How can I catch him off guard?

[xLIKEwOwX]

I have been with my guy for about 9 months. We had been very close friends before that for over a year. Anyway, we've done almost everything together. I'm moving away in a few days and I don't know when I'll see him again. I'm afraid it may lead to a break-up, even though I am madly in love with him. I want to do something different, surprise him, catch him totally off guard. I usually do the same stuff.. and I want to be able to pleasure him in ways he's only dreamt of. What do you think? Any advice would be great!

[Anonymous]

This might seem off the wall to most and this is why I am responding anonymously. After a breakup with a girl after being together for over a year. The breakup was sort of complicated, but we still tried to keep it together and spent time together and had sex for many months after although not together any longer. We had been living together prior to the split.

This is nothing I dreamt of at the time, but certainly something I have thought of consistently ever since. That was 9 years ago and one of the last few times I seen this girl in person.

It was a rainy afternoon, we were lying in bed just being together. We had spent the prior night together and had sex the prior night, we did not have sex that morning. Nearly out of nowhere, she proceeded to ask me to bend over butt in the air on the bed and face down. She proceeded to spread my cheeks and lick me. She gave me a rimjob. It was the most memorable sexual experience I have ever had, and the only time since this was done to me.

PS: It was memorable, but didn't change our relationship.

[xLIKEwOwX]

That's probably the only thing we haven't done.. well, we haven't done anything in that area. is that a big thing for guys? do guys enjoy anal sex? I guess I'm kind of a prude who really likes sex. I'd really like to show him how crazy I can be, though...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think most guys like anything anal. Certainly no penetration. Prior to my experience I would have avoided it entirely. If he is a very open type of guy, and you just do it, he will remember it forever. That is crazy.