Why do so many women seem unsure about serious relationships today?

[Anonymous]

It’s truly puzzling to me. On dating apps, most attractive women are “figuring out their dating goals” or “still figuring it out” and it’s a bit disappointing and actually disturbing to me.

We live in a society where women can easily find a good man and settle down, it’s never been easier with online dating, and yet they are outwardly unsure what they even want.

As a man who wants nothing more than to find a wife and ultimately have children, I see many eligible women but they seem to be truly lost in this modern society. How do you continually put off the finer things in life in finding a good man that wants to father your children?

[Dargil]

They want to have their careers intact and have no children. They are holding out to find the "right guy". Too many think they are 10's and feel they deserve one. Many fail and run out of time and become political lesbians. They are mostly educated white women.

[Asker]

Yet they want a man that makes more than they do, but fail to realize that is way more unlikely to happen because the workforce nearly doubled when they entered it and are now competing for the same jobs that pay relatively half of what they did before? Yep. I don't know why they even want to work so bad. We could be the providers that they want if things weren’t the way they are now.

[mrshooiser]

Dargil said it best here but he is right.

[Mike_Hum]

Modern women are so fucked up. I feel for you, man. But go places where good quality women frequent…like churches.

[jennifer_bloom]

A relationship is an action, not a proposition or opportunity. If a woman does not dialogue or mutually exchange messages and emotions with you over time, the opportunity you offer her is inconsequential and the same as no opportunity at all.

[MzAsh]

Marriage and kids aren’t everything in life. Try to relax and focus on those who do want the same things as you.

[Asker]

I can’t relax these days, I’ve been hustling hard. I didn’t get out of work until 8 o’clock tonight. On a Friday! When we get let go normally at 2:30! At least I’m getting OT but I just been wondering what I’m even doing it all for lately. I have nobody to come home to, or provide for.

[MissSunshine2]

I think that people today have too many options. Or they have the illusion of it. Some of those top three percent people must be fake or married.

[mrshooiser]

They want to put their career first. Its obvious love and relationships and even family come last. You work to death to get no where besides an empty house and no happiness in life.

[In_Trance]

Because so many women don't easily find good men. They find shitbags

[objective_calendar]

Dating apps suck

[Asker]

Yes they do

[jahaims]

Poor societal and cultural values

[beenherebefore]

Trust issues.