Why do many women not get why casual sex is a big deal for single men?

[Anonymous]

Most average and ugly guys when single have it hard to get laid for free, so when it happens to them their self esteem goes up. Women don't know why it is a big deal because to them they can get laid easy for free outside of a relationship regardless how they look.

[RespectfulGuy]

Guy to guy so I'll be direct.

Girls DO understand and know very well guys want to get laid, for free. Yes, they are not fools.

Girls just do NOT want to be treated like a sex object. And most importantly, they know that they are the ones carrying the baby should pregnancy occurs. And to add on, too many modern guys after making a girl pregnant, refuse to assume the needed responsibility.

Hence, honest and direct, girls DO get it. They just not want to get less from the deal. And for religious ones, sex is sacred and reserved for marriage only. And for those principled and know what they want, they seek more than a momentary burst of pleasure. And they what a guy who doesn't show desperation in G@G.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Talk about yourself, it's a big deal to upgrade from human to animal yes!

I agree with @Ez-Bri-Z_v2 especially when she said that it must be in a relationship in order to have a meaning for it!

That's the main reason why i don't have casual sex and i have been without sex for 12 years and counting and before that, i never had sex until marriage!

Is it hard? YES! but i have always searched for real love, that's the big deal for me, sex comes with it, finding sex is very easy to me but finding real love needs a miracle, plus to me sex only means eating something without a taste, love gives it that delicious taste and gives it a meaning, i also like it special and sacred!

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Oh goodie! We can get laid for free as if the risk of pregnancy, disease, being shamed, etc are all motivators in doing just that.

Why are some guys so dense? They are the ones who want meaningless sex and get mad because they think we are the ones out there doing it. Sure, a small percentage of women might be, but a vast majority don't. It's much more meaningful in the confines of a relationship and safer too.

These guys who are so desperate for casual sex end up also being the ones who either commit rape or say they understand why some men take it by force.

[Agape93]

Oh we know and understand. What isn't understood, is why guys keep pushing for sex they're not entitled to. We aren't objects for your pleasure and self esteem, but that's all we are to people like you.

[Anonymous]

It's not hard for me at all. There are plenty of average guys you'll see the bar getting laid while you go back to your incel reddit crying about not getting laid.

I've seen homeless dudes on the streets walking around with a girlfriend. You have an internet connection and I am assuming your own place and you failed at getting them.

If you think you're a loser because you didn't stick your dick inside a vagina and ejectulated in it then you have more serious problems to worry about that is not related to getting women.

I am a regular ass guy and it's easy as fuck for me.

[FreyaRed]

Pay a hooker if you see this as some kind of achievement.

[Asker]

I guess you didn't read the words for free. Did you even read the details?

[Asker]

It is hard for men to get laid for free when single so when they get laid it feels a great self esteem

[FreyaRed]

Your hand is for free, otherwise you have to offer something to get something in return.
What do you want? Pity, empathy, satisfaction of you vanity?

[Abbycado]

We don’t just have sex for no reason to please you.

[Asker]

Women have sex for free outside of relationships easy even if they are fat ugly, average, etc. Guys that are single only have it easy getting laid for free when they are good looking. Average and ugly guys make it a big deal when it happens because it is very hard for them. So to them they are so happy when to happens.

[Agape93]

Kinda says something about men willing to basicslly fuck an ugly pig because they're that lazy

[MrChinaski]

Sex with strangers makes you feel powerful? Weird.

[canamlusciouslad73]

Women are taught that for them to be randy is slu*tish, while lusty lads are being boys.

[Anonymous]

Better question is: Who cares about the ones who don't get it? Those aren't the women you're going to get it from anyway.

[Anonymous]

Who'd want casual sex or any sex for that matter

[Anonymous]

Good for you?