this”.

I will say women do receive hate louder. Men can be very loud and influential more than women so, that hate spreads like wildfire, not to mention the other women tearing their own apart too. Not to say men aren’t capable of being on the receiving end or dishing on their own, but women seem to have it more and more.

[MisterWack]

Thanks for MHO, happy to share my opinion.

[DryGermanGuy]

I think for women the threshold is lower, they are getting hate just for being women (or "females", in certain circles). Men get hate for giving an adversarial/controversial opinion.

[tonita926]

Men don’t realize how rude they are nor care about women being more sensitive than men are.

[Apple1996]

Women. Just look up those gender reveal disappointment videos when the dads start going crazy and violent because the confetti is pink. There is hate for women even before we are born

[blackeagle007]

Women are shallow

[Apple1996]

@blackeagle007 some are yeah

[blackeagle007]

I didn’t mean that. Dunno what to say. People from both sides suck

[Apple1996]

@blackeagle007 lol its okay

[blackeagle007]

You good people.

[Apple1996]

@blackeagle007 awh thanks 😊

[4ngelic]

up into lately would have said men, but now it's women for sure

[Staglioni]

I think there's a lot more men hating on women nowadays than there used to be, maybe because in the last generation or so there is an increase in the amount of women really destroying a man's life as it's now possible to do so, whereas before you were just second class citizens in a sense. But there's also a lot of total sweethearts out there getting lumped in with the man-hating life destroyers, just like there's a lot of decent men out there getting lumped in with a patriarchy that we have nothing to do with. Most people are just trying to get through the day anyway and don't want to step on anybody. I got carried away there, what was the question? Ah yes. Women, by a hair, if I have to pick one.

[HawkPerception]

Men are hated much more than women in my opinion. Women genuinely hate men and many of them think we're all dangerous predators that are out to rape them any chance we get. It's why they chose the bear over men.

Men don't hate women. We love women. The only thing we dislike is when women are illogical, which seems to be the case for many women nowadays and I would argue the majority of Western women.

Men are walking the other way in dating and choosing peace because women expect too much out of us and don't expect to bring anything to the table themselves.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

• "I am not just referring to Western culture for you Americans out there."

Addendum: Just in case there was a misunderstanding about where the "West" is:

I don't believe this "today's society" you're referring to actually exists, because there are way too many countries, cultures and societies to account for. And even if I assumed their views could be unified, I don't believe there is any way to measure what you want to measure.

[MrChinaski]

https://xkcd.com/503/

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

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[MrChinaski]

One question. As a French person, how would you rank your cultural proximity or affinity to Germany, the UK, Greece, Algeria, the USA, Japan and Korea.

As a white native-born Australian, I think we feel closest to the "five eyes", in the order NZ, UK, Canada, USA. Then probably France, Greece, Italy and Germany in no particular order, but not much at all the rest of the EU. Then maybe pacific islanders.

[Lliam]

Probably women. Not that men don't get their share of hate, too.

Lots of men hate them these days because those guys think "feminism" has made life unfair for men. So, consequently, they treat all women with disrespect and disdain.

Women have always been vilified for having premarital sex. Are men ever called whores or sluts?

Women get criticized for not getting married and having babies, as if it is an obligation and is their only value.

Women get criticized for wanting the right to abortion if, for some unfortunate reason, they should need one.

Single mothers get criticized.

Men blame women for divorce and for having to pay settlements.

Women can be mean to other women.

Trannies and their allies are trying to eliminate definition of womanhood and motherhood entirely. And they vilify women who object to men in women's spaces and women's sports.

[glennos89]

I know that their is this hidden agenda in which the elites are trying to de-populate the planet and one of their missions is to spread hate between men and woman. They do this with the help of social media, television, education etc etc. The goal is to stop people from having children as much as possible and gender hate is really effective tool
Also they started teaching children in school the lgbtq bullshit which also will result in less people getting children of their own because a lot of children will end up with a gender crisis not knowing what they are.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Elites must be really dumb then, since less population means less power and less cash for them.

Yet, they don't seem that dumb, looking at how they're still in power since... Forever?

[glennos89]

Its easy to maintain control over cows but when you have 7 billion its becomes pretty hard to keep them within your fences

[Smileygirl2000]

I feel women have it worse because we get hate from men and other women. Yes! Other women can be our worst enemies the bullying, jealousy, envy and rage. Prime example, the tragic story of selena

[NathanDavis]

well, since you're making it about gender...

women get more hate... not only from men, but also themselves

women are often like those crabs in the bucket...

[MrChinaski]

Good point. My impression is women judge women far more harshly than men judge men.

[NathanDavis]

@MrChinaski I don't know about more or less... but differently, yes

[MissSunshine2]

Tough question to answer. I'd say both genders, in different areas, in first world countries.

[MrChinaski]

Women, clearly. Haven't you noticed?

Significant numbers of men utterly despise the existence of women.

Women belittle men constantly in conversation, media, rules, laws, advertising, recruitment, education, etc. It's utterly disgusting and unconscionable... but... a thousand paper cuts doesn't make a chainsaw cut.

[MrChinaski]

There is a beautiful irony that women have sought equality from microdegradations by men through microdegradations of men.

[Cidknee]

I like it! Every word. The second part too.

[katiesmuff]

That is a prize one has to earn and my guess is that it's probably pretty even across genders.

[TonyMetal___86]

Both can be hated, but usually men receives more hate because in general men are blamed for everything!

[AviatorTom]

Men. With women always guaranteeing that they are ever wrong, how can we men be anything but wrong all the time. 😏

[RavVid]

I'll play - Men. Despite what they do women always claim to be victims and media generally backs that up.

[sawno]

Definitely and more systemically men to the point of active discrimination.

[_Jenny_]

@Ez-Bri-Z_v2 I suppose it’s the men. But maybe because I am bi, I have said things about men that I regret, sorry guys

[tonita926]

Women I do because we get shame for our weight and age and men are less likely to get criticized in those departments.

[Cidknee]

Well, on one hand you have the groups of folks cushioning women from harsh realities. On the other you hear terms such as toxic male, castration, and down with the patriarchy.
Hummm, I don’t know! That's a tough one!

[genericname85]

Men obviously. Cause nobody says hating men is not ok. Meanwhile you can't even say anything negative about women. Even if it's true

[Iron_Man]

Men always get blamed because they’re men

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I mean, women get blamed for many issues men supposedly face too, don't we?

[Iron_Man]

Yes at times but I’ve seen where women get the backing

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Must be women, cause the hate we're getting on here has got me feeling better than I've felt in awhile.

[sirderpsalot123]

Men. I'm convinced women hate any man who isn't the "exception" the exception being their father, brother, husband, etc..

[exitseven]

definitely men.

[Godihateyou]

Men. Because it is run terribly by women. That's what's called the decline. Story as old as time. Every single civilization has crumbled 3 generations after giving woman any rights.

[Danzigdawson]

Women. By far.

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

based on what i see on x , it seems a lot people roasting bibi and trump , so its men i guess?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Hate for what?

Just because of their gender, so sexist stereotyping or because they suck as individuals?

[Agape93]

Women. Hands down.

[Anonymous]

women obviously

[Dargil]

Men do. We are prejudged. Women are case by case.

[Chazmatazz269]

Men, and it’s not even close.

[CherryLove007]

Men get more hate until proven otherwise.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So prove it.

[CherryLove007]

The men have to disarm themselves and prove it before they will be taking at their word.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

And women have to fight just to be heard and respected at their word. Keeping your head down and going with the flow doesn't work, but in the same respect, if we do fight for respect then we are considered bitches.

Soooo next point?

[CherryLove007]

Yes agreed. We all are accountable and should be offered respect. Fairness is unequal but women are hating men now more and more for various reasons.

[CherryLove007]

Riddle me this? Who is the most hated powerful man in America right now?

[CherryLove007]

I know why you stated this... Also keep in mind I am not just referring to Western culture for you Americans out there.

[CherryLove007]

He happens to be a world wide influencer and power monger.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

What does Trump or Netanyahu have to do with anything?

[CherryLove007]

smh,,, do I need to babysit here again?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So one or two guys get VERY deserved hate and suddenly that speaks for the whole gender? Do better than that.

[TonyMetal___86]

Since i am a trustworthy man, i never had any difficulties to prove myself in anything...

I think that even you two trust me easily, if you knew me in real life, you'd never ask me twice for anything, it's because you know that i don't even know how to lie 😄

[CherryLove007]

@Ez-Bri-Z_v2 then go look up peer studies on who is more hated in this era then if you got such a nagging itch up your ass to know then.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Lmao someone got triggered

[MrChinaski]

@cherrylove007 Is what you are saying that men's behaviour is more constrained? i. e. they are punished for being outside the 'manbox'. www.acalltomen.org/.../

[tonita926]

Do you think men are allowed to call women fat if they think that they are fat?

[Mike_Hum]

Men by far, and it’s not even close.

[MrChinaski]

Can you elaborate?

[Mike_Hum]

@MrChinaski There's been an assault on masculinity going on for decades.

[Amur8711]

In the western world, Men.

[AgentG111]

Men and mostly a certain category of Men.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the country, and on the person.

[Shawnmccoy]

Women.

[FunkyMonkee]

Men, OBVIOUSLY!!

[jenna815]

Women---- "Friend"

[beefcakebradybatson]

N******* !!!