Is kissing someone else on a truth or dare game cheating?

[Anonymous]

Well that's what happened last week. It was just a truth or dare game but it only lasted seconds. Kind of feel guilty but that was the dare for $5.

I don't even know if to tell or not. I don't want this to cause too much of hassle and well we were all tipsy during the game.

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I'm 17 and my bf's 18. The one I kissed (french kissed) was some acquaintance we know but boyfriend doesn't.

[Girljustwannahavefun]

That is crazy waters there. I think whether it meant something or be you should tell your boyfriend because not telling him is just something to hide and relationships are based on trust and no secrets(to an extent) if or me I know that if it was a date it doesn't matter it may not be cheating but it is not really cool to kiss someone else even if it's a dare. Tell your boyfriend. If you explain that it meant nothing and you were kind of gypsy he would understand. Just think if your boyfriend did that would you bee cool with it. If you would be then that's great and he would also not or should not care.

[Prettygurl12]

Yes, that's cheating. I'd dump my boyfriend if he did that even if it was just a game. And I know he'd dump me if I did that. Neither one of us would even give the other a chance to explain. As soon as the words, "I kissed another.." came out of either of our mouths, the one hearing it would be like, "Don't even continue. It's over. Get out of my life."

Both of us have that mentality on the subject so it works out. Better hope your guy is more lenient.

[Anonymous]

Really? How would you feel if he did that to you.. ugh.

[Asker]

Upset

[Opinion Owner]

then why would you even need to ask this question? use your head girlfriend.. just sayin.

[Asker]

I guess I didn't see it that way before but I do now. I hope he doesn't find out.

[Opinion Owner]

:/ You should tell him the truh... hopefully he forgives you..

[Shadow44]

I would say anything that you feel like you need to hide from your significant other would be considered cheating. Though to be honest it also depends on what your partner thinks about it. I'm unsure whether or not to tel him in your case. I would have avoided the situation if it were me or talked to him about what he consideres cheating before hand.

[Prof_Don]

If you have any inkling your boyfriend won't like you kissing another guy...then yes you cheated.

Sounds like you don't like your boyfriend enough to turn down a dare in some game for $5!

Sad. Truly sad.

[Prof_Don]

You do know this is how women become whores and prostitutes, right? Always starts small.

[mike5150]

That depends if you knew your boyfriend was French kissing some other girl you would be fine with it?

[Asker]

I think not. I guess I would be mad for a couple days.

[mike5150]

You would be fine with it after a couple days?

[Asker]

Not sure. But I would sure want to find out who was the girl he kissed if that happened.

[Anonymous]

yes