Would sending a girl a pic of your abs make her want you more?

[Mr_is_fine]

so lets say I met this girl, got her number. Now, with my clothes on, I look like I have a completely average physique. You would never know I work out or have rippled abs (I'm not a large built guy, so its not obvious). Would sending her a pic through sms of my abs make her want me more? Any guys have experience on this? Ladies what are your thoughts, how would you feel about the guy after getting the pleasant surprise to see from a pic he sent you that he has some amazing abs?

[Anonymous]

Hmmm, I think I'd rather have the surprise in person. Ya know? If she gave you her number, then she's probably expecting a date or w/e. So, she's already attracted to you on some level. Haha, then to actually feel how hard you (your abs/chest) are through an embrace... when she doesn't really know to expect it... that's an instant turn on. For me at least. I like surprises though. Lol.

Another way to look at it is this, depending on the girl, she may think that you sending a pic of your abs to her prematurely (meaning after only receiving her phone number) is a little immature or even too forward.

However, she may like it. It completely depends on the girl. I'm sorry I kind of gave two answers. :/

My own preference is to find out in person, but I'm a bit more conservative than a lot of other girls.

[Mr_is_fine]

well she didn't just give it to me, I asked for it and she agreed. Can't say her agreeing to give me her number means anything. A lot of women do it because theyre being nice or have no problem giving out their number...I was planning on talking to her and having some conversation, and then maybe move the topic to how I goto the giym and work hard on my stomach: "heres a pic, I've been working hard on my stomach :P"

[CatholicVirginia]

NO. You can send her a pic of your abs AFTER you date her, but before it's just creepy and incredibly intrusive. Plus, it says to me, "You really should like me, at least for my body." My response to that is immediately, "I think about more than the physical. I don't think we're going to work out." I just rebel against that. I think it's best to play it safe on this one and wait a while.

[Mr_is_fine]

so what if I do it in person, have convo, then move on to the topic of going to the gym and then pull up my shirt. how bout that? Women seem to have no problem when a guy says "feel my muscle" and he flexes his bicep and she feels it, so why should she have a problem with me showing my abs...same idea, just a sexier body part.

[CatholicVirginia]

That would be okay if you time it perfectly. Ottherwise, it's awkward, intrusive, and conceited, and a complete turn-off (once again, to me, not all girls).

[Anonymous]

I'm not really a fan of rock hard abs...I don't mind them (and they're definitely better than a beer gut), but they just don't really do anything for me. If a guy I just met sent me a pic of his abs, I'd assume he was a huge douche and be turned off of his personality, to be honest. Plus, like the anon answerer said, it's better if it was more of a surprise in person.

[TurbulentDan12]

Only if the picture goes right to the stem of your d***. And is taken in the mirror. Like "oops I just happened to have no clothes on why don't I snap a picture". Chicks dig that

[ivarei]

lol

[-Darling]

LOLz

[Prettygurl12]

It might make her like you more...but for the wrong reason. She'll only like you for your body, and, unless you want a one night stand, that's not a good thing. While nice abs are always nice to see, they might not be enough to make a girl like you more.

[Nijababe99]

No it would make her think your a pretty boy that only cares for Looks !

[ivarei]

no. not even in the slightest.

[Mr_is_fine]

so you don't care for guys with nice abs?

[ivarei]

abs are cool, they're not my favorite part of a guy, I prefer shoulders, but if a guy sent me a picture of his arms and shoulders I wouldn't be anymore attracted to him either lol. girls aren't like guys, a girl sends a picture of her t*ts or her legs in garters and guys find that hot, but if a guy sends me a picture of his body I won't be impressed, if he send a picture of his junk, I'll be wierded out.

[Mr_is_fine]

I bet youd be showing the pic off to your female friends bragging about how you "got this stud after you"

[ivarei]

no, I'd block your phone number and talk about the creeper who was sending me gross pix.

[Mr_is_fine]

publicly you would "block me for the gross pix", but privately youd have naughty thoughts lol

[Mr_is_fine]

and you're friends would also be the same way, saying "oh yeah, he's a creeper, block him!", but in their heads, they would be like "damn! hottt"

[-Darling]

grow up

[Mr_is_fine]

you must be bitter because your boyfriend (if you have one) has a beer keg for a stomach lol

[-Darling]

Well no he doesn't lol. But really don't send her a pic of your sexy self thatd be very childish. Act your age, be mature and have character.THAT is what will make her crave you. Sending a pic of your abs is something a 14 year old little boy would do shamelessly. If you did that I swear I would facepalm so hard lol.

[Mr_is_fine]

not many 14 year olds have nice abs

[-Darling]

You do get my point, don't you? ...you asked for opinions and you got my opinion. Use it or throw it, up to you. I'm out of here, bye.

[Mr_is_fine]

bye bye