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Do people sometimes lie to themselves to stay within their comfort zone.. a comforting lie may offer temporary emotional safety and relief, while a painful truth can disrupt our peace but create opportunities for long-term growth and healing…
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Better to know a painful truth. It will hurt to begin with but it will heal. A comforting lie is manipulation which would mean that my trust has been used and abused and also that another person has made a decision for me which in my mind is an act of pure selfishness.
I need truth in my life.
I can forgive a truth
No mater the pain
But a lie is trying to get over on me and that's bad because the truth always comes out no matter what
Absolutely..
I can say that probably 80% of people prefer hearing comforting lies than truths. Most of those on here say they want to hear the truth but in reality, they would tear you apart once you tell them an uncomfortable truth about themselves.
I learned this the hard way... most people try to run far away from who they actually are. Never force someone to acknowledge the truth, it will never work. It will just lead to ruined relationships and them to think of you as the bad guy.
The lie might feel good in the moment, but is the worse decision long term. Best to know the truth.
I always wanna know. I don't like when people lie to me
i think there's no objective answer to this. i personally prefer painfull truth cause i don't want to be delusional and want to live in the real world.
The painful truth, but as with anything, there are exceptions to the rule.
I prefer the TRUTH. Lies usually get someone, sometimes me, in trouble. 😏
Truth is best.
Lies lead to failure, destruction, misery.
The truth is always better but the immense majority of people don't like it because it often challenges you and possibly forces you into change and that's something people don't like at all.
Most people here certainly prefer comforting lies.
Suicidal Empathy is an addictive drug
Truth, people who want lies aren't emotionally healthy and cope in unhealthy ways
Truth but truth doesn't always need to be uncomfortable
Depends on what exactly the subject is
It's always better to know the painful truth IMHO.
comforting lies, since we have been told this since birth
give me the truth any day
Painful truth!
Truth
Truth.
truth