Why are North American women so cold?

[Anonymous]

I mean the seem to loose interest very fast, they are not very talkative, they are so uptight or closed, they seem to want everythign to fall on their laps and they don't want to work in any relationship.

I am working in Mexico and women here are completely different, they are like the complete opposite.

Why is that?

[Anonymous]

As a NA male I have to agree with your post, as well as the contrast. There were Mexican women where I used to work and they were the warmest and sweetest I have been around on a while. They were flirty also. They always wanted to be around the men, to eat lunch with me, sit on my lap, etc. I didn't even have to try! And they also put the NA women to shame in looks. None of them were obese or ugly. They were really cute with their glittery lipstick and dark curls, and slender curves. And they certainly didn't want anything financial from me, as I was as poor as they were at the time. Others have observed this phenomenon also. I think American women are just spoiled and stuck up and too used to getting everything they want all the time. They can't be happy without constant self gratification. And of course they are taught that men are evil their whole lives and resent us, like we have cooties. Basically American women are little girls who never grew up. Probably why they rank among the lowest globally for mates.

[DutchAtheist]

Because western women don't feel sexy anymore.

Make that: western people don't feel sexy anymore.

All we do is work and pay taxes, being spiritual or emotional is a taboo and nothing is ever good enough in our societies.

In latin countries, but also in eastern Europe or africa, people enjoy life more. They let go every now and then. They sing and dance without being ashamed of it and even if you are not a model you are allowed to feel sexy. Of course life can not be all fun and games but damnit, we should kick back more.

[Anonymous]

Foreign women tend to be very good to north American men or guys from first world countries. I think we can all guess why. They don't treat their own men nearly as good. And I say this as someone with firsthand knowledge. Most of my fam is from Moldova. My cousins are constantly trying to get with foreign guys and couldn't give a sh*t about their own men. They want that green card/a better life.

[Asker]

well I am actually half Mexican and I do speak Spanish...so

[Opinion Owner]

But you're still north American. You can give these women more than most of their own men ever could so they will treat you much better. Honestly, its hard for guys to understand this. They go somewhere and all the girls are suddenly treating them better and they think " wow there's something wrong with NA girls" instead of realizing they are like a shiny toy to foreign women. I say this from my own experience. Not all foreign girls are Like this, but many just use western men

[Asker]

I don't think so, all of these women seem to treat boyfriends the same way.

[Asker]

their boyfriends*

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, its difficult for guys to understand/recognize these behaviors. No doubt they treat their bfs well as do women everywhere, but girls are the same all over the world, and to be honest, in some ways foreign women can be worse. They will sweet talk you and pretend to treat you like a kind because they want a better life for themselves. I have seen my female friends and family members do it many times. They are not bad people, they just want a good life like people in NA

[Asker]

well I am sorry the people you have met are gold diggers...this is my point, these women are not, nor I have seen that type of behavior ...plus your answer doesn't answer my question anyways.

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said its hard for most guys to recognize/acknowledge this behavior because they enjoy the extra attention. My answer to your q is that NA women are not cold, but it may seem that way to you because your not used to being sucked up to by women. Most foreign women are not goldiggers per se but they definitely jump on western men and lead them to believe they treat all men this well(they don't) which leads western men to think there's something wrong with NA women(there isn't)

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not saying this to defend western women because I don't even consider myself one. I'm just tires of seeing guys sh*t on western women on the Internet when they can't even see they're being played. Of course not all foreign women arelike this but many foreign ladies are opportunists, like anyone else

[Asker]

this is just some god awful stereotyping I am talking about cultural differences here, which is different to stereotyping

[Opinion Owner]

No, you're stereotyping.

[Asker]

not at all, pointing cultural differences and beahviours is completely different from calling foreign women gold diggers

[Opinion Owner]

No, you're stereotyping by asking "why are NA women so cold" what you should be asking is why are the NA women I've met are cold. You're saying all NA women are cold and you're just plain wrong. As for the goldiggers, I've explained how it works and how I've seen it personally, its a very common thing but you just don't want to listen. Its OK, many western men don't because, like you, they are enjoying the attention and assume foreign women are always this way

[Asker]

maybe you haven't noticed that not all Mexican women are like that and that all of the women that I have seen are completely happy with their boyfriends and are not willing to sepparate from them even if they know I am from the US and that Mexican men that have studied abroad do notice that North American women are complete ice cubes. You call them gold diggers, yet you are probably jealous that these women do know how to treat men right. Can you blame them for going for foreigners?

[Asker]

Maybe you should learn a thing or two about these women on how to treat men...as not all of us have to subjugate to your bitch swings and being blackmail with no sex. Maybe that way these men wouldn't get tired of NA and start going for their own

[Opinion Owner]

I am not jealous ad I myself am and was raised as a foreign woman. I do not know Mexican women personally that you arr referring to. I have explained many time how it works to you, but you are not listening. This is typical of western men. You cannot even recognize when foreign women are using you, take this from me a foreign woman. As for NA girls, what would they want from a Mexican guy. He can usually not give her a better life which is what women all iver the world want whether they admit it

[Asker]

that's pretty shallow, I am sorry that you are like that...god may help you

[Opinion Owner]

I myself am not like that, but many foreign women are.

[CasaNorba]

That is not true. I've met more women back in my native country then I do here in American and not one of them have brought up that green card subject. On the contrary the ones that did wanted the green card are always strait forward and would negotiate with me such as telling me to pretend that I'm marry to them so I can bring them in the country easier than they would pay me later. Not one of them had ever seduced me, tricked me, played with my heart for a damn green card.

Anyways if you go to a foreign country, meet someone and he/she manages to get a green card out of you that is no doubt your fault

[peace-love-couture]

Because guys in America are sh*tty and not all foreign women have caught onto that.

[Anonymous]

These girls use western guys

[ComputerScientist]

Western women are complete trash. Fuck em. Bring in foreign women and get rid of the genetic garbage of American women.

[michael0314]

Eh, look at a map or globe? Mexico is part of North America LOL

[Asker]

lol eeeh true but I meant to say people from English speaking countries like Canada and United States

[CasaNorba]

All the women outside America are the completely opposite

[Anonymous]

Because women in Mexico need a man to provide for them while women in North America don't? A man is a necessity in Mexico while he's more of a want in North America? I don't know.

[Asker]

i work with these women...so they can provide for themselves -_-

[NoOneListens21]

Some people are like that =/ I wouldn't say it was just women in general. I guess it's who you associate yourself with. lol.

[Asker]

no trust me I have seen some concistencies that makes me think I am right

[NoOneListens21]

uh huh

[Anonymous]

North American women love all men except North American men. And it's because North American are sh*tty

[Cowboy6666]

Because they live in cold areas... :D

[diegoD]

i would agree that most of what you say